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Old 02-15-2004, 04:29 PM
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I saw a link in another thread to a website that emailed you 33 Questions for couples. I signed up for them and they come 3 a day into my email. So I wanted to post them here for everyone to use without having to get the email.

The ones I got so far are:

1. What rituals could be added to our relationship on a daily, weekly, monthly and yearly basis that would help us to remain close?

2. Do you need to hear "I love you" or similar words on a regular basis from your partner?

3. What does my family do that annoys you?

4. Is it ever appropriate for someone to express anger in a physical way? If so, when and how?

5. If a fire destroyed your home and all of your belongings, what would you do? If you could take out three things before the blaze, what would they be? (Assuming there is no one in the house at the time of the fire.)

6. When you are sick and feeling poorly, do you like to be alone or do you like to be pampered and have someone close to your side most of the time?

7. Do you think you would prefer a calm, loving, consistent marriage or one that was full of excitement, wild times and rocky patches?

8. What makes you feel secure and safe?

9. Which do you think should have the final say in decisions - logic or emotions? Why?


I ad more as I get them daily.
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Old 02-15-2004, 04:46 PM
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Oh thanks! This will be interesting to see what he has to say!!
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when you complete this i will send them to jeff!!! thanks
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I always send my boyfriend those email questionnaires and this one has much better questions. He'll like doing these. Thanks for sharing!
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Old 02-15-2004, 06:06 PM
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yeah i am definitely printing this out for joe, because him and i plan on getting married when he comes home and they are very thought provoking questions....thanks a lot!
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I got these also and we found out things about each other that you wouldn't normally ask. They are great and fun. I got all 33 questions at once on a website and I made two copies. We answer them 2 at a time and we both mail them out on Monday so we get hem on Tuesday and neither of us see's the other's answer before we mail our own! It is something to look forward to. You can but the whole book of 1000 questions and you get 101 romantic ideas e-book free, for about $20.00 It IS an EBOOK, so you upload it to your computer which is convenient in our situations so you can print and mail!! Anyways just in case youre intersted... http://www.theromantic.com/importantquestions.htm
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Old 02-15-2004, 06:56 PM
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I am gonna send these to Chuckie too - how neat!! I am excited - might as well know EVERYTHING about him - we have plenty of time. LOL Although I can't imagine there isn't much I don't already know about him.

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Can't wait to get the new questions thanks for sharing!
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I love these, thank you. I will send these to my guy and we will do them. We agree on a day to mail the answers to each other so that we don't get each others answers before the other. That way we can't influence each other, know what I mean? This helps us so much; not only do we get to know each other better, it gives him something to really think about all day and keeps his mind off of his surroundings and on me!
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Ms Heather... I really like that idea. Thanks for sharing!!

A.lil.love do you still have the whole list?
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This is a cool thing, I also look forward to it. I sent my guy a compatibility quiz I tore out of a magazine - i think it was SELF - and we actually learned a few things by comparing the answers.
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I'm glad that you all like the idea as well. Here are the next set that I got this mornin.


10. What five things have you done in your life that you are most proud of?

11. If your partner had an affair, how would you react? Could you forgive him or her?

12. Over the last five years how do you think you have changed for the worse? Better?

13. On which topics do you feel qualified at giving advice?
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Old 02-17-2004, 02:51 AM
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14. If you could live one year of your life all over again without changing a thing, what year would you choose? Why?

15. Do you prefer receiving expensive gifts or ones that come from the heart?

16. What first attracted you to me? How has that one attraction changed since then?
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Love the questions keep them coming
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Thanx for sharing the questions with us.
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keep the question coming don't forget to post them lol. I have already sent out 1-15 already lol.
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I also enjoyed the questions, thankx 4 sharing. I am looking forward to the rest of them - thankx once again!
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17. If you suddenly became blind, how would your idea of the perfect mate change?

18. Are you currently comfortable with your body? If not, what would you change to make you comfortable?

19. What do you think are your optimum hours of sleep to be fully energized?

20. If you could plan any vacation for us, where would it be?
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thanks again....keep 'em comin'.....great questions! i appreciate them, thanks! a few toughies!
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21. Is there anyone you would be willing to die for?

22. If your dear friends wanted you to donate sperm or eggs because they were infertile, would you do so? How would you feel about your mate doing so? What about donating them for a couple that would remain anonymous?

23. Do you believe there is one right person for you out there in the world or that there can be many different potential mates that you could live blissfully with?
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24. If you and your spouse had two cars, one much nicer than the other, who do you think should drive the newer vehicle? Would it make any difference if only one of you worked?

25. What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing?

26. Is there anything you feel you must accomplish before you die? What steps do you need to take to achieve these goals?

27. Which family members should we buy birthday or special holidays gifts for (parents, siblings, aunts/uncles, grandparents, cousins, etc.)?
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