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Purplegirl1008 · #1 08-07-2012, 05:24 PM

So today I went to Jesse's grandma's house and the lady I work for calls me (I was living with her also) and says I need to come get my stuff, that she is having me banned from her building and she got a new caregiver. She won't tell me why or what I did. So after waiting out in the sun for an hour for the bus I finally got there to get my stuff and I'm trying to carry it all and the bags were ripping and my stuff was falling out all over the street. So I just sat down and cried. I need him so bad ):

Isaacsweetie · #2 08-07-2012, 05:29 PM

Oh no that is horriable! At least Jesse is going to be home in a week. Are you going to stay at Jesse's grandmas with him?

Purplegirl1008 · #3 08-07-2012, 05:37 PM

Idk what I'm gonna do. I'm so sick from the sun and all sunburnt and now jobless on top of all the stress i already had ):

Isaacsweetie · #4 08-07-2012, 05:40 PM

Chin up honey...your man is coming home in a week. I am sure he is gonna help in anway that he can. Try going to a church or something in the area. See if they can help.

Purplegirl1008 · #5 08-07-2012, 05:45 PM

I've tried churches before when I was down n out and no one would help. All the shelters are full or I can't stay at them cuz I've used up my time for the year...I just need to talk to him so bad and just cry. I feel so horrible right now.

Isaacsweetie · #6 08-07-2012, 05:52 PM

I would maybe try the churches again. You never know maybe something has changed somewhere and they could help. I am so sorry you are going through this. That really sucks.

Miss_A · #7 08-08-2012, 05:49 PM

I thought you were living with a friend? And if you had the job long enough, you can apply for unemployment. Sorry you lost your job. Hope you're able to get back on your feet very soon.

Purplegirl1008 · #8 08-09-2012, 08:50 AM

I was staying with a friend, but her boyfriend was tired of people living with them (her brother was staying there too and so was their friend, on top of that they have 4 kids living with them) so I was like, oh, well I'll just go stay with this lady until Jesse gets out. It was only going to be for like 2 weeks. Things were going fine. But I have been super stressed lately and was having a little attitude probably. But I wasn't mean to her or anything. I kind of knew something was about to go down, because she asked me for my key, saying hers "wasn't working in the back door". She had taken my key away from me before (I stayed with her here and there the past year or so) but I apologized to her for having a little attitude. Yeah I know it wasn't right to have an attitude, but she was like a mom to me (she always called me her daughter) so I knew I could vent to her and tell her anything. She knew I was stressed out about getting everything ready for his homecoming. Let me stress again, I was NOT mean to her in any way shape or form nor did I say anything mean to her. After I apologized to her she said she was not mad at me and knew I was stressed out and still loved me.

The part that hurts the most is she would just do this over the phone, and get so upset enough to fire me and ban me from her building. She could have just talked to me and been like "hey you are having an attitude lately and I don't like it. So cut it out!" and I would have been more careful about how I was acting. I'm so used to going over and spending time with her and just joking around with her being silly. She really was like a second mom to me (mine passed in 2005). So it's hard knowing that I don't get to go over to her house anymore and see her. Oh well guess I'll get over it in time. My baby comes home in a week! (:

I'm not sure how unemployment works but I've never qualified for it before cuz I haven't really held jobs for too long.

Purplegirl1008 · #9 08-09-2012, 08:57 AM

I was actually gonna be put on her lease, she had paperwork from her doctor saying she needed a live in caregiver so we were going to have me staying there legally (she can have people there for like 2 weeks at a time but her property manager was always making a big deal about her having guests). They had to do a background check on me and I assumed it would be easy to be her live-in but then they wanted me to do their whole long application and after looking at it I was like idk about this. They wanted to visit my friend's house where I had been staying and I knew she wouldn't go for that. Plus the lady I worked for was wanting me to stay there for months and months even after Jesse got home, when she knew I was wanting to get a place with him as soon as I could. She wasn't going to even allow him to come over. So I told her I didn't really want to be put on her lease as her live-in and was just gonna stay there until Jesse got home and she was fine with that (she didn't really need a live-in anyway, but got the paper from the doctor that way the property manager couldn't say no, because she did not want me to be homeless).

In a way I wish I would have gotten put on the lease cuz then they couldn't have just thrown me out so easily. On top of that I had spent $100 of my food stamps on her the day before so I was out that then plus all the food I had gotten myself was in the fridge and I got none of that back.

UGH BIG HASSLE. But hey I'm alive and my babe comes home soon. That's all I care about.

InmateLover67 · #10 08-09-2012, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Purplegirl1008

So today I went to Jesse's grandma's house and the lady I work for calls me (I was living with her also) and says I need to come get my stuff, that she is having me banned from her building and she got a new caregiver. She won't tell me why or what I did. So after waiting out in the sun for an hour for the bus I finally got there to get my stuff and I'm trying to carry it all and the bags were ripping and my stuff was falling out all over the street. So I just sat down and cried. I need him so bad ):

When one door closes, another one opens! I am sorry you are going through this, but believe something better is in the making for you.

Jesse will be home soon and you will have all the support you need. Stay strong and know that this to shall pass.

Peace~

DP's Girl · #11 08-09-2012, 09:54 AM

I'm so sorry you are going through these things. What was the plan for your living arrangements once Jesse was home? Maybe you can stay wherever he is planning to stay. Since he will be home in a week maybe they will let move in now.

Purplegirl1008 · #12 08-09-2012, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by InmateLover67

When one door closes, another one opens! I am sorry you are going through this, but believe something better is in the making for you.

Jesse will be home soon and you will have all the support you need. Stay strong and know that this to shall pass.

Peace~

Thank you! Yeah I can't wait to have his support when he gets home. He helped so much yesterday when he called. I got to vent and cry in his ear and he really comforted me. He was so worried about me he called back a second time so he could comfort me some more. Of course some of the things I told him about really upset him so he might have some things to take care of when he gets home (nothing violent or anything) but I just can't wait to have him here to share my day with and to hug and kiss.

Purplegirl1008 · #13 08-09-2012, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by DP's Girl

I'm so sorry you are going through these things. What was the plan for your living arrangements once Jesse was home? Maybe you can stay wherever he is planning to stay. Since he will be home in a week maybe they will let move in now.

I can't really discuss on here the living arrangements, but no I am not able to move in there now. I think I have a place to stay until he gets out so that's good. He told me he was gonna worry all night last night about me but I told him I'd be fine and be careful. I told him I was going to go stay down by the river so he was a lil worried but then I ended up being able to crash at a friend's place.

mandarose · #14 08-09-2012, 11:54 AM

Awe I'm sorry! Ugh sometimes life can be such a b$%@#!!
I hope things get better! Keep your head up! Stay focused.. and hey be happy your man out soon, atleast he can be there better for you in many ways.. smile hun, it could be worse!!

Jay1 · #15 08-09-2012, 11:55 AM

That really sucks I truly hope you find a place soon and are able to solve your problems. I can't imagine how stressful it must be especially so close to his homecoming.