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Old 01-03-2011, 10:58 PM
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OK - so, I am not sure if what I think just happened or not -

J called me a bit ago and said he needed my DOB, where I was born, the city, state and county and my social! He wouldn't tell me why - he said he is sending me two letters tomorrow - one is a thick envelope and one is just a single paper. He told me to make sure that I read it with an open mind and know that he loves me! He said that he put it all out there and that he wrote it with alot of heart and emotion. I asked him how I would react when I got it and he said I would probably cry. I asked him if he was breaking up with me and if I needed to get on a dating website and find a new boyfriend (I was joking, of course) and he said I could tell him after I got it. He was supposed to call me Wednesday night but said he was going to wait until Thursday because then I will have gotten the letters. I was "fishing" for anything but he wouldn't tell me. He said I would like it - oh, and then he asked if I knew anyone who was a notary. He said he was "just wondering" and because he might need to get some papers notarized. LOL - Now, from what I've read, he is the ABSENT APPLICANT and the DOB, place of birth, SSN, etc is what HE is to provide but I could be wrong - so either he is confused or I am - either way - is he asking me what I think he is asking me????????? I asked him if he was trying to steal my identity and he said "yes, baby, I wanna bust out of here and be you" - HA HA - I pretended to be thoroughly confused but I have a hunch what it's all about and I am pretty sure that he knows that I know but we are both letting each other play it off -did that make any sense??? I talked to my bestie and she totally thinks that that is what he is asking but I guess I won't know for sure until Thursday! WTH am I supposed to do until then??? I am going to go INSANE!!! AAGGGHHH

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If I rambled, I am sorry - I am just excited, nervous and a little skeptical!!!
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Old 01-03-2011, 11:00 PM
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Ummm if y'all aint married...sounds like a wedding packet to me We shall see!! Let us know what happens!!
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Old 01-03-2011, 11:22 PM
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Ummm if y'all aint married...sounds like a wedding packet to me We shall see!! Let us know what happens!!

That's what I think too because I have no idea what else it could be and we have talked about it. It's not like it would be a huge shocker except he always quits talking about it because he wants to do it on his time when it's a surprise...he should've asked my bestie for the information! LOL -I guess I will be stalking the mailman on Thursday and I swear to Buda..if it's late and I don't get anything, I will SCREAM!

I will definitely let ya'll know!!! Even if it's bad! So ya'll can pick me up!
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Wedding packet...That's exactly where my mind went with the Q's about the SS#, the DOB and stuff.
And yes...PLEASE...let us all know what it is!!
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Im guessing its a wedding packet too. I'd put some money on it. I'm excited for you girl!!! You better update us!
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Bird, please do not go postal or give the mailman SHAKING POSTAL WORKER SYNDROME!!! I hope he is popping the question hun so we can do the happy , I will be keeping an eye on this one so we can see what happens.
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He does not need your social to fill out the absent applicant form. There is no marriage packet in Texas and no real reason he'd need your social. I'm not saying he's doing anything bad, but sending my social security number into a prison is probably one of the last things I would do just cuz my man isn't the only person who's gonna read it.
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He does not need your social to fill out the absent applicant form. There is no marriage packet in Texas and no real reason he'd need your social. I'm not saying he's doing anything bad, but sending my social security number into a prison is probably one of the last things I would do just cuz my man isn't the only person who's gonna read it.
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I have no idea what to do with myself until I get it - I mean, do I just answer the phone when he calls and say "yes" - do I say "sure" - do I check yes or no and send it back! LOL - and shaking postal worker syndrome - that's too funny!

I will feel like a jack wagon if that's not what it is or if he changes his mind - lol - dude, that would suck butt!!! LOL -

TRUST ME - I will post as soon as I get it! I told him I didn't want to want until Thursday and he said "Well, tell the postman to bring it to you Wednesday" - boy has jokes! NOT!!!

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Old 01-03-2011, 11:51 PM
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He does not need your social to fill out the absent applicant form. There is no marriage packet in Texas and no real reason he'd need your social. I'm not saying he's doing anything bad, but sending my social security number into a prison is probably one of the last things I would do just cuz my man isn't the only person who's gonna read it.
You are correct, he doesn't need MY ssn - or my DOB or place of birth or any of that - it's the ABSENT APPLICANT who needs to provide that information but I think he got confused unless he's assuming I am the absent applicant!

Sec. 2.007. AFFIDAVIT OF ABSENT APPLICANT. The affidavit of an absent applicant must include:
(1) the absent applicant's full name, including the maiden surname of a female applicant, address, date of birth, place of birth, including city, county, and state, citizenship, and social security number, if any;


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I think marriage is in the air and coming your way! I'll pray that's what it is ! Good things are happening today for a lot of us. My man was GRANTED parole today !!!! I just want to scream it out to the whole world. Let us know when you get a chance if it is what we all think it is !
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OH NO! The mood is alive again! I think there was just some confusion!!!
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I think marriage is in the air and coming your way! I'll pray that's what it is ! Good things are happening today for a lot of us. My man was GRANTED parole today !!!! I just want to scream it out to the whole world. Let us know when you get a chance if it is what we all think it is !

YEAH!!! That is fantastic news!!! I know we've PM'd before about my job situation and there was "movement" today with that today also! I am LOVING 2011! LOL

When does he get to come home??? That is so awesome! I am so happy for you!!!
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Congratulations girl!!!! You deserve it, I'm happy for you!!!

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UGH!!!! I still have one more day before I get my mail and I am climbing the walls. I cannot wait until tomorrow!! I hope I get my mail tomorrow. I got a letter today but it was a letter that he had sent prior. I was thrilled to still get his letter but I want my "letter" that he is referring to!!!!
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I am going to be watching and see what happens. I am hoping its what my first instinct was!!!
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Im probably gonna be the next party pooper but i would not send my social security either.. (sorry but that's just me) If hes gonna propose thats awesome and congratulations to you as well. Im just so skeptical on sending my social in there....
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