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View Poll Results: Do you get scared that your MWI will cheat upon release?
Yes, and I have confronted him/her about my concerns 42 37.84%
Yes, but I keep the concern to myself 32 28.83%
No, I trust that it will never be a problem 33 29.73%
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Old 11-18-2017, 08:24 PM
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No..... That is IF he ever gets out.. My MWI and I have been together 3 1/2 years. We are getting married next year. :-)


You're going strong. aw. and i wish you well on your wedding/nuptials et.al. in 2018. chica...

That's sweet. Enjoy your evening.... G-night PTO'ers... Hugs and Blessings!Adios...
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Does he mean "mess with" as in he was using her for something or deceiving her in some way, or does he mean "mess with" as in "mess around with" i.e. he used to have some kind of relationship with her?
He means he used to mess around with her as in a sexual nature.
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It's always those ex's and first loves that are hard to.let go, how.did he respond to the letter?? And what did she want?? Mine left me for his so called ex .. so yes!! be careful and guard your heart
He told me he threw the letter away and I don't think she was a girlfriend but he had a fwb situation with her I think. He gave me her first name and where she lives and I located her FB page. I don't know. He's everything to me and I can't lose him.
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I worry about recidivism but its too early to discuss
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I don't worry about my MWI husband. I know there is an ex that continues to contact him, Eventhough, i have introduced myself to her and he and i both have told her that she needs to stop contacting him, she continues to do so. Let me tell you something ladies, God will never bring you a man who is already someone else's husband, and if he will cheat with you, he'll damn sure cheat on you! Also, if there were more women who didn't just sleep with anyone, and women who show respect for someone else's marriage, there would be a whole lot less men cheating. They can't cheat if they have no one to cheat with, right? Just saying. But anyway, if he decides to go back to her once he's out then I'm sure I'm going to catch two life sentences! I got dibs on penpals!!!
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I don't worry about my MWI husband. I know there is an ex that continues to contact him, Eventhough, i have introduced myself to her and he and i both have told her that she needs to stop contacting him, she continues to do so. Let me tell you something ladies, God will never bring you a man who is already someone else's husband, and if he will cheat with you, he'll damn sure cheat on you! Also, if there were more women who didn't just sleep with anyone, and women who show respect for someone else's marriage, there would be a whole lot less men cheating. They can't cheat if they have no one to cheat with, right? Just saying. But anyway, if he decides to go back to her once he's out then I'm sure I'm going to catch two life sentences! I got dibs on penpals!!!
How is she contacting him?? He can stop it ..don't accept her calls, ( if she's calling him and why??) ignore her letters, she doesn't respect the marriage because he dont. Men need to be held accountable for their lying cheating ways!! it takes two to cheat. Im just sayin.
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She writes to him, and he says he throws them away and doesn't respond, which I mostly believe. However, she posts things on his mom and dad's Facebook feeds saying things like tell him I love and miss him. Things such as that. I've already made my feelings about that clear to her, but it seems that she has decided to make me her arch nemesis. I don't care for the drama and I don't have time for silly little girl games, so I just let her make an ass of herself in her own. It's kind of hard to have a battle of the wits when the opponent is witless. Lol
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Hola chica. I will be making this long,and good topic tonight.

