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Old 12-03-2019, 02:17 PM
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Default 1st visit December 29th! I am so nervous!

I am so excited! I finally booked my flight to NJ. I will finally get to see my love for the first time on the 29th of December! I'm nervous, excited, happy! All these emotions! I can't wait! I've never visited anyone in prison before so it's something new! What a way to end 2019 and move forward to seeing him lots in 2020!
He doesn't want me getting discouraged cause he is in Max but I'm just happy he has contact visits and we get to finally kiss!
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So excited and happy for you! What a great belated Christmas present for the two of you.
I haven’t gotten to visit my LO and won’t for a while but I am sure lots of people here have great advice for you.
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That is exciting!! I live in NJ I hope you have a great time, can't wait to hear about it!
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Yayyyy so exciting!! What a way to start 2020!!!!!!
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Congratulations and have a great first visit. A few general tips for visiting the NJ State prisons. First read and understand the visiting regulations.
https://njdoc.gov/pdf/cia_visitation/NJSP.pdf

Take an extra change of clothes, or two, in the car in case one of the COs objects to what you are wearing. Make sure you have the correct forms of photo identification with you, your passport for sure, and anything else the NJ DOC requires too. Different classes of prisoners have special visiting days/hours, and some might even require an appointment.

" Inmates in General Population are permitted to have both a Window Visit and a Contact Visit on the same day, but not from the same person. A maximum of sixty (60) inmates may receive Contact Visits at one time."

"Contact Visits for General Population Inmates are held on Saturdays and Sundays. There are also Contact Visit programs for inmates in the Management Control Unit and Window Visits for Protective Custody, Administrative Segregation (both male and female inmates) and management Control Unit inmates. Contact Visits are held on Friday evenings for men in the Management Control Unit."
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How exciting!! I'm seeing mine on Dec 28th! First one too.
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Only one week left and I'm so nervous!!! I can't wait!
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That's Awesome!! Have a great time and let us know how it went!
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What an amazing gift for Christmas and a great way to start the new year! I can't wait to hear how it went!
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You have to be crazy nervous. I know I am. And it's just a week away. Ahhh
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ooops, i thought you were out here end of last month... safe travels and enjoy!
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I will let everyone know how it goes!! I'm so happy!
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I will let everyone know how it goes!! I'm so happy!

How exciting are you in the US now? Enjoy your visit and keep all posted , first visit stories are so great.
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How exciting are you in the US now? Enjoy your visit and keep all posted , first visit stories are so great.
I'm going to be in the US on Friday and I'm going to visit him on Sunday! I'm so excited I feel like throwing up lmfao!
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I am sure it will be amazing. Make sure you update us.
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I wanna know how the visit went!!!
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Yes, update us! My first visit was 1000x better than I even imagined.
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Yes, update us! My first visit was 1000x better than I even imagined.
I think all of us feel that way!! I was flipping out for weeks before scared this or that would happen and none of it did. But, I must say in fairness that others at visitation that went often commented that weekend that it was the easiest they had gotten through also! But at least next time I'll be well prepared... I know where I'm staying, I know what I need, I know what to do and what not to do or wear.... Sadly I can see where it becomes routine too easily.
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Sorry for the delay everyone! I didn't have internet at first and then I forgot my forum password!
The visit was the best day of my life! We had already planned to get married but he got on one knee in front of everyone and proposed! I love him even more now that I saw him and kissed him and touched him and honestly I have never felt so much love back! I can't wait to see him again in a few weeks! Best day ever! I'm smiling writing this!!!
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Yay!! So happy for you.
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Happy to hear it went so well for you and congratulations on your engagement.
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