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View Poll Results: Would you take his last name once married ?
Dont have to ask me twice.....wheres the closest DMV ! 1,568 77.62%
Maybe if he really pushes it.... 30 1.49%
hypnate it, keep mines and add his.... 261 12.92%
I might once he gets out...... 97 4.80%
Probably not ........... 64 3.17%
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Old 12-23-2004, 01:22 AM
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We got our marriage certificat today And as quick as the sun rises tomorrow, I'm off to make it that name change happen
I was told to wait 2-3 weeks after our ceremony to call and see if the certificate was ready, that was the funniest thing I ever heard Me wait ! I tried, although being married to an inmate you would think I have mastered the whole patience thing. Which for the most part, I have, but I still get pretty jumpy about things. Anyways we got married Saturday December 11th and no later than that following Wednesday I was on the phone to Solano, asking whats up To my surprise she said she had it, all I ad to do was come pick it up. Well to say the least, since I was unable to drive to go get it, I overnighted my money and got it Today.First thing tomorrow I'm off it REALLY make it official. Yes ladies, I'm doing the name change thing and loving it. I cant wait to officically be called.Mrs.Evans ( loves the sound of that ) So heres my question : Would you take his last name or keeps yours, if so when would you do it, now or when he comes home and if not, if you dont mind my asking why not?

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I changed my name shortly after we got married. It was kinda weird, since I was the only one left with my family last name...kinda like the end of an era...but I was happy to take my husbands name.

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I changed my name shortly after we got married. It was kinda weird, since I was the only one left with my family last name...kinda like the end of an era...but I was happy to take my husbands name.

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This is how I feel. He said we could keep my last name and hyphen however I am going to take his name.
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I changed my name shortly after we got married. It was kinda weird, since I was the only one left with my family last name...kinda like the end of an era...but I was happy to take my husbands name.

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good 4 u, i'm not sure if i'm hyphenating yet. will be my 2nd marriage, went back to maiden name. so i'm gonna hv 2 pray 4 guidance. I'm like u, the last girl w/family name.
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I went and did it about 1/2 hour after we were married, then went to Social Security office and changed it there for a new card then went and ate lunch and headed back for the regular visit of 2:30 until 9 pm .I had a 1 1/2 until i could come back for the visit and knew i needed to do something..
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Nick and I didnt want to get married bc to us two years wasnt long enough to do it while he was in. when he is out and we take the plunge he better give up his name bc it will be all mine ALL MINE I TELL YOU!!! Love ya ANgie
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I'm from the old school, where a wife takes her hubby's name.
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Old 12-23-2004, 09:12 AM
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No question about it, I would absolutely take his last name. He already refers to me with his last name, because we are already married in our hearts.

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im going to hypehnate our names together. i will never get rid of my maiden name, but i definitley have to add his.
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i changed mine with a quickness! i did the dmv and ss office on the same day! so proud to be his lil' wifey for lifey! -Aimee
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No question about it, I would absolutely take his last name. He already refers to me with his last name, because we are already married in our hearts.

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that's my answer exactly. he is already my hubby in my heart and he refers to me as his wife. i will definitely want to change my name for the sake of our children (present and future). the PARKER family!!!
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No question about it, I would absolutely take his last name. He already refers to me with his last name, because we are already married in our hearts.

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Aww!! I think that's sweet the way he refers to you with his last name, I thought that was special when my love did the same thing to me! So now we are married in our hearts like you also mention!!
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No question about it, I would absolutely take his last name. He already refers to me with his last name, because we are already married in our hearts.

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I know exactly what you mean that is the way we are , he even addresses my letters to me in his last name . LOL I always wonder what the postal carrier thinks. Something like wow I wonder how many names does this woman have .
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My man already calls me his wife. U see i never thought I'd ever want 2 marry again. I'm widowed after 20 yrs & was single for 5 before Jeff came into my life. I will lose all my benefits from my first husband if i marry legally. He knows i luv him with all my soul & understands this so we have decided that i will just take his name & use it on everything but legal documents. Ppl may believe its crazy but in our eyes we r partners for life.
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I would take his name quicker then fast. We already refer to each other as Husband and wife. I can't wait until its really official. I Love him so much!!!
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I would take his name quicker then fast. We already refer to each other as Husband and wife. I can't wait until its really official. I Love him so much!!!
I Loved Your Comments.It Reminded Me Of My Soon To Be Hubby.We Haven't Tied The Knot Yet.However, He Already Address Me As His Wife.When I Received Letters/Cards From Him;My Face Lights Up.I Tell Others Its An Honor To Drop My Last Name;Only To Wear His Name Proudly.
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We already refer to me as Jennifer Cook too we were going to get married while he's in but he only has 6 months left or shorter if he gets his time cut so we are just waiting.
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Congrats on your soon to be husband, he already refers to u as his wife? My bf does to he calls me Mrs.Kelly Pettit you are so lucky, i would love to marry my bf and be with him
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We Are Getting Maried In January. But, He Has Been Refering To Me As Mrs.jimanaroj Since We Decided To Get Married. My Name Plate On My Office Already Says Shannon Jimanaroj. I Can Not Wait For It To Be Official.
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I chased him for 45 years -- heck yea I took his name! Took me over a month to get everything changed but that was because I was dealing with an insurance company! Call me old fashioned, but I love him enough to marry him, why wouldn't I want his name.
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With a name like SCARY...so different, who wouldn't...It's the topic of conversation everytime I take my kids to the doctors....
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I would take his name as quick as you can say "Jack the Ripper"!! He already addresses me as Mrs. Jerry!! I cant wait for us to make it all official.
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With a name like SCARY...so different, who wouldn't...It's the topic of conversation everytime I take my kids to the doctors....

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