#1.) Take it slow. Do not rush. .This is not la la land/fantasy MWI. Remember that.You're going to have to "see it for what it is,and or what it can feasibly be, within yourself(remain realistic at all times, each day. eachnight.)
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NO EXPECTATIONS/NO FANTASY LAND for me... I have learned to take each day at a time.Just hope for the best, prepare for anything that might go wrong. However, he has never had anything "good pure clean healthy happy loyal,wonderful in life and he is such a great looking bi-racial young man.so cute, and good looking and handsome the whole pkg.(physically)but he has never seen himself like how I see him. He still can't believe we are in each other lives for years. Almost five long years.."
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#3.) Good luck on your MWI journey. I always say here, and in real life off here, "if you're going to have to fret over if he is either cheating on you i.e., being faithful, then that's not a good way to be in an MWI or even a non-mwi. A man is going to do what he feel HE at the time he is doing it, going to cheat,because he is a selfish prick,no good POS, and hence, shall not be blessed. I never worried over that with men.NEVER. I always know/remember who i am, what i want i go after it day and night,
from building biz writing books,making music,college studies,to being a God-Loving woman, a woman's best friend/or a man bff, after speaking to me, and i always knew, that i would never waste a second of my good life worrying over the faithfulness query."I always knew that if he cheat, it would be on him and HIS loss. Not my loss,because i am good either way with a wonderful God-bless life and so much going on good for me, therefore i do not think about whether or not he will be/remain "faithful to me."I, at this point trust he shall remain, faithful.I am just not going to fully trust til' he is out of prison any day now,working steadily, then we have our cold nice winter nights together as we are planning."I do trust him though on "faithfulness"because i see what he has been through.I know also when he was "home the last time"at 17 and just turning 18,he was a recluse pretty much.He loves to just lay low/stay inside of a house,(only went out to do his dirtthen he would go home, "Get a sex oral etc.from some women way older/and who was willing to "do him" and then he got locked up during 18 years young. "He clearly do not want that life anymore.He just doesn't.(I for years am believing it)and time will tell when he is out soon and back in the "real world..."But, yes...Many times, i have invoked the query to him about "experiencing w/out me the free world other chicks whatever et.al.,
and he said so quickly "No need."


Mi fiancee/BFF has been in prison a long time starting at 11 or 12 in (juvie hall) after running for dope/drugs smh for his OWN messed up parent(mom) who still is a junkie,we both learned this past year by his baby sis...(sis told us finally smdh)She also introduce mi fiancee/bff, to marijuana and other drugs at barely 12 a pre-teen.
Ruined his world since then for which still "haunts him now"and he has vowed NOT to go back to that old block where "mom"shockingly moved right back to after so many years.i trust him at this point but time will tell.
He will be late 20s( almost thirty) when he is out this fall/winter 2017. He never really had a lady in his life.Never had 1 "real girlfriend..."Just a quick 1 to 3 minutes, if that sex here and there, an "18" to 20 women he says, oral stuff like that, et.al., just getting his "ORAL"when he wanted by way older ladies, women of the"night.'easy sex, cheap sex, and livin' reckless thanks to mom, in the hood where he is dreading going back to because of how he was brought up/negative street life robberies drugs etc.al. "(he is starting his halfway house there temporary)But i did tell him he is welcome to do so,and then i will do me, by seeing others til he is 'sure.'he immediately said, Sweetness:Look @ you.(smiles) But beside that, you are incredible...Why the hell would i want to go out and meet others online or off when i got the best? You're beyond gorgeous/very beautiful but "more"beautiful on the inside, and that is MOST important. (BRB)Mi phone is ringing. He is calling right now before locking in chica.:smile: I will continue in a lil while.#STAYWOKE and just focus on the good,and always remain positive and see it for what it is."Take it slow,chica. brb.hugs and blessings
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I respectfully disagree with #3, only because you seem to single out men as being cheaters. I have known more women (Inmates or not) that are cheaters. I think it would be more accurate to say if a PERSON is going to cheat, they will cheat. In this day and age, it really has little to do with being a man. Both sexes are very free and very selfish. Of course there are exceptions (especially in some other parts of the world where women do NOT experience such freedom but I am focused on the US for this discussion). Other than that, you give some good advice. Thanks.
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We're not there yet but we've been together five'ish years and married for two. I guess worry is too strong of a word, but I've considered it. We've also talked about it. I asked him what he would do if I said, as you mentioned, that I thought he should have some freedom before locking down after he gets out and he was pretty thrown by that-- and not in a good way. He said, "I don't do breaks. We're together or we're not." All I needed to hear.
That’s exactly what my guy told me!
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topic tonight.

