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HISONLY1 · #**176** 10-19-2012, 07:56 PM

how would i get his id??

Dreamin13 · #**177** 10-19-2012, 07:56 PM

I've never heard of them asking for the inmates BC...most of them don't have it...if you can't get it, I would really look into that and see if that's necessary. All the girls I know who have gotten married, none of them needed his bc or id...That's crazy!!!

j&f bomar · #**178** 10-20-2012, 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Dreamin13

I've never heard of them asking for the inmates BC...most of them don't have it...if you can't get it, I would really look into that and see if that's necessary. All the girls I know who have gotten married, none of them needed his bc or id...That's crazy!!!

Yea I talked to Vivina or whatever her name is and told me I need His ID N HIS BC I'm like why can't u guys get his ID u guys have access to The DMV RECORDS...idk but I'm gonnA tell my honey

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trueblue310 · #**179** 10-22-2012, 08:51 PM

Yea I spoke to her today too and she said its not the prison its Kern County requesting it. Which is so dumb. It's clear they're in custody. So now I'm completely lost on how to get a copy of his ID or something that they will consider valid. I have his birth certificate but no ID :/ I'm gonna look for his parole face sheet from when he was paroled last time and see if that'll do since it has his picture, social, DOB and ID number. Ugghh this sucks!!!

HisSugarPie · #**180** 10-22-2012, 10:16 PM

http://www.co.kern.ca.us/ctyclerk/marriage/faq.asp

This is the website for the Kern County Clerks office. It says: " If you are 18 years of age or older and would like to purchase a PUBLIC license, you will need a driver's license or some form of valid government issued photo ID."

So from my understanding of that, the cards our guys bring out to the CO's during contact visits should suffice. It is a gov't issued photo ID. The website gives the name and phone number of the county clerk. You might want to try calling them to see what other options are available. Good luck ladies!

trueblue310 · #**181** 10-22-2012, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by HisSugarPie

http://www.co.kern.ca.us/ctyclerk/marriage/faq.asp

This is the website for the Kern County Clerks office. It says: " If you are 18 years of age or older and would like to purchase a PUBLIC license, you will need a driver's license or some form of valid government issued photo ID."

So from my understanding of that, the cards our guys bring out to the CO's during contact visits should suffice. It is a gov't issued photo ID. The website gives the name and phone number of the county clerk. You might want to try calling them to see what other options are available. Good luck ladies!

Thanks!! I'm calling tomorrow and see what they say. Hopefully that little ID card will work. The only obstacle is finding a staff member who will kindly make a copy of it for him lol. Thanks girly!

CarmackAmanda · #**182** 10-22-2012, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by trueblue310

Thanks!! I'm calling tomorrow and see what they say. Hopefully that little ID card will work. The only obstacle is finding a staff member who will kindly make a copy of it for him lol. Thanks girly!

Please pm me or post here after you find out manana...that way those of us planning on getting married soon will know what we gotta do. Thanks!

30lives · #**183** 10-23-2012, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by CarmackAmanda

Please pm me or post here after you find out manana...that way those of us planning on getting married soon will know what we gotta do. Thanks!

Just a quick response - I was able to get his birth certificate; I just went on a web site and printed out the paper work he needed to fill out and sent it in to him and then he sent it back to me all filled out and i sent it in with a money order and it was sent to me. We were approved when he was over at Tehachapi but we couldnt go through with it because he was being transferred over to kern prior to the date they gave us for our wedding...

Morans_Wifey · #**184** 10-23-2012, 09:04 AM

Hello Ladies, My husband might be transfered here as a reception hold. I wanted to see if you know weither they have phone privellages during this time or not. Also If the visits are behind glass or in person? Is there a posibilty of him staying ther?

jenilynn · #**185** 10-23-2012, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Morans_Wifey

Hello Ladies, My husband might be transfered here as a reception hold. I wanted to see if you know weither they have phone privellages during this time or not. Also If the visits are behind glass or in person? Is there a posibilty of him staying ther?

You need the NKSP Forum.. That is where they are held for reception, and as far as i am aware they are not allowed to use the phone. Sorry! Hope that helped.

30lives · #**186** 10-31-2012, 07:24 AM

Was anyone able to find out how we go about getting color ID?

HISONLY1 · #**187** 11-05-2012, 10:19 PM

My fianace tells me he turned in his slip to request for marriage package and still no packet its been 3 weeks who should i call or does the packet take that long to recieve ?

Inhishands · #**188** 11-05-2012, 11:13 PM

It can take a couple months sometimes

HISONLY1 · #**189** 11-06-2012, 11:27 AM

Wow !! So no need to contact anyone ?

jenilynn · #**190** 11-06-2012, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by HISONLY1

My fianace tells me he turned in his slip to request for marriage package and still no packet its been 3 weeks who should i call or does the packet take that long to recieve ?

My husband had to reques the package 3 times before it was sent to him. Get him to request it again and make sure he is also sending in the trust withdrawl slip.

HISONLY1 · #**191** 11-10-2012, 10:17 AM

He just received marriage package he is sending it already now I have both of our birth certificates and a copy of my I'd do I need anything else so I can be prepared ?

Inhishands · #**192** 11-10-2012, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by HISONLY1

He just received marriage package he is sending it already now I have both of our birth certificates and a copy of my I'd do I need anything else so I can be prepared ?

I believe if either of you have been married be
fore you need the divorce decree

HISONLY1 · #**193** 11-14-2012, 04:37 PM

No never been married before, I'm still confused about the whole Id thing I'm assuming we can use his inmate Id because it has picture and name ?? Anyone have any feedback?

mrs kirk · #**194** 11-14-2012, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by babygirlxx323sc

I have a quick question could some one that has life in prison have family visit

Sorry but no. No lifers at all can have family visits.

jtwifey87 · #**195** 12-06-2012, 02:58 AM

It took several weeks to get the packet for my man. Then 3 months to schedule a marriage date. We were married Jan. 20th, 2012 at KVSP D yard visiting room. Hoping for a nice wedding when he come home in a year and a half though

Malicastillo530 · #**196** 12-12-2012, 09:01 PM

Anybody have any info on how I can get my mans birth certificate? His mom refuses to give it to me. My man and I have a daughter together, yet his family don't want us to get married. . I tried doing it online but it asked for a notarized letter from him.

Inhishands · #**197** 12-13-2012, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Malicastillo530

Anybody have any info on how I can get my mans birth certificate? His mom refuses to give it to me. My man and I have a daughter together, yet his family don't want us to get married. . I tried doing it online but it asked for a notarized letter from him.

It varies from State to State...some are easier than others. If it is absolutely in stone that he needs a notarized statement he can arrange that through his counselor, of course there will be a charge