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View Poll Results: Would you take his last name once married ?
Dont have to ask me twice.....wheres the closest DMV ! 1,567 77.61%
Maybe if he really pushes it.... 30 1.49%
hypnate it, keep mines and add his.... 261 12.93%
I might once he gets out...... 97 4.80%
Probably not ........... 64 3.17%
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Old 10-24-2012, 09:00 PM
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Yes! As soon as we can get married, I will be proud to carry his name!
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I would take his name if we could get married right now!<3 As soon as he gets out in 2014 we will have the same last name and be together forever and ever!
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Old 01-28-2013, 10:20 AM
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Yes I would be changing may name asap after we get married. He is my man and I am not ashamed to carry his name.
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Old 01-28-2013, 01:45 PM
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I am going to be taking his name one week from tomorrow. I'll wear that name proudly.

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Old 01-28-2013, 05:46 PM
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My man told me not to take his name. He said I'll never get a job with his name. But he doesn't like his name anyway and will probably change it when he gets out.
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Of course. I already do on our joint Facebook.
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Old 02-04-2013, 07:15 AM
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No doubts in my mind.. If we decided to get married I'd take his last name in a heartbeat. Right now we haven't decided if we will get married or just be together forever...
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Old 02-04-2013, 12:36 PM
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We got married on 09th November 2012, and no I didn't change my name and have no intention of doing so. My name is my name, doesn't mean I love him any less for keeping my own name.
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Old 02-06-2013, 12:14 AM
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Yes I will be taking his name .shortly after.... He's serving life
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Yeah me too I already saying Fayza Freeman since he start calling me that and I love it!
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Actually, J wants to change HIS name, so he talks about taking MY name when we get married.

Yet another thing where we don't tend to do things 'the normal' way. Haha!

But he's also dead serious about it. His name has a lot of bad memories attached to it (as he's put it when I ask him), so he'd rather just change it and move on with his life. As he told me, it's either change it to his stepfather's surname, or he could just take MY last name when we get married.

Who knows if that's what will actually happen. I'd have no problem trading in my last name for his; but I'd keep the surname I was born with as my 'stage' name regardless for opera.
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Hell to the yes. I'm proud to wear his name
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Yes, and hopefully I will soon enough
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I already use his family name in many situations. Legally I still use my other name but for most things I PROUDLY and with much HONOR, use his last name.

It means so much to us both.....and I am HAPPY!!!
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I have thought about taking his last name, but I just haven't got around to it yet. I probably won't bother until he comes home, I want to save that until we renew our vows, it will be something to make it extra special.
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Old 05-04-2013, 08:12 PM
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J and I haven't really talked about marriage besides the fact that he does want to get married someday. But if it did ever happen I would for sure take his name! My last name now isn't all that bad except when I tell people what it is they are like "huh?" and/or they spell it wrong. His name is way better.
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We got our marriage certificat today And as quick as the sun rises tomorrow, I'm off to make it that name change happen
I was told to wait 2-3 weeks after our ceremony to call and see if the certificate was ready, that was the funniest thing I ever heard Me wait ! I tried, although being married to an inmate you would think I have mastered the whole patience thing. Which for the most part, I have, but I still get pretty jumpy about things. Anyways we got married Saturday December 11th and no later than that following Wednesday I was on the phone to Solano, asking whats up To my surprise she said she had it, all I ad to do was come pick it up. Well to say the least, since I was unable to drive to go get it, I overnighted my money and got it Today.First thing tomorrow I'm off it REALLY make it official. Yes ladies, I'm doing the name change thing and loving it. I cant wait to officically be called.Mrs.Evans ( loves the sound of that ) So heres my question : Would you take his last name or keeps yours, if so when would you do it, now or when he comes home and if not, if you dont mind my asking why not?

Still jumping for joy Does it ever stop??????????
Woman, I am dying for my man to send me marriage papers, were going to get married while hes in there. Im excited and Im ready he doesnt have to be home for me to get his last name. Im here to stay. Hes here to stay. Were a family and been one for 7 years now. We were bestfriend way before we were lovers but Ive always loved him. He was my dream that litterly came into reality. Because he knew about me and i knew about him. I cant wait till Im the official Mrs. Mebane <3 I can not wait.
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I would be Mrs. Michael D Huff in a hot min! But it will be dont when he comes home. So we can do it right. With our families, and children there..Plus the honey moon. oH yeah! He tells me all the time he is marring me when he gets home..He has never been married. I feel special he chose me. I love him more than me!
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First off I want to say I love your enthusiasm! All the dancing put me in a really good mood

I would happily take his name at this very second if he didn't hate it so much. It reminds him of his father who he has a very shake relationship with. Once he is able to get his last name legally changed, he would happily hand it over

He wanted to have my last name, but my family is very wary of him right now and I don't know if that would be the best idea. But who knows!
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I would not take his name. I have my father's name and that's what I am keeping. Even if we were to get married, I would still keep my name.
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IF I was ever going to marry, Id hypnate it as I have a son who wears my familyname and his fathers familyname. Having the same name as my son is more important to me than having that of a loved one. But Id love to combine them, though
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IF I was ever going to marry, Id hypnate it as I have a son who wears my familyname and his fathers familyname. Having the same name as my son is more important to me than having that of a loved one. But Id love to combine them, though
Sounds like my mother talking. She always used to say "I refused to have children unless I was married because I never wanted my children to have a different name from me or their father. I am glad she felt that way. I know a lot of people that have a different name from their mother because she didn't marry and gave the kids the father's last name or siblings with different last names from each other. Now, I am not knocking what other people do with their families. I am simply stating what my mother said. To each his/her own.
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Yes I would be honored to have his last name I love him
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