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CCI 2012 Marriage questions and procedures go here.

If you have any questions on how to get married at CCI please post your questions and replies in this thread.


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Hello,

Hope all you gals are having a Happy New Year!!!
A new year means one less year to go! Right? I have a question, and hoping someone can help me.
My soon to be husband and I have decided to tie the knott on February 16, and also have a prenupp written out, the reason being is that he owes alot of child support for his daughters from a previous relationship, and well I have a pretty good paying job, I don't want them to come after my wages and start deducting, I'm clueless on where to even begin, with the prenupp papers!!! As well as getting him to sign them!
Help please!

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I think with a pre-nup you would need an attny for both of you.
(was it Barry Bonds who did this with his wife and she signed it without an attny there....they divorced and she was able to go around the pre-nup)


If the CS is the only issue your worried about, I would simply not mix funds. Dont file taxes jointly or have joint accounts. They shouldnt be able to attach your wages for his debts.
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I think with a pre-nup you would need an attny for both of you.
(was it Barry Bonds who did this with his wife and she signed it without an attny there....they divorced and she was able to go around the pre-nup)


If the CS is the only issue your worried about, I would simply not mix funds. Dont file taxes jointly or have joint accounts. They shouldnt be able to attach your wages for his debts.
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Does anyone know the procedure for marriages.. I just back the marraige app to my honeys counselor... does anyone have any other info on how this works and how long it will take.. Also he is in the SHU - does that make a difference... any info would be great...

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Does anyone know the procedure for marriages.. I just mailed back the marraige app to my honeys counselor on Saturday... does anyone have any other info on how this works and how long it will take.. Also he is in the SHU - does that make a difference... any info would be great...

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Does anyone know if marriages are done throughout the year or are there only certain times of the year they are done???
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this is what i know

unit.....months wedding are held
1......Feb and July
2......Mar and Aug
4A....May and Oct
4B....June and Nov

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unit.....months wedding are held
1......Feb and July
2......Mar and Aug
4A....May and Oct
4B....June and Nov
Okay another dumb question but how do I know what unit he is? Thanks for your help!
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Okay another dumb question but how do I know what unit he is? Thanks for your help!
their is no such thing as a dumb question
I believe "Unit" is refering to what yard he is on
1-E yard
2-D yard
3-C Yard
4A - is level 4 (i think)
4B - is adseg (not to sure though) these 2 may be the other way around.
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Okay another dumb question but how do I know what unit he is? Thanks for your help!
I called and spoke to my babes counselor and its 2 times a yr but there not ready in C yard they dont even have the marriage packets yet both my man and I are on this can't wait to do this =) he did give me 2 different months but depending when they are ready it could change =/ I think its June & November if I recall correctly for C yard?
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My Guy is in the SHU... 4B yard Theirs are June and November
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i just copied down the info from the paper he sent me....mine's in SHU and it is 4B
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If you are planning on getting married soon you will have to wait for June 2013. For the November 15th weddings the marriage packet already had to be in. You have to have the packet in 60 days prior to the wedding. I barely got mine in... Phewwww

Your guy is in the same yard as mine
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I have a question I hope someone could help me with regarding when marriages are done. Are they done on a sat or sun during visiting or is their a specified day for all marriages in a specific yard? Thank you
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I believe they are done on the 3rd Thursday... (for the SHU) I'm not sure about all the other yards.
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yes MrsRG that's what i kno for 4B SHU...the 3rd Thursday of the month.
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I called and spoke to my babes counselor and its 2 times a yr but there not ready in C yard they dont even have the marriage packets yet both my man and I are on this can't wait to do this =) he did give me 2 different months but depending when they are ready it could change =/ I think its June & November if I recall correctly for C yard?
Hey I wanted to know if u heard any new information yet about c yard weddings. My boyfriend jus got transfered there two weeks ago. We both want to get married too but jus not sure what month they are doing it. Any info is greatly appreciated thanks.
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I believe they said it would be April for the c yard weddings
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In the marriage packet I got it says this...

All inmate marriages will be performed in the respective Facilities Visiting Room or similar suitable location between 0900 and 1500 hours. Five marriages will be performed each month in the scheduled Facility. All weddings will be held on the third Thursday of the scheduled month.

Facility:
E ..........February and July
D ..........March and August
A ..........May and October
B ..........June and November

Inmates marriages are not scheduled for Facility C/Reception Center Inmates. The inmate must be permanently housed before initiating the marriage process.

No weddings will occur during the months of January, April, September, and December.
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Default i need some questions answered please,

me and my boyfriend plan on getting married and im not exactly sure on how it works in prison, i guess the first question would be what are my financial responibilities going to be, how do you set it up, what would i need when i get there and what should i expect when i get there?
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In the marriage packet I got it says this...

All inmate marriages will be performed in the respective Facilities Visiting Room or similar suitable location between 0900 and 1500 hours. Five marriages will be performed each month in the scheduled Facility. All weddings will be held on the third Thursday of the scheduled month.

Facility:
E ..........February and July
D ..........March and August
A ..........May and October
B ..........June and November

Inmates marriages are not scheduled for Facility C/Reception Center Inmates. The inmate must be permanently housed before initiating the marriage process.

No weddings will occur during the months of January, April, September, and December.
They will need to update their packets soon. C facility is no longer a reception center. All of CCI is now mainline. Hopefully they will figure it out soon for those inmates in C yard.
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Ahhhh you are right... I just noticed on the marriage packet the date says October 2011...
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Hey I wanted to know if u heard any new information yet about c yard weddings. My boyfriend jus got transfered there two weeks ago. We both want to get married too but jus not sure what month they are doing it. Any info is greatly appreciated thanks.
C yard are doing weddings in April.
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