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Old 01-03-2010, 04:10 PM
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I haven't heard from my husband in over 24 hours. I always talk to my husband every night, and he didn't call me last night. I know to expect the unexpected when it comes to the prison system, but I am so scared that something is wrong or something happened to him. My husband's charges aren't something you want to be in prison for (child porn), and I am so afraid he is going to get hurt or even killed. For those who don't know...my husband didn't do it; he was set up by two females (long story). I am trying so hard not to be stressed out because I am also pregnant, but I can't help it. I can't help to think of all the horror stories you hear about people in prison. I know that they can go on lockdown at anytime, but that really isn't easing my mind any. Sorry, but I am just so worried and scared. I can't imagine losing him for good. Our children and I need him!! Please pray for his safety!! Thanks, I know I can count on you guys, my PTO family.
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Old 01-03-2010, 05:09 PM
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give it one more night, if you don't hear from him you can always call and check to make sure that he's not ill or hurt. they will tell you that he's alright. I had that problem once with my hubby and i called the jail and told them that i just had a bad feeling that something was wrong and they told me he was just fine and not 30 minutes later he called me
Don't always jump to the worst possible outcome of things, and as for the charge, my mans in on violation of probation on attempted rape...which he didn't do and i don't understand an attempted anything charge but thats another topic. just breathe, take a warm bath or shower, write, go for a walk (if its not subzero temps there) crank up the music and dance around do something to occupy your time
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Old 01-03-2010, 05:11 PM
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I am sorry That must be very scary but probably it is just something with the jail. Phones not working, blah...blah... you know how things happen in there.

Can you call and see what is going on? That might put your mind at ease.

Take care of yourself, I am sure he'll be in touch soon
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Old 01-03-2010, 05:19 PM
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I agree with the person above. Give it another night. I use to go threw those feelings in the beginning too and now 8 years in I don't start "really" worrying until a week has passed ( after a few days, i do get concerned but I really worry after a week) just because lock downs happen and sometimes it could be an issue with the phones or no money. I know it is a scary feeling, when you are use to them doing one thing and then it changes. I am sure he is ok and also from my knowledge, I don't believe it is ever broadcasted what anyone is "in" for, I could be wrong but from my understand that info is only shared by the inmate himself.

Try not to worry yourself to much for you and the baby. Your concerns are valid but try to think positive. try and keep your head up
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Old 01-03-2010, 05:22 PM
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oh also if you haven't heard anything within the next 24 hours call his prison and ask to speak with the chaplain there and he/she will normally be able to tell you if he is among general population ( & he's ok) or if he is locked down or the prison is locked down in general. but you can ALWAYS call and ask if the prison is on lockdown cause you haven't heard from him and you were worried.

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Thank you everyone for you kind words of encouragement. I did finally hear from my husband, and he is ok. He just got caught up last night watch a movie and playing spades with some other inmates. He said you just can't leave in the middle of a game because they don't think too highly of it. He said he was sorry for worrying me. Now, I know if he doesn't call a night; he just got caught up playing cards or something. If I didn't hear from him today, I was going to call the jail tomorrow to check on him. He did tell me that some people in there does know why he is in there, but so far they are being understand. Thanks again for everyone's encouraging words. I really appreciate it.
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you very welcome, I am just glad that he is fine and that now you can really relax for you and that wonderful baby. HAKUNA MATATA ( means NO WORRIES )
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Awe, that's scary. I'm glad he was okay. First time my man skipped a call I was real worried too, 'til he told me he was stuck in a card game (and explained that it's not cool to leave in the middle of a game). He told me he felt pretty dumb for letting time slip away and sounded so sheepish that it was kinda cute.

I can't say I blame you for being worried - we all hear about how being labeled with certain offenses can cause a person to have a real hard time when they're locked up. I'm glad to hear that things have been alright so far for your hubby.
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