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Old 03-12-2008, 12:50 PM
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Unhappy im all to pieces!

well ladies, i called his case manager today. to see if his visitations were taken from him. and she told me that "they wont be reinstated untill march 30th".
and thats a freakin sunday!
so i wont be able to see him for about 3 weeks.
im a nervous wreck right now. i cant stop crying, all i want to do is hear his voice. but i cant.
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Old 03-12-2008, 12:55 PM
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Awww hun...hugs!!

Just try and do lots to keep your mind off the wait, when i miss the boyfriend i write, like 6 letters a day haha he's probably sick of me going on now!!

Are you still allowed phone calls and such?

I'm sorry to hear you can't visit for a long while

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Old 03-12-2008, 12:57 PM
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i havent got a phone call from him since way back in Nov. when he was in county.
then i had PayTel.
But i have digital phone service, so i cant recieve them.
but once my taxes hurry up and come in, im going to switch phone companies.
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Old 03-12-2008, 01:13 PM
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just a suggestion if you can prepay your calls through GTL or whoever has the contract you can recieve the calls on a digital line. Thats what I have. Different state but you may want to check it you.
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Old 03-12-2008, 01:16 PM
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I'm sorry sweetie! For now, don't focus on what you cant' do... do what you can. Write what you feel, get it out and mail it to him. It's better than keeping the rollercoaster of emotions inside and festering with no place to release.

Pray, cry, do whatever you have to do to feel better. You're only human... but it will be over soon. Look how long you've been there and keep going strong!

Keep your head up Queen!
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Old 03-12-2008, 01:52 PM
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I am kindof in the same situation! But you have not seen your man longer. It has been 2 weeks for me. I try to stay busy and am constantly writting him tell him how I feel. I am doing more with our girls to help time go by. I try to look at it positive and think now I am saving $120 a weekend because it cost $120 each time I go. So I have been putting that money aside as if I was going for when he gets out. We can plan a weekend with the family with that money.

Keep your head up and try to be as positive as you can!! I am here if you need someone to talk to!
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Old 03-12-2008, 02:14 PM
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its hard not being able to see our men all the time. my husband is 6 hours away so i only see him every 6 weeks. but it has actually made the time go by a little faster. i keep myself really busy with my kids and cleaning and working and writing him. Good Luck Ladies and Stay Strong!
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Old 03-12-2008, 02:20 PM
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Yep, it's hard honey, but be strong. Trust me, once it's over it won't seem like it's been that long... I hadn't seen mine in going on 8 months. And I know there are alot of women who've been going longer.
It'll be alright.
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Old 03-12-2008, 02:30 PM
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I'm sorry. Try and stay as positive as possible and I know its going to be hard, but once you see him it'll be all worth it! Best of luck to you!
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Old 03-12-2008, 02:34 PM
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im sorry to hear that sweetie keep ur head up i have to same problem...well kinda
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Old 03-12-2008, 02:37 PM
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i no how u feel girl ..look into what ravenslove said so he can call you .. he knows ur there for him and that this system is f**ked up so keep urself busy.. be strong it will get better..

stay strong nd keep ur head up girl!!!!!
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I Understand Your Pain.... I Went To See Him.... An They Told Me I Couldnt Sii Him Until March 15th And That Was 5 Weeks Ago......
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My heart goes out to you, hang in there girl. Today is almost over, tomorrow will go by, and before you know it, you'll be able to see him.
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Aww, I'm so sorry to hear. *hugs* Hang in there, before you know it you'll be able to visit again.
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thank you ladies so much, i feel alot better. and maybe he will listen to me next time and stop being so darn stubborn.
thank the lord i have you all now, and i really appreciate it.
i love you all!! <3
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mhisz.chadwick.. u and ur hubby look soooo cute together and ur babies are beautiful!!! god bless u and them !!
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Old 03-12-2008, 10:22 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that! I really truly hope that you can use this time that you won't be able to see him for productive and positive things..as horrible and practical as that sounds right now!!

You're an awesome support on here for so many of us mhisz.chadwick, if you need to talk at all feel free to PM me anytime xo
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Old 03-12-2008, 11:43 PM
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That sux.... but at least you have a date to look forward too. Visiting day will be here sooner than you know it!
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Old 03-14-2008, 12:28 AM
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mhisz.chadwick.. u and ur hubby look soooo cute together and ur babies are beautiful!!! god bless u and them !!
Aww, thank you sweetie.
although the one on the left is my soon to be step daughter and the one on the right is his soon to be step daughter. lol
but my daughter has known him as "daddy" since she was 6 months old, and he does plan to adopt her as his own when he comes home. =]
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Old 03-14-2008, 11:01 AM
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ahwe; thank you all!
but i found out today for sure that i am able to go see him =]
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