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View Poll Results: Did your Man you met while in Prison,Move in with you or no?
oh he/she is going to be living with me yes,immediate.i can't wait!i love him/her. 130 51.59%
I love him/her but i do not know about all this moving in so fast lol 28 11.11%
well,when i get a ring from her/him,then we are moving in definitely! 11 4.37%
hell no. i can't see myself living with a man whose straight out of prison.maybe later not sure. 12 4.76%
Yes,Life So Short,SO we did not want to miss 1 day.Planning to marry,engage etc.so it is all good! 63 25.00%
He or she has yet to ask about this,so i am not sure. 17 6.75%
Other....comment below. 27 10.71%
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Old 01-22-2011, 07:53 PM
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Question for you all who have a MWI whose coming home.

He naturally is so happy with me as i am with him we just click from day one...and he serve years in prison

and then met "me"lol we are happy.

We both have alot of plans already,i know he love me alot this i know for sure.
However: not sure if it is normal. Is it? Because i am new at this But on the other hand i know how we are feeling about "us..."

"are you going to be living with your inmate? Are you just going to "not care"what other say or as Rocky say

and just "go for it??? lol i look forward to such reply of truth...and Happy New Year.

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Old 01-22-2011, 08:19 PM
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Well I can't tell you what you should do in your situation cause I don't know you For us though, we are engaged and will be getting married once he's out! So we are going to be living together. We've made plans before and have our plans mostly set up now. Neither of us wants to be doing this last minute. He's got about two years left so it's still a little ways away, but I'd rather start early I have some worries and nervousness about moving in and getting married simply because he's someone new and neither of us have been married before. But by the time he gets out we'll have been engaged/getting to know each other for three years so I'm not overly worried about us
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My MWI and I are also going to be moving in together. We have been involved for a while now and still have until 2015 unless the FSA act for crack goes through then he will be home next year. We are planning on getting married when he is released and I have already met most of his family. I am not sure of your situation because we are all different and in different relationships but for me it is something that is right for my MWI and I.
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Yup mine's moving in with me unless one of us walks away before then.
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Well, I don't think there's a "normal," so to speak. Everyone's relationship and situation is different.

In our case, we've been engaged about three years when he comes home next month and yes, he's moving straight in. Wouldn't have it any other way. We've waited long enough to spend our time together instead of being separated by the miles and the walls.

That being said, we fully expect it to feel strange in the beginning and for there to be some definite adjustments that will have to be made by everyone but we're committed and I firmly believe we'll get through it just fine, one day at a time, with bumps along the way. :-)
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Well, m'love and I have 6 more years to go before he is released, but we plan on him moving in with me.
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when mine gets out he will ask for his parol to be here and he will live with me and my brother and sister cause by then he will be my husband
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When my baby gets out hes living withh me no doubt bout that..
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I married my husband in 2007 after 2 years of knowing him. He will be home this Sept. For us there is no doubt that he will be coming home to our home. By then we will have known each other for almost 6 years. I wouldnt have it any other way. Best wishes to you and yours!
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I voted other.

We are married, but he's paroling to his parents for several reasons. Would I prefer to have him parole to me? Yes I would. Do I think it would be better for him to parole to me? Yes I do. But it is what it is. So, in the meantime, I'll/we continue to rack up the frequent flyer miles, start the interstate compact process, get him off high control parole and hope for the best.
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HELL NAW IM NOT LIVIN WITH HIM!! :-) Just joking! We will live together when tha time is right. No need to rush. ;-)
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We have never even considered him living anywhere else. By the time he is released we will have been together for 20 years.
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I haven't asked my man about the whole "moving in" thing. I'm currently renting a house from my parents, and they already don't approve of our relationship, plus he has a little while to go. So I'm guessing I'll just save up for our own place. I really hope he'd like to live together, but it hasn't been discussed.
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We've talked about this and we are going to live together. He gets sentenced next month so we'll know then exactly how long we have to plan for everything. I'm currently living with my parents because I'm working and going to school and it's just easier, but I'll have our place by the time he's out and I hope that's verrrrry soon.
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we are getting married later this year, so yes, when he gets out he will live in our house
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We will be living together as well. We have wasted too much time as it is being apart. So, taking a leap of faith is what we will be doing. Yes, it will be an adjustment, but I think we are ready to do whatever it takes because we love each other.
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I can't say for sure what is normal in a kind of relationship such as this. I never foresaw myself in this kind of situation. I love James with all my heart and believe him to love me as well. We do plan on being married, so that means we will be living together. Although my Dad does not want him to live with us, and I hate to leave my ailing Dad, but a Husband must come first. Sometimes family does not know us as well as they think they may know us!
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were engaged, hopefully will marry later this year. were doing a cple parole plans ,.at the moment it looks like he may have to go to a halfway house first, whatever it takes to get him out of there and home is what well do.
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we're kind of new to even the idea of an "us." my MWI and myself have just been friends, and have only been in contact now since last September. He comes home this September, and he is being paroled to his parents house. I'll be in a complete different city, about 1 1/2 - 2hrs away from him, but at that time i'll just be starting graduate school and will be in no way ready to have a "dependent" living with me. I'm sure we'll see eachother often, and if all goes well, maybe one day he could possibly move in with me! But as of now, he already has a job lined up back in the town where his parents live, and they have been expecting him and preparing for his homecoming.
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If he does go to jail, it all depends on whether or not he has to register as a S/O. Which i pray to god he doesnt.
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As of now, no. He plans on going home to NH, and we are going to visit as much as possible. He has mentioned me moving there, which I'm not against...I need a change of scenery. So maybe when I visit, I'll look into some jobs
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Yes he will be moving in with me. I asked him the other day if he was coming straight here to Tx or staying in AL for a little while since that is where his family is and he told me that I'm his family now and is coming straight here.
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Yesssss! He will be comming home to me and I cant wait. We are making every effort to make everthing as perfect as we can for us to have and continue a perfect family!
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E will have to do sometime at the HWH but he will be spending as much time at "Our House" as they allow, and we will be moving in together as soon as possible.
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