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beanbag · #**276** 08-10-2012, 12:44 PM

Hey, I hope you get the closure you have been looking for. I have been following your thread, and that last letter from him really does sound like he has taken the steps to move on. I hope you will too, even it that may be hard to do right now.

BLoved · #**277** 08-11-2012, 09:45 AM

I am glad you have some answers; and I hope they help you move forward.

There is one thing that really struck me in his answers, and that is his answer to Q 17.
Now I am aware I know zilch about the situation that brought him to prison; yet I cannot help but think why would it be the responsibility of someone else to help get him out of prison.
In my opinion, only if he tried to work on a plan to go home faster, and you refused to cooperate with that, can he hold that against you.
If this was not the case, than it is him still coming to terms with the length of time he has to pay for his crime. And I sincerely hope you are not left now feeling guilty for not doing enough.