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01-03-2012, 06:19 PM
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Does your MWI talk about you to his family or other inmates?
I was wondering if any of you have MWI that talks about you (good things of course) to any of his family members and/or other inmates? I used to have doubts about my MWI feelings for me. He always says he loves me and wants me to be with him for the rest of his life. I emailed his mom and asked her if he talks about me to her and she responded back saying "Yes, he always talks about you when I talk to him or visit him and I'm glad that you are in his life." Its a good feeling to know that he talks about me all the time and knowing he's in love with me. Sorry this thread sounds weird lol  . He tells me he talks about me to other inmates also.
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I talk to his mom on a regular basis, so I know he talks to her about us and me. Other inmates, I know of a couple he talked to and it is nice to know you're a part of their conversations  It was never something I worried about though.
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His mom and I email and she sent me flowers for Christmas with the message: "Thank you being his light." It was so sweet  His friends wave, say hi and grin at him like big dorks when I visit. So, yeah, he talks about me! lol
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01-03-2012, 08:40 PM
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I have had some of his friends tell me that he talks to them about me all of the time. They say that is why they think they know me before even meeting me. Its kinda strange for someone you have never met to know so much about you but Wow! I wish I could hear him talk about me!
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01-03-2012, 08:53 PM
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Yes my husband brags & shares with other inmates & even the guards about me & how God brought us together! So when I go I feel like "Mrs Popular" cause everyone knows me & is so sweet! His friends ask him if their gf's & wives can talk to me so they can have someone positive & blah blah blah... Very cool to know he thinks the world of me & I'm thebomb.com! All fuzzy sharing that...
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Not only does he talk about me to them, we visit him together and I talk to his mom and sisters at least once a week=) We are all missing him we got to stick together.
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01-03-2012, 09:36 PM
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I know he talks about me to his family and to his friends BC they all tell me he does plus when we're on the phone he's always gotta share the crazy things I say with everyone around him
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01-03-2012, 09:45 PM
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M'love talks to his mom and his son and cousins and uncles and aunts, etc about me. His mom wrote me an email one day and said "He loves you so much." I thought that was really sweet. She also said I have to come to the family reunion. I talk to his son as well on FB, so I know he talks to his dad about me.
As for other inmates....he's had others call me, if he was unable to for some reason. He also has had me talk with his cellie (who happens to be his distant cousin, they didn't know initially, lol). When I go to the visits, he introduces me to others as his "wife." So, yeah, I know he talks about me to others. Haha, he says he brags about me all the time to other inmates, and has shown my pic (with me covered, in hijab/headscarf) to the Muslim brothers who he says always reply with "oh wow, akh (brother), you have a Muslim wife? Alhamdulilah! (Praise be to God)"
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He is not terribly close with his family and sadly has not seen them for the entire time he has been down. Sadly I think there is plenty of pain from his past that needs to be resolved (on both sides.) He has mentioned that I drive 11.5 hrs (one way) to see him, but they can't/won't travel a much shorter distance.
But he just recently wrote that they wanted to come visit. We will see what happens
I know he has talked to a couple of guys, but thats all I really know.
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01-04-2012, 05:28 AM
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I knw he talks to other inmates about me, cause when hes on the phone to me, I hear them in the bg asking him to say hi to me.
his family arnt what u would call good for him so its best he doest see much of them. very much their fault he is were he is now. but regardless they dont like me, are very jelious of me (long story as to why) hes trid to bring me up in conversation with them but get told "dont give a fuck about her, dnt care if shes ok or not" so he has given up talking to them about me for the time being. whem he gets home we will see how that goes.
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I know he has talked about me with his sister but I've never met her. I met his cousin and she is my friend on Fb: I don't talk much with her but she is always nice with me when I try to. I know he talks about me with his cellie because I've met his girlfriend and our first connetion was "My man's cellie has a girlfriend who lives in Italy". It was me! 
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Yes, he talks about me to his friends in prison, outside, and to his only family members that are in touch with him. He has asked his family member to be our proxy, to help me anyway she can when I go to TX and house me when I am there.
My best friend is pen pal of his best friend, so I also know, that he has talked about me there in prison. He keeps telling me what kind of comments he gets, because other inmates makes fun of him being so in love and so happy nowadays. Believe me, he is not the type of man you would expect to be so happy, silly and head over heels in love 
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Originally Posted by MarkLovesMe
He is not terribly close with his family and sadly has not seen them for the entire time he has been down. Sadly I think there is plenty of pain from his past that needs to be resolved (on both sides.) He has mentioned that I drive 11.5 hrs (one way) to see him, but they can't/won't travel a much shorter distance.
But he just recently wrote that they wanted to come visit. We will see what happens
I know he has talked to a couple of guys, but thats all I really know.
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I am glad they are thinking of visiting.
