What will happen now? - mail and visit questions, too

[dorothy.campbel]

I've never had to deal with a loved one in prison before. As far as I know, he's still in R&C and I'm already worrying. I don't even understand why I'm worried, this isn't his first time. He had a 7 year sentence and was put on probation, but violated it by missing his curfew... He wasn't even out a whole two months. I'm not sure how to handle all of this. We went from being together everyday to completely torn apart. I haven't spoken to him in 5 days and I'm already going insane. When can I send him a letter? I know his mdoc #, I just don't know when I can write him, nor do I know where to send the letter. Will it get to him or will they hold it? Will he be able to respond? Will he be able to call me as soon as he makes his list? I apologize, I know I probably seem like some stupid, lovesick, teenage girl, but, like I said, I've never dealt with this before. And, he's the love of my life. I never thought I would find him. And, when I did, I lost him. Also, I may be pregnant; I'll find out for sure on the 19th. If I am pregnant, will I be able to see him and speak to him more often? I came to this site because nobody in my family or circle of friends has ever been through something like this. Sure, I could ask his sister, but she didn't know about us and he wanted to wait to tell his family, but he was arrested before we could tell them. So, I don't want to go to her/them for fear of him seeing it as betrayal. I know, I sound crazy. I feel like I'm going crazy...

[Patty]

Hi Dorothy I've moved your thread here so that our Mississippi members can assist you. Best of luck.