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Old 03-12-2012, 07:15 PM
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Default How many loved ones do you have locked up?

all of us here understand havin a loved one locked up, but how many truely understand my position. i have 14 LO's currently in. and honestly its startin to take its toll on me. i feel guilty if i do somethin for one and not the rest, which is not only mentally exhausting, but breakin the bank as well.

sometimes i think i should just cut all of em off besides my man, but my man says he'd rather me help our family members out than him so idk... anyone else in this situation???
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Old 03-12-2012, 07:56 PM
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That must be awful, I couldn't even imagine! I've only got my husband in prison right now.
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Old 03-12-2012, 08:05 PM
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I have just my hubby in prison right now.
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Old 03-12-2012, 08:08 PM
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So many.....my 14 year old son an my boyfriend an my ex husband an 2 of my brothers....
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Old 03-12-2012, 08:19 PM
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Just my fiancee and my son. Son comes home in 21 days!
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Old 03-12-2012, 08:23 PM
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OMG I only have my husband and Im tired, crying, bitching, dont answer the phones for days, I hide from him by not writting for a month, I dont eat, I dont sleep, Im depressed, I dont shower for days, Im on meds. I hang up on him alot and turn phones off LOL. And this is only the tip of the Iceberg! And I only have him locked up! With ONE Im dying!!!!!!!

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Old 03-12-2012, 10:40 PM
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i have about 6 friends in jail right now and my fiance.
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I have my husband and my two younger brothers. Believe it or not my brothers are locked up in the very same jail on the very same block. No one knows they are related. They don't say anything about of fear of being separated.
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Old 03-13-2012, 04:44 PM
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My brother and boyfriend are incarcerated. Also I write to several people inside who have become very special to me.

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Old 03-13-2012, 09:03 PM
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My husband and his 2 brothers as well as 1 of my babies dads is in prison besides that I have about 25 pen pals lol so I understand its a full time job having someone in prison but when it comes to breaking the bank that only goes for my husband lol
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I know lots of people locked up, fortunetly after my fiance went to prison everyone stopped being my friend, (they blamed me for his incarsiration) so really I only have my booski on the inside.
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I have 8 LO's in and at times I also feel exhausted but then I think how it would be if I made no contact; effort. The thought of them thinking they are not thought of or cared about would be so much worse. I just do the best I can and keep going. This is indeed a long hard road for them and me. Luckily they understand I am only one person and are not demanding or selfish, that sure hopes.
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WOW! When I read your posts about the loved ones that you have inside, I didn't know what to say! I only have my husband! Thank God! I don't know what I would do if I had more. You are strong people to do the things that you do! God Bless!
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I have my old man, his brother, 5 of their cousins an even an uncle! My lil brother and now my exbf
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thanks ladys, it helps hearing theres other people goin thru this too. i got my old man, my baby daddy, a couple brothers, brother in law, a couple uncles, and some of my closest friends.

however im happy to report that number has dropped from 14 to 13 as of today. my oldest brother was released this morning
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thanks ladys, it helps hearing theres other people goin thru this too. i got my old man, my baby daddy, a couple brothers, brother in law, a couple uncles, and some of my closest friends.

however im happy to report that number has dropped from 14 to 13 as of today. my oldest brother was released this morning
Congrats on your brother coming homeI had a brother in law come home last month so I know and understand the excitment
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Old 03-16-2012, 02:15 PM
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Congrads on your brother coming home. I have quiet a few behind walls and it anit easy.

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