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Old 03-12-2015, 10:05 AM
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Default HELP: I havent heard from him in almost 48 hours!! (3/12/15)

IM SO WORRIED!! My bf has been in Niantic Annex since the end of Jan & he calls me EVERY DAY without fail, we almost always use up all 5 of his calls, splitting them into talking twice a day but now I havent heard anything from him in nearly 48 hours & Im freaking out!
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Old 03-12-2015, 12:53 PM
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Don't freak out. Get accustomed to it. There are million reasons he could be unable to call with most of them having nothing to do with him directly. Consider yourself lucky to have had such regular contact til now.
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I know your pain I ususlly here from my love everyday and When I don't I freak out by day 2 hopefully he calls your soon
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I know that 48 hours seems like a long time, but in the land of DOC, it isn't.

~There can be one broken phone, which can then create even more pressure for phones--and if he isn't in the right place and at the right time, he will miss the opportunity
~They could be on lockdown
~He may have been moved to a different prison
~He may be on sanctions
~Maybe he's trying to save money...

There are lots of reasons why you haven't heard from him. The best way to get through this is to remember that if something awful happened, you would have heard; either because they notified you directly or there would have been news accounts.

I remember how it felt when I wouldn't hear from him, and sorry to say, you will adapt. Hang in there, and do something kind for yourself!
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I also freak out if I don't talk to my fiancée daily! It's hard not hearing their voices and knowing they are ok, or of you did something wrong or said something wrong. I also drive myself crazy all the time.
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wow, this is like being in summer camp. these guys are in prison, prison life isn't like daily life. there are so many reasons why you have not received your call. the only advice i can give you is get used to it. nothing about prison is like life in the free world. inmates are nothing more than numbers to the prison staff and they are at the whim and will of those in charge. if you are going to make it with this man, you will have to suck it up, toughen out and accept that things are not always as they were the day before. this life is not for just anyone, you need special patience, special strength and special will to keep going on. but if the love is there, it will all be worth it for you.
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We also talk on a regular basis and when he doesn't call it freaks me out for about a minute and then I realize that this is what I signed up for. It really, really sucks but it does get easier. Well, maybe not easier but easier to accept.
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There could be and prolly is a million reasons why he hasn't called. Its not fun sitting by the phone waiting for a call that may not come for days or even weeks. The DOC is in charge and our loved ones just have to try to get thru what he needs to. It'll be okay. He'll call as soon as he is able to
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This will be a long incarceration if you find yourself upset every time he is unable to call. Things happen beyond his control: phones go down, lack of staff, lockdowns, etc.

Take a deep breath, he will call when he is able!
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