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Old 05-24-2019, 09:43 AM
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I had to handle it that way because I would have been bitter the rid of my life and I wouldn't have trusted anyone because I would have still have had my ex-girlfriend on my mind. I did not want to put a future girlfriend through that. I had to call my ex-girlfriend and tell her what and how I felt about the situation.
You will find someone who is better than her in every way. for you are worth better. I have made a closer with the guy who fooled me completely. I just wrote what I thought and thought about him. important you get out of what you feel so it becomes a little easier to move on. You are strong..
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Old 05-28-2019, 09:07 PM
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You will find someone who is better than her in every way. for you are worth better. I have made a closer with the guy who fooled me completely. I just wrote what I thought and thought about him. important you get out of what you feel so it becomes a little easier to move on. You are strong..

And I know that I will find someone else. I am not worried about it at all.
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Old 05-31-2019, 04:20 PM
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Any update? Did you end things?? Just wondering...
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Old 05-31-2019, 09:08 PM
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Old 05-31-2019, 10:09 PM
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Yes, I am about 22 years older than her but her son's father is 20 years older than her and they were together for like 5 years. That just tells me that she likes older guys.
And it tells me that you are old enough, though perhaps not yet mature enough, to stop playing games-- even with yourself.

If you're trying to avoid it in the future-- I'd say stay away from folks who have a history of skirting the truth/law. They might be a little more conniving than you're prepared for. Keep money out of the relationship. At this point in your life, you have the option to date women who are established and able to care for themselves. Paying for a mutually satisfying dinner is one thing, supporting them is entirely different.


You've ended things, you're resolute in not sending her money, there's zero need to spend another moment bashing your head in wondering how you could have made it go right or what her long-term scheme is. She had no intentions of being an equal partner and all of the figuring in the world won't make that make sense.
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Go no contact. Dont answer her calls. Dont waste your tears on someone who wont cry for you. If you keep calling and asking questions they are laughing at you. Very sorry but face the truth and stop believing lies
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Old 06-01-2019, 12:10 AM
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Things will get better with time if you don’t have any contact with her.
I was delusional and had cognitive dissonance when mine got out and things starting going to hell.
I think the same thing is happening with you.
It’s just really hard to accept and we do understand what you’re going through, many of us have gone through it as well in varying degrees.
Best of luck to you
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cut all ties, no calls, no emails, no texts, block social media relationships are not built on lies, deceit, cheating and user's! You dont deserve that! know your worth
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