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Old 05-12-2019, 11:58 PM
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Default Torn - haven't heard from him in almost a month

Itís been almost a month since Iíve received mail from him. I had to change my # to make it local for charges purposes and I still havenít heard from him. I hate it. On one had I feel like eff it and just move on and then on the same hand itís like what if somethings wrong or he canít write or call. This is a lot to take in but Iím so in love with him and canít just give up that easilyómy heart wonít let me. Any advice words of encouragement will be gladly appreciated
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Old 05-13-2019, 12:24 AM
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Does he have enough money on the phone or for stamps?
He won't be in for that long but still he has to deal with a ton of (new) stuff - especially if he's in for the first time.
Do you visit?
Write him and tell him that this silence is not good for you and see what happens...
But if it gets unbearable, make a decision - for you.
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Old 05-13-2019, 12:40 AM
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How can I see if he has enough for stamps? I know he has it for the phone bc we havenít touched it since Iíve changed my number
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You cannot see that at all, this is something you would have to ask him.
Why don't you write to him? Tell him you miss him and you miss hearing from him. Maybe he'll answer you.
Do you maybe have contact to his family?
But if he's not contacting you there might be a reason - money or else. It's hard, I get that but this is something that is out of your hands and you just have to tough it out.
Welcome to prison life... ;-)
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I agree with Muzzy... Write him and let him know how you feel. Sometimes prison life happens and they can't call. Let him know it hurts you. Then if he doesn't respond you can think differently.
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Does it take time for the phone lists the update once the new number was submitted? Did he receive your new number if you wrote to him with it?

Did he get in trouble and this have nothing to do with this number?

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He could have gotten a ticket and put on LOP. Call the prison and ask them if your not sure.
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I spoke to him yesterday and received 3 Motherís Day cards from him also heís ok! Thank God. I canít wait until this chapter is over and weíre ok with our lives physically together.
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Spoke to him again today. He gives me butterflies every time I hear his voice. Itís like everything around me calms and slows down and thereís no one in the world but us in the 15 minute moment. My cheeks hurt from smiling so damn hard. Heís amazing. And I know people donít understand and that makes us even more beautiful. Our bond that much stronger. He truly adds happiness into my life. http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...4a6bbe84ee.jpg
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So pleased for you that you heard from him
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The last time I changed my number was 2015. At that time, the inmate had to notify the prison of the new number for me and then that prison (at that time it was the private prison in Kingman) called to confirm that I was who I claimed to be.

They wouldn't allow me to have 2 numbers at the same time, home and cell. Prior to that I had used my home number, but I was traveling for 6 weeks to see my granddaughter and created an account under my cell phone number. I think it was still Securus then for the phone contractor with the prison.

So, who knows if it was the private prison (then MTC), AZ DOC, or the phone carrier rules that caused them to call me. But, I believe it is DOC that requires them to update the telephone number.
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