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View Poll Results: Have you slipped?
Yes, once 100 9.29%
Yes, several times 159 14.78%
Nope, never 639 59.39%
I've thought about it 178 16.54%
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Old 02-03-2006, 11:42 AM
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Maybe it's a woman thing and maybe it's a people thing... who knows. It is just another one of life's mysteries like "When did my own wife's gift of gab become a blessed song in my ear"? One thing is certain, I will always be there to listen to, comfort, and cherish one of God's greatest gifts to me.... my wife.

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skychickFL,

I think we had some pretty sincere, honest, and heart felt responses. I would rather be thankfull for the limited, but quality responses here than negate the whole thing as a loss. As Confusius said "The longest journey begins with a single step". I think we took a huge step. After all, if it were easy, anyone could...

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Old 02-07-2006, 01:44 AM
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I suppose so, Tx It's good to know there are at least SOME men out there willing to wait it out.
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Old 02-10-2006, 05:22 PM
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The hardest thing I've done, and it's not over. It's not a glamorous, or happy time,it really just sucks,and time does not fly. So I will keep trying, and will always love my woman, even though she screwed up in a big way.
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For the men who did answer this question I admire you. It takes a strong man to speak his deepest feelings (as TX and her_man did - very sweet posts - they are lucky woman to have you by their sides). It also takes a strong man to admit to something they know some will judge them for - especially on a post such as this with us women looking over your shoulder. We know you men have deep feelings ... we also know that society has pressured you since you were toddlers to "be strong," "don't cry," and "never show your emotions."

GoldieGirl ... I have always wondered about the comment you made ... "man is a man, and it's hard for them to go a long period of time without it" Why is it presumed that it is okay on some level for a man to slip just because he is a man? Men have dignity and honor - okay, some do - my ex isn't one of them, but I don't think he had an affair just because he was a man. Women do slip too. If they weren't, men would be having affairs with other men.

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Old 02-14-2006, 03:38 PM
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I have stayed true but my man has told me he would understand if I did slip up but so far I haven't had the urge or desire to be with another
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my wife has served 4 of 25 and i love her so much. allthough i think maybe she has cheated while in there. i am still true and doing a lot of thinking.
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i am a guy who has been faitful although there are time where my mind dose wander i love e.g.g. very much and have no intention on breaking the trust she has in me and like i've read i look forward to looking her in the eye when the wuestion comes up and saying i have been 100% faithful to you!
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hello i'm a guy and have not slipped don't want to just want my girl back
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my wife just went to fire camp. with this i know that she will be home soon. she is getting 35%. it is not a rumor. so now we just have to wait for her to see a counselor to get a new face sheet for a release date. anyone new want info on ciw if you wife or girl goes there, please ask and i will tell you what it was like for her and i and our children. good luck to all and my heart goes out to those men willing and waiting for there wifes or women in prison. LORD bless you!
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35%??? I'm not sure what you mean. Thump me. lol

I think all the men and women who responded are wonderful folks.... if there is anybody out there who did slip.... don't feel like you're gonna get pounced upon. Who knows, maybe talking about this if you don't want it to happen again may be as close as your keyboard. PTO is not about judging... that's what the big Guy upstairs does.... so feel free to speak up either way.

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Wow it is so good to see the Nope, Never poll well in the front running. I hope that this tells everybody something! Our loved one's in prision, should not be forgotten and should not be forsaken. Those of us who have kept the faith..... We will win and we will get out loved one's back and we can go to sleep at nights knowing we did the right thing.

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Please understand I AM NOT A HATER!! but i dont understand how someone "SLIPS"?? do you just fall in or what?? If my man ( be he inside or out) ever told me , hey babe I slipped up I would have to ask him the same question... Isnt this a voluntary action? Arent you 100% aware of what you arer doing? isnt anything else trying to find a way to justify those actions? I do understand that it isnt myplace to judge anyone, that's Gods work... But I just want to understand the resoning for that phrase.Thanks everyone, have a great day!
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Patricia,



Just read your post.... more specifically your quote "i dont understand how someone "SLIPS"?? do you just fall in or what?? " and wanted to say "THANKS for the smile". I needed it.



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I Slip But I Still Love My Husband Nomatter What
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I Have Needs As Well But The Thing About It He Wasn't A Angel !!!
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WHAT??!!!

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I Slip But I Still Love My Husband Nomatter What
I'm sorry, but anyone who continuously "slips"...has a problem and needs to address it....how would you feel if your man said that quote to you??? If someone "slips"...whether it be a man or a woman....it can be forgiven, but if it happens more than ONE time, then that person doesn't love the person their with enough to stay faithful and true to their "true love"....i'm not questioning your love for your man...and I know we all have "needs"...but that are what "BOB'S" are for!! LOL

I just had to comment on this post...
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all i gotta say is when i was with my ex i didnt even cheat and man it was him who did it to me when im with someone its loyalty always but when i see a reason to do something it happens for a reason and i wish more men were as loyal as TXRhino and Her_Man are and those good men out there that rep for their woman because these men are VERY hard to come by
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Well I thought about it, but I was really drunk at the time (no excuse) but I didn't and I am glad!
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