Why do so many women post about their men treated them badly?

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Originally Posted by LoveMyMeche

Often I think the same thing. There is no way in hell I'm going to put up with someone treating me badly, calling me out of my name, hanging up On me, cheating on me, fussing at me about the amount of money I send, or fussing because I went out with friends, breaking up with me when he feels like it, or coming home and suddenly just wanting to be my friend... I believe in love but in my world love doesn't hurt and when it does, I fall out of it. I notice how quickly people on PTO shut down the stereotypes of women who love incarcerated men... But some of these posts feed right into those stereotypes and it's sad... I just want us women to remember to take pride in loving ourselves as much as the pride we feel about loving our man and holding him down. Just know your worth and demand to be treated like you do.

i agree with you. I couldn't have said that any better! the look i get when i tell someone where my love is, is SO annoying. because its all stereo types... right? i mean oh "she's dating a guy in jail, he must be abusive, a piece of shit and treat her AWFUL, she deserves way better" when in reality he's treated me better than ANY man i've ever dated! even my ex husband!

and then i see on here all the bad stuff guys are doing to their women... im not saying every man is perfect at ALL! or every relationship. because i've been in some bad ones.

BUT, some of the stuff these ladies men are doing and saying... it doesnt look good to me...i feel like fighting is normal once in a while, and disagreeing and all that.... but if you're there for your man in every way. and you're doing everything for him (letters, gifts, phone calls, visits ect...) then he should appreciate that. my boyfriend tried to tell me i was NOT paying money for him to call.... and even tried to get me to take his moms money for it! NOPE. ill pay thanks. and he would never ask me for money or say it wasn't enough...or ask me to do something illegal for him.

the only thing he's whined about was the fact that we only get two one hour visits a week... and that i didnt send him one of my drawings for a week lol.

i understand what these other women are going through with their men acting that way, because unfortunately thats how most men act today, AND i've been through it... for years. so i guess im just lucky to have found someone who deserves me and who i deserve... finally=)

my heart goes out to the women who have to deal with bullshit. and im always there for them to vent to anyway!

im not saying these other men are bad... im saying they are REALLY making bad decisions STILL.... and i just dont think its right, and it DEFF. makes it hard on relationships that arent like that to move past sterotypical remarks.