There was some problem with the visiting forms being out of date when my guys family tried to visit recently.
Have him tell them to up-date if it has been over two years since their last application.
It is so sad when family does not visit 
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Yes, he talks about me to his friends in prison, outside, and to his only family members that are in touch with him. He has asked his family member to be our proxy, to help me anyway she can when I go to TX and house me when I am there.
My best friend is pen pal of his best friend, so I also know, that he has talked about me there in prison. He keeps telling me what kind of comments he gets, because other inmates makes fun of him being so in love and so happy nowadays. Believe me, he is not the type of man you would expect to be so happy, silly and head over heels in love 
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Awee...that is sweet.I love it when the big tough guys fall in love 
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01-04-2012, 08:00 AM
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I no he talks about me to his family as he has asked if I want to talk to his mum, I did say no tho as I thought it was to earlyer for that. She also thinks I take up to much of his time, lol. So I'm bit worried she mite not like me for that. So he difo talks about me, plus I have done a couple things for his buddie.
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I definitely get talked about...all the time to his mom and he has her call me with little messages from him and we laugh together and I tell her that he's such a dork! LOL!!!
He also talks about me to his buddies. I was leaving a visit one day and a couple of his friends clean the lobbies and stuff in the prison and they went back and asked him why I was pissed when I was leaving. I just have that "don't piss with me" look. Needless to say, my phone was ringing by the time I got home at 230 that afternoon asking about it. And, he knows better...he knows how I am.
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Yes he does! And I'm in email and Facebook contact with his mum, aunt and two sisters and meet up with them sometimes when I'm over visiting my BF. He talks about me to everyone inside as well, always introducing me to people in the visitation room. 
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01-04-2012, 02:38 PM
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Omg yes I talk to him mom and sister all the time. Facebook friends and every thing. His sister is getting married in the summer and asked me if I would be in her wedding since he can't she said having the girl of his dreams (she said he told her that ) in the wedding was the next best thing this made my day! As far as the inside gose I have a friend on the in side and my grandfather they both say he talks about me all the time! And my grandfather has even told me that J as talked about our future all the time and how we are going to gave a house and alot of kids lol
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yes!!! He talks about me to his cellie n sum of his frnds=) i've been tlkin to his sister ever since i met him n last wk for da 1st time I met his father thru da phone. I was a lil bit nervous! It went pretty good=) they're planning on cumin to vegas to visit im so excited!!! And for X-Mas I send his brother a greeting card(his brother is locked up). It makes me feel special n that im sum 1 important on his life..
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yeah he's talks to his cellie and his friends, and i get the odd message from him off one of his friends (just the odd joke or something funny) and i keep intouch with his mom by text usually, but other members of his family (his kids, sisters, dad, cousins) R on my facebook friends list so they give me messages to send him, then Gary will tell me what message to reply back ........... he thinks he's so cool cos he has his own facebook (via me) lol
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01-04-2012, 03:47 PM
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well; as far as my mwi his mom & father have both passed away and he has a younger brother but he has no contact with him and hasnt in years so " no" but mine tells me all the time if i coulda met him mom i woulda love her.. he talks about me to all his "friends" they always tell me.. girl at times i get tired of hearing your name.. or other little things..my baby told me when he lays down at night he always tells his parents to watch over me until he is home to do it..  i wish i coulda met my in laws but i know they watch over me.. and he comes home so soon im so excited.. he knows almost all my family as mom dad brother sister bro n law.. <3 i miss my man..!!! REST IN PEACE MRS & MR CLARK!!! <3 forever a part of me..
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01-04-2012, 04:28 PM
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yes, he constantly talks about me to his family. he's written letters to them, talked to them on the phone, & in person at a visit we were all at together. he's even written a letter to his daughter about me saying that he does have a girlfriend & she doesn't need to worry because i will never try to take her place but wants her to understand that i will be an active part of his life when he comes home & wants her & i to build a relationship with time(she's only 11).
i know he talks to other inmates about me because he's incarcerated with one of my close friend's brother & my friend's ex boyfriend & they've told me they wished he would shut up about me. i've also recieved a get well card from his old cell mate when i got my wisdom teeth removed.
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i get to meet his mother face to face on february 3rd for the 1st time when we go to visit my fiance' together! i am very excited :-) we've been talking on the phone so it know we will be fine. he also has a 20 year-old daughter i am real cool with as well. i know how important his mother, daughter and I am to him so i will always make sure we have a good relationship so not to stress him :-)
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I think he does. Since he is in the closet I am not sure what he says though, and I worry about him outing himself by talking about me too much to them. However I just have this feeling that he does talk about me to his family.
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01-05-2012, 02:26 AM
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Yes, his Mom calls me on Sunday's and we chat. It's pretty cool because it sure didn't start out this way 3 years ago.
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