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View Poll Results: Has He Proposed To You While Incarcerated?
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Old 05-23-2016, 05:24 PM
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I have an interesting situation.

I was married already when he proposed. We were best friends for over two decades at that point that he proposed. He proposed in the same letter that he admitted he loved me. But the thing that is really odd is that my husband was fine with him proposing to me.

It's because my husband was terminally ill and just wanted me to continue to be loved. My husband's last words were for him, asking him to marry me, telling him that he had his blessing to marry me.

I go to see him on June 24th and hopefully will get a proposal in person.
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Old 07-11-2016, 12:52 PM
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Yes. On my visit June 24th, he proposed. Wasn't able to get down on one knee or anything but the CO let us have an extra kiss because he proposed (this is a re-entry facility and most of the inmates there are reasonable people.) Once it was explained to the other inmates in the room that he proposed, we got bunch of thumbs up at our table and there was absolutely no hard feelings that we got an extra kiss lol.
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my very first pen-pal/MWI I had did and pretty fast as well and I said wonderful but let's wait until you get out (at the time he had only 4 years left and was up for parole for the first time). The end of that story was that he had another pen-pal (woman) and got closer (or whatever), I dumped him and he married the other woman a few months later. Karma is sometimes a bitch and he got parole denied the first time and now the second time and he's her problem now
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Wow, just wow. So speechless that is a very touching story. Hope all goes well for you. Sorry to hear about your hubby


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I have an interesting situation.

I was married already when he proposed. We were best friends for over two decades at that point that he proposed. He proposed in the same letter that he admitted he loved me. But the thing that is really odd is that my husband was fine with him proposing to me.

It's because my husband was terminally ill and just wanted me to continue to be loved. My husband's last words were for him, asking him to marry me, telling him that he had his blessing to marry me.

I go to see him on June 24th and hopefully will get a proposal in person.
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Old 10-12-2016, 07:09 PM
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Yes lol he did 9 years ago and then he did again just recently.
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Old 10-20-2016, 07:30 AM
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Yes...by letter and by phone...
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Yes he was incarcerated, but he asked me to marry him on our Video visit. So I could watch him directly in his eyes and he could see my reaction I was soo happyyy and couldnt stop smiling...
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Mine proposed to me on bended knee in visitation room Christmas of '10. We were married January 7th, 17
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My man is in prison and has been since August 2017. He still has another year and a half before he sees the parole board. He keeps making comments like future wifey or im gonna turn u into a housewife yet. It all started out as a inside joke between me and him but now its said more serious and said to his cell mates. My question is do you think he's serious and if so whats the chances of us making it last?
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My question is do you think he's serious and if so whats the chances of us making it last?
Nobody can answer this for you, I'm afraid. I believe you develop trust with time as you go.... you learn to know the person and can see whether their actions match their words. I would say, with any relationship, there are no guarantees. Love is always a bit of a gamble....but if your loved one isn't giving you any reasons to doubt him and you feel comfortable and feel he's a good guy who is worth taking the risk..that's really all you can do, in my humble opinion
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My man is in prison and has been since August 2017. He still has another year and a half before he sees the parole board. He keeps making comments like future wifey or im gonna turn u into a housewife yet. It all started out as a inside joke between me and him but now its said more serious and said to his cell mates. My question is do you think he's serious and if so whats the chances of us making it last?
Just ask him if he's serious. Ask him what he sees for your guys future.
Only you know the chances of it lasting.
If you don't want to marry him or have any doubt it will last, tell him. Especially if he's on a different page.
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Marriage has been a conversation we've had off and on for years. Neither of us were ready. About a year ago, he got the kids involved. Our daughter picked out my engagement ring and our son presented it to me on bended knee while he asked me over the phone. It was totally unexpected and very sweet.

Our kids are the most important people in our lives and making my proposal a family affair---there just aren't words on how that made it even more special. I am looking forward to making us legal as we have been official for years!
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A couple week's my fiancee asked me how i felt about marring a prison inmate i said baby i love you so much i told him yes i would. But we're waiting till he get's out of prison to get married
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Yeah mine proposed while incarcerated. He has a long way to go and ofc I will marry him. He just the one
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We've discussed marriage several times but I've always shy away from it. About 3 months ago, I finally came to myself and was able to say yes. He really wanted me to have a ring and felt bad he couldnt get me one. I asked him how he felt if I took money I planned to put in his account and order one. He said is that normal. I told him nothing about us is normal lol. I ordered the ring. He gave his proposal from his seat during a visit and put the ring on my finger. It's a memory I'll always cherish. He has possibly 2 years left but we may marry there in the Fall.
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