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View Poll Results: Would you take his last name once married ?
Dont have to ask me twice.....wheres the closest DMV ! 1,566 77.60%
Maybe if he really pushes it.... 30 1.49%
hypnate it, keep mines and add his.... 261 12.93%
I might once he gets out...... 97 4.81%
Probably not ........... 64 3.17%
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Old 03-28-2011, 08:24 PM
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Odd girl out....didn't take the name. I figured that since he married m.t. he might want to actually wake up to m.t. I am who I am and I guess I figure that's who he wants to be married to; why would he want to marry me and find I was someone else the next day; someone else new name and all.
yes same here.. The Odd Ball..I've been married for over 5 years and I have not done the paperwork for a name change...at the same time ...I was unsure at times due to siTuations...and now he's in prison, he would have to pay restitution ..idk...I don't want anyone putting a lien on my house or bank accounts...so maybe when he gets home and things are rolling right...then I will get the paperwork together...until then no..and I'm not ashamed of it...;-)
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Old 05-05-2011, 03:21 PM
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Okay girl's,can some one fill me in on the legal side of things. If we get married and i take his name am i then responsible for his restitution and any other creditors? Can some one help out a girl out!!!
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Old 05-05-2011, 04:06 PM
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Not only am I taking his name, I tattooed it across my back the night I proposed after his sentencing.
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Old 05-14-2011, 07:24 PM
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My man proposed in the middle of an everyday conversation. He asked me if I liked his new tattoo (may name, was permanently written on his skin!). I was shocked and well speechless... When I didn't answer fast enough he said "Sandra Patterson are you going to answer me"? (Patterson is HIS/our last name).

The next thing out of my mouth was YES! And our history is being written... I love that man.
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I would love to take his name but I'm not. I do not want to have a different name than my sons. We've talked about it and he understands but I am thinking of hyphenating. This is a tough issue for me because I am traditional and always planned to take his name.
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We are getting married this month. Changing my name, HELL YES! As far as my family goes, I haven't told them when we're going to get married. My family are not fond of him and frankly i don't care. He is the love of my life and i will and forever stand by this man. So i am proud to have his last name. Very proud!
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Old 07-05-2011, 08:55 PM
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Yes I would take his last name
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Old 07-05-2011, 09:17 PM
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Already "physically" taken his name, tattooed on the inside of my arm... legally will be taking his name around Mid-April of 2012
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Already "physically" taken his name, tattooed on the inside of my arm... legally will be taking his name around Mid-April of 2012
That's cool I been thinking of doing something similar with his name and mine in a tattoo :-) and yes to the question would I take his name! Bc I got every intention of marrying him now whether he in lock up or not! He is mine and I'm his! :-)
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I also have my mans Name in ink & will b getting married for our aniv in April! The coolest pArt of all Is him & my daughter already have same last name so I must have just been destin to have the last name I'm excited but kno marrying him will cause me grief with her father along with my family but I can't imagine my life with any other man
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Most definitely "YES"!!! I will change my last name.
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Hell yea! And proud to have it - July 2012 ladies!!!!
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I want to take on his last name and we are not married yet when i write him i put his last name with my frist name on the envolpe
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Old 09-18-2011, 06:03 PM
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YES!!! And I love when he says my name w/ his last name!! Damn I love that Man!!!!
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I am taking his name.... that goes without question too....were engaged and I will be his wife one day... That man loves me like no other an I love him more!

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It gives me chills to think of taking his name, i can't wait <3 we're not officially engaged but he's asked me to marry him before he went in..
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I'd take his last name ASAP in a heartbeat <3
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I'm not married or even engaged, but one day when I do get married, I'm traditional so I will take his last name
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Yesssss! I am definitely going to drop my last name so fast and wear his proudly=].
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I already have! Since the day we met, he told me "you're the future Mrs. Robles, it's nice to meet you!"....since he started writing me and calling me he addressed me as Mrs. Robles his wifey! We made it official when he got out a year after we met on May 31 2011
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I can't wait to be Mrs. Lee... madien name RIP!!!!
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I AM STRUGGLING WITH THIS QUESTION!! Oh my gosh... I do want his name... I want to be Mrs. H vs. Mrs. L when I am teaching... but we are only telling a select few people and really no one in my family... I really want to wait until he comes home and we actually have the real ceremony and renew our vows... but I am anxious and want to change it as soon as we get the paperwork through... ahhh
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No doubt about it! Will take his name in a heartbeat and a matter of fact on November 28th im making the name change official! Goodbye maiden name!
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this is the "90s"...(i'm not dumb i know it's not)...and i full plan on keeping @least my dad's last name and hyphenating it with my fiance's last name...as it is i have MY MOM's last name and my DAD's...and i think it's great....OUR kids will have my mom's, dad's, and husband's last name on the birth certificate but i told him for all other purpose it can be just his...

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I'm so ready to take my man name.we are about to get married it was approved I'm so happy we are thinking of a date now.
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