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Old 08-06-2006, 09:07 PM
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Default My cousin tried to hit on my man....

Well this week I recieved a letter and in the letter my man told me that my cousin who was my roommate had been trying to hit on him since we started talking. I already had a feelin that she was kinda jealous of our relationship and she didn't want us together. Well I became pregnant for him in Feb. and she tried so hard to make him believe that I was pregnant for someone else. She told him that I was seeing someone else which was all a lie. At first I didn't know who had made that lie up, but I had a feeling it was her. We started to argue a bit over it but we never split up. I'm not mad him for waiting so long to tell me because I already knew because I know how she is. He told me that he didn't want to tell me sooner because she was my roomie and he didn't want me 2 fight her in front of her kids cause he said im crazy. I'm glad he told me though. But as for my cousin I am really pissed at her. I am going to confront her soon but I don't know what to tell her. I will never trust her and I will never look at her the same. When I do confront her I know she is gonna probably try and say that she didn't do any of that. I believe him over her any day because she is such a liar.We no longer live together. What should I tell her?
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Old 08-06-2006, 09:17 PM
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I am going to confront her soon but I don't know what to tell her. I will never trust her and I will never look at her the same. When I do confront her I know she is gonna probably try and say that she didn't do any of that. I believe him over her any day because she is such a liar.We no longer live together. What should I tell her?
Nothing, you know how she is and that shes going to lie about it, so why bring it up? Just deal with her from a distance and let her be. You and your man straightened things out, so continue doing your thing with him. Alot of times its the people closest to us that we gotta watch.
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Old 08-06-2006, 11:04 PM
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I'm with Rag4life. I know it will be hard, because if your like me, you want to confront her really badly right now, but it isn't going to solve nor change anything. Relish in the relationship you have. That is the best payback.
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Old 08-06-2006, 11:10 PM
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Wait ... you got pregnant FOR him while he's in prison? How did that happen? Did you sleep with someone else, or did you do the AS way?

And did he really call you "crazy?" That's kinda mean.....

Is there any way that you can move out and not deal with her anymore???
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Wait ... you got pregnant FOR him while he's in prison? How did that happen? Did you sleep with someone else, or did you do the AS way?

And did he really call you "crazy?" That's kinda mean.....

Is there any way that you can move out and not deal with her anymore???
call me slow right now, but whats that
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Old 08-06-2006, 11:23 PM
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Oh sorry .... artificial insemination. I find myself abbreviating a lot with medical stuff cause I deal with it every day.
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Old 08-06-2006, 11:36 PM
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Oh sorry .... artificial insemination. I find myself abbreviating a lot with medical stuff cause I deal with it every day.
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PS.. per her post..her and her cousin arent living together anymore..
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Maybe she meant "pregnant from him"....I don't think I would really bother saying anything to her anyway either. Let it go....i know it is hard. Work on your relationship. Good Luck!~~~Brandi
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I definitely would not say anything to her. She is just going to lie and deny it unless she doesn't care about hurting you and actually tells you the truth. You don't need the stress of a fight right now under your condition. Call me nosey but I, like ToughTimes, would like to know how you become pregnant. Was it before he went it? Best of luck to you.
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i would let it go..but always beware........

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PS.. per her post..her and her cousin arent living together anymore..
Whoops - sorry, I missed that. Good for you for moving out and on to better things in life. Come back and update us!!!
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To clear this alll up. I became pregnant way before he went in. He has only been in for about 3 months. He isn't actually in prison he is in a county jail. So yes this child is his, and that is understood between us. He called me "crazy" not to be mean its a term we use down south to say we are down for whatever and who knows what I will do to her, and he don't want me gettin into trouble. As for our relationship everything is great!!
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I am glad that your relationship is going well .. I think that you need to focus on the baby and your relationship.. true she is family but you know sometimes family can be your worst enemy.. Leave her alone and only deal with her when you have too.. Show her that you and him can and will make it even with her meddling

Keep your head up and remain strong ..
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I agree, steer clear of her. How is she trying to get with your guy? Is she writing, visiting or what? Whatever, you should make it clear to your guy to put a stop to communicating with this woman.
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She had told him all that before he went in. We would go out to a local club in our area and when I was not around him she told him. I like to give him his space when we go out so I can have time to talk to my girls without him crowding me. But we would always spend time together as well and we would always leave together. That is when she told him. But she will never have that chance again. I'm gonna let her make it this time but next time it will be on.
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