Notice to new members intending to register - from January 9th 2012

SexyChef1 · #26 09-01-2012, 01:09 PM

Dutchess I was married to my son"s father and I will always love him, and he will always love me. That doesnt take away from the love he has for you, there is a totally different love he shares with her. Do you have children? I love my kids father almost as a brother I would be an heartbroken if one thing happened to him. Im sure he is no longer IN love with her. It took my ex and I almost 20 years to bickering pettily over things to get to this point where we are true friends. Talk to him before charge him with the guilty verdict.

SimplenClear · #27 09-02-2012, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by juss me6

I would be very upset! Are you guys mwi? This to me is a breach of trust. Next phone call just start reading the letter to him until he understands what he did. He has a lot to work to put in if he would expect me trust back

Marriage is a consenual and contractrual bond between 2 people not 3. I would definely be prepared when he calls...carry on as usual and then you say i wrote this sweet poem for you and read that letter to him. i would not be able to trust my husband. i'm sorry it's to much on the line for jail politics at home, with another woman and you already struggling at home. dont tell us your not cause we all struggling whether it be today or tomorrow. i'm not telling you to leave your husband; im'm saying that's what i would do. you need to have a serious talk with him...my love this isnt the first letter he has written to his ex-wife. i can tell you that with certainty. i'm sorry for what you're going threw. i'll keep you and you're family in my prayers. DEVASTATION; from your HUSBAND is serious situation; especially if you can't overcome the cause of one's actions.

Tumamita05 · #28 09-02-2012, 01:04 PM

I'd be going nuts - tO me I'd be stabbed in the back .

HiLoVe · #29 09-02-2012, 01:41 PM

wow....I would be very hurt and angry. My husband and I share everything and I would not chance writing to some one else without him knowing and us discussing it like adults. If we chose to not write, I would abide by that. I dont move like that without a discussion. Chin up and hang in there. Talk to him and then make a decision.

xanthra · #30 09-02-2012, 04:49 PM

It is possible for a man to love two women at the same time. I would just be sure one of them is not me.
Wait and see what he says about the letter. Come back on here is you have more doubts. That was hurtful but you need to decide if it is long term. What does he need to talk to her about? The kids are grown and gone. First loves die hard.
Wish you the best.