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Old 08-28-2019, 02:20 PM
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Have any of you started off with a pen-pal who was married yet they've fallin in love with you?

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I'm not MWI, our relationship was more of RWI. We knew each other and dated when we were younger. However, my now husband was legally married when we reunited. He had not seen or heard from her in over 7 years, but legally they were married. But I was also legally married at the time. We had been "separated" for a while though before my relationship with my now husband started.

It didn't take long for us to fall so far in love that we cannot do without each other at this point. It took 2 years, a move halfway across the country, getting both our divorces, and going through a long aggravating process with the prison m but we are now legally married! And we both could not be happier.
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No he was not married or in a relationship he was four years into a five year bid when we met. I had intentions on getting to know him intimately when I began writing him lol. I would not have wrote him as a married man I was to attracted to his picture. He is a friends brother I wasn’t in the market for a pen pal.
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No. He went in at 19, never married.
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I'm not MWI, our relationship was more of RWI. We knew each other and dated when we were younger. However, my now husband was legally married when we reunited. He had not seen or heard from her in over 7 years, but legally they were married. But I was also legally married at the time. We had been "separated" for a while though before my relationship with my now husband started.

It didn't take long for us to fall so far in love that we cannot do without each other at this point. It took 2 years, a move halfway across the country, getting both our divorces, and going through a long aggravating process with the prison m but we are now legally married! And we both could not be happier.
WOW! That's a story and it's just the beginning Thank you for sharing. I'm MWI and still it never fails to surprise me that others go through so much with loved ones incarcerated.

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No he was not married or in a relationship he was four years into a five year bid when we met. I had intentions on getting to know him intimately when I began writing him lol. I would not have wrote him as a married man I was to attracted to his picture. He is a friends brother I wasn’t in the market for a pen pal.
Oh girl... keeping it real with the intentions loooove it!! Good for you! I'm going to be on the hunt for your homecoming update
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Oh girl... keeping it real with the intentions loooove it!! Good for you! I'm going to be on the hunt for your homecoming update
He’s been home two years now and the fire is still hot!!! Lol
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He’s been home two years now and the fire is still hot!!! Lol
I've got lots of catching up to do! 2 years and still hot??? I NEED to read through your posts!! 2 years??? Still flaming hot you lucky lady!! I've never experienced a flame longer than a long ass minute.
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No. He’d been divorced for a year or two when we met? I don’t do married men. Get that paperwork done and then we’ll talk.
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Nope... he went in with 19 years old and is still in, 25 years going on 26, but already in minimum custody. If marriage is in our future... I have no clue. It's not my goal. Just want him the eff to come home
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He's in love with you!

Have any of you started off with a pen-pal who was married yet they've fallin in love with you?

Then what? Share your story.

no chica, he was so not "married."


nor was he engaged,
nor in a "serious committed relationship of such normalcy, not used to a healthy
focus woman, nor used of a healthy "real" relationship.
He was not used to anything pure and good and real(as far as a relationship)

He was not used to a mature-grown-up type of real amor, (real love)was foreign to mi sweetheart."

He simply had zero clue what it is, what it was." Good luck to you and god bless...
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When it's right,
you're going to know it, and most important "feel it, deep within."
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If he was a married guy, i would immediately back off and keep it movin'
premised on i would not want that to happen to me, and i just wouldn't go "there."
So, i'm happy he was not used to a real relation, etc., let alone being
married etc.al.,

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No he has never been married and he wasn't in a relationship when I wrote either. We just met at the perfect time for both of us
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I saw my MWI on TV. He was on one of those crime shows. After watching it a few times, I told my friend about him. She helped me find him and I wrote him. At the time I wrote, he had a girlfriend and did not write me because of that. A year later, they broke up and he saved my letter and decided to write. That tells me he is loyal. I can trust him. 5 years later, we are happy and still together. :-)
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I saw my MWI on TV. He was on one of those crime shows. After watching it a few times, I told my friend about him. She helped me find him and I wrote him. At the time I wrote, he had a girlfriend and did not write me because of that. A year later, they broke up and he saved my letter and decided to write. That tells me he is loyal. I can trust him. 5 years later, we are happy and still together. :-)
wild thing you! indeed, sweet that he didn't write you while in a "thing" with someone else, good for him for exercising loyalty
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