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thatwiz · #26 07-25-2012, 01:43 PM

I have to agree with MrsTaylor. I think its more than the cheating. He's in jail for a crime for a very long time so it was not a little one and he's judging someone over sex. It just seems very unlikely that's his real reason or the whole reason. I would talk to him and ask him what the real reason is and if he brings that up, I would say bullshit..thats just not it. If he doesn't want to be married, thats up to him and you have to respect that, but its not your cheating that is at the root. First and foremost, its his crime and inability to feel empathy for someone who makes a mistake as he has shown he is far from perfect. He needs to get a grip.l

waiting415years · #27 07-25-2012, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by MrsMallory

Men react totally differently to being cheated on than we do. But if he ever loved you then I think he will forgive you in time. So just allow him to be angry and go through is process and don't help him divorce you..he's just hurt right now but I think he'll come to his senses.

Ok, I got a letter from my husband today. He said he want to set me free. He didn't want me to wait for him and miss the important things in life. He didn't want me to have to spend all my weekends driving up there to see him. He said he still loved me and that he wanted me to have a life.

I thought I might share with you how cast the first stone, what really happened.

MrsMallory · #28 07-26-2012, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by waiting415years

Ok, I got a letter from my husband today. He said he want to set me free. He didn't want me to wait for him and miss the important things in life. He didn't want me to have to spend all my weekends driving up there to see him. He said he still loved me and that he wanted me to have a life.

I thought I might share with you how cast the first stone, what really happened.

See he still loves you. He just wants you to be happy and in time he'll understand that ur marriage to him is what makes you happy and in time hopefully you'll regain his trust. 2027 is a long time so I know u understand what he's saying as far as having a life but I know for me even though I only have 2 years left if I did have that long I'd do it because I love my baby soooo much..I think life - in many ways - would be harder without him.