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View Poll Results: Did your Man you met while in Prison,Move in with you or no?
oh he/she is going to be living with me yes,immediate.i can't wait!i love him/her. 130 51.59%
I love him/her but i do not know about all this moving in so fast lol 28 11.11%
well,when i get a ring from her/him,then we are moving in definitely! 11 4.37%
hell no. i can't see myself living with a man whose straight out of prison.maybe later not sure. 12 4.76%
Yes,Life So Short,SO we did not want to miss 1 day.Planning to marry,engage etc.so it is all good! 63 25.00%
He or she has yet to ask about this,so i am not sure. 17 6.75%
Other....comment below. 27 10.71%
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Old 01-25-2011, 12:32 AM
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Granted my fiance is back in but when he got out last time (ugh! lol don't get me started) he moved in with me. I got an apartment just for "us" so it was new for both of us and it was "our home". And of course when he gets out this time which is the last time... he's coming home to me again!

I wouldn't have had it any other way! He's the only one I love and the only one I want to be with. I didn't want him to be away from me!
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We are married and feel like we live together now.. half of his crap is already here taking up space. LOL. Sometimes, I leave the toilet seat up and his sweats on the living room floor just to get the feeling that he's there.
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Yes, we have plans to live together as soon as he gets out. He has me looking for apartments in the town that we will live in and hopefully if things go right I will be able to get an apartment about 2 or 3 weeks before he gets released that way we can spend our first night together in OUR home. There even members of his family that are going to help me out with deposits in order to get moved in.
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We are getting married in Nov so yes he will be coming home to me. By that time we will have been married for 3yrs. We are more then ready to be together and start a family.
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We will only live together if we are married. I wouldn't even consider it otherwise.
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We are married so of course he will be living with me--I'm waiting for "normal" to begin! What is abnormal to me is that we are apart now.
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Old 01-26-2011, 10:48 AM
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NO NO and No. This decision is not based soley on his incarceration. It has everything to do with that fact I am a strong believer that I need to know my MWI on the outside before making any kind of major decison. I do not feel like I can really know him until he have had some kind of normal in our lives, which means we must get to know each other like a normal couple and see how each one of acts out in the real world. Number 2 I am not going to live with any man. It only makes things more difficult if things don't work out. Number 3 if i am good enough to live with then I am good enough to marry and that isn't goign to happen until the 1st thing happens.
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My fiance will be moving in with me... He just proposed to me Nov. 20th, 2010. His mom helped him buy me a ring and he proposed in the visit room in front of everyone. My aunt brought the ring with her since she went to visit him with me. They had it all planned out behind my back. A couple of weeks ago he tattooed my name on his ring finger. His family loves me and is so excited for us. We are all saving for our wedding in 2014. He gets out in 2013, hopefully sooner.
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No, he will be moving in with his dad when he is released. Then, he can work on getting a job, car, and all the things necessary to be independent once again. He doesn't want to put me out and I don't blame him. I'm there to support him and help him out, but I need someone who will be the "man" and support his woman. He's very traditional in this sense. Then, if he can get a job in the city where I live, or if I can get a job or transfer to where he lives, then we'll move in together, but we have to be committed as in engaged or married first.
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He's moving in with me as long as the parole authority approves it. If not, I guess I'll move down to his county. :-)
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Because of his crime and the length in prison the state would never let him come straight home to me....BUT if he could....YES HE WOULD BE WITH ME!!
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Yep, we are getting married this year, and he will be living with me, no doubt about that! Im praying all 4 of our children will be living with us as well, (he had 2 children before we met, 10 & 12 they love me.)
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Yes my fiance will be living with me (:
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My baby has two years left & we have been together for two already. He is definately living with me, were trying to decide if we want to marry now or wait until hes home. Decisions, decisions.
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We've discussed that he is moving in with his aunt or his mom upon being released. I have two children at home, and I am not going to force him on them or them on him. I said, "we'll have dinner together, go to the park, play at the arcade." And he said, "so, it will be like we're dating?" LOL "Yeah, I guess so!"

My children deserve to get to know him in a leisurely way and not be forced to live with a stranger.
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We've discussed that he is moving in with his aunt or his mom upon being released. I have two children at home, and I am not going to force him on them or them on him. I said, "we'll have dinner together, go to the park, play at the arcade." And he said, "so, it will be like we're dating?" LOL "Yeah, I guess so!"

My children deserve to get to know him in a leisurely way and not be forced to live with a stranger.
Very smart... The dialogue exchanged between you guys is so cute as well!

My man is coming home to me. This decision doesn't affect anyone but me and him in our case...
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As soon as he's allowed to move out of his dad's house (Two weeks to a month.) we're moving in together. His dad is buying us a house (As he has to have his name on the place he's living.) and we'll be in together. I'm excited. Time will hopefully fly by.
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I am his parole plan and cant wait to share daily life!
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Well my man is moving in with me, I don't know if that is normal but what is normal? We love eachother very much and are making life plans, so as soon as he gets out hes coming home to me!!!
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My baby will be coming home to me in February.
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Well its still up in the air idk if he will be able to live wit me due to his parole but if he can it'll be in our home
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I want him home with me but I am not sure if this is allowed by BOP!

Do you ladies know whether a Federal inmate can move in with his girl during parole or does he have to live with immediate relatives?
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We've discussed that he is moving in with his aunt or his mom upon being released. I have two children at home, and I am not going to force him on them or them on him. I said, "we'll have dinner together, go to the park, play at the arcade." And he said, "so, it will be like we're dating?" LOL "Yeah, I guess so!"

My children deserve to get to know him in a leisurely way and not be forced to live with a stranger.
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I want us to get to know each other outside of prison. We aren't married. He wants to move out of the state right away but I want to make sure we click in day to day life before I up and move my kid across the country. He's voiced he wants me to get established there now but my support system is here where I live, so we will take steps toward living together but I've never lived with a man longer than 2 wks lol so its a learning, communication process for me. We have a lot of plans to PLAN!
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I have a friend who just got out after more than 30 years down. He married his MWI several years ago but when he knew he was getting out they discussed it and decided he would go first to a transitional house where the staff there could help with the enormous adjustment back into society, employment, etc. I think it was the smartest decision they could have made. This way, they get to focus on adjusting just their relationship - he spends weekends at "their" house - without the entire weight of his transition falling on her shoulders and without him feeling like he is in "her" space or dependent upon her for his livelihood. It was tempting to want to spend all their time together, but they are in it for the long haul and wanted to start the next phase of their relationship off on a solid foundation.
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