#1.) Take it slow. Do not rush. .This is not la la land/fantasy MWI. Remember that.You're going to have to "see it for what it is,and or what it can feasibly be, within yourself(remain realistic at all times, each day. eachnight.)
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2.)
NO EXPECTATIONS/NO FANTASY LAND for me... I have learned to take each day at a time.Just hope for the best, prepare for anything that might go wrong. However, he has never had anything "good pure clean healthy happy loyal,wonderful in life and he is such a great looking bi-racial young man.so cute, and good looking and handsome the whole pkg.(physically)but he has never seen himself like how I see him. He still can't believe we are in each other lives for years. Almost five long years.."
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#3.) Good luck on your MWI journey. I always say here, and in real life off here, "if you're going to have to fret over if he is either cheating on you i.e., being faithful, then that's not a good way to be in an MWI or even a non-mwi. A man is going to do what he feel HE at the time he is doing it, going to cheat,because he is a selfish prick,no good POS, and hence, shall not be blessed. I never worried over that with men.NEVER. I always know/remember who i am, what i want i go after it day and night,
from building biz writing books,making music,college studies,to being a God-Loving woman, a woman's best friend/or a man bff, after speaking to me, and i always knew, that i would never waste a second of my good life worrying over the faithfulness query."I always knew that if he cheat, it would be on him and HIS loss. Not my loss,because i am good either way with a wonderful God-bless life and so much going on good for me, therefore i do not think about whether or not he will be/remain "faithful to me."I, at this point trust he shall remain, faithful.I am just not going to fully trust til' he is out of prison any day now,working steadily, then we have our cold nice winter nights together as we are planning."I do trust him though on "faithfulness"because i see what he has been through.I know also when he was "home the last time"at 17 and just turning 18,he was a recluse pretty much.He loves to just lay low/stay inside of a house,(only went out to do his dirtthen he would go home, "Get a sex oral etc.from some women way older/and who was willing to "do him" and then he got locked up during 18 years young. "He clearly do not want that life anymore.He just doesn't.(I for years am believing it)and time will tell when he is out soon and back in the "real world..."But, yes...Many times, i have invoked the query to him about "experiencing w/out me the free world other chicks whatever et.al.,
and he said so quickly "No need."


Mi fiancee/BFF has been in prison a long time starting at 11 or 12 in (juvie hall) after running for dope/drugs smh for his OWN messed up parent(mom) who still is a junkie,we both learned this past year by his baby sis...(sis told us finally smdh)She also introduce mi fiancee/bff, to marijuana and other drugs at barely 12 a pre-teen.
Ruined his world since then for which still "haunts him now"and he has vowed NOT to go back to that old block where "mom"shockingly moved right back to after so many years.i trust him at this point but time will tell.
He will be late 20s( almost thirty) when he is out this fall/winter 2017. He never really had a lady in his life.Never had 1 "real girlfriend..."Just a quick 1 to 3 minutes, if that sex here and there, an "18" to 20 women he says, oral stuff like that, et.al., just getting his "ORAL"when he wanted by way older ladies, women of the"night.'easy sex, cheap sex, and livin' reckless thanks to mom, in the hood where he is dreading going back to because of how he was brought up/negative street life robberies drugs etc.al. "(he is starting his halfway house there temporary)But i did tell him he is welcome to do so,and then i will do me, by seeing others til he is 'sure.'he immediately said, Sweetness:Look @ you.(smiles) But beside that, you are incredible...Why the hell would i want to go out and meet others online or off when i got the best? You're beyond gorgeous/very beautiful but "more"beautiful on the inside, and that is MOST important. (BRB)Mi phone is ringing. He is calling right now before locking in chica.:smile: I will continue in a lil while.#STAYWOKE and just focus on the good,and always remain positive and see it for what it is."Take it slow,chica. brb.hugs and blessings
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