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View Poll Results: What would you do if you found out that she's also waiting for him...would you
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Old 05-11-2013, 01:17 PM
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I would bounce like a rubber ball. That would mean he lied to me and is a cheater. I see some people wrote "he would have to choose." What???? UHHHHMMMM, he already made a choice...to be a player.
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No way!!! I wouldn't tolerate it. We've been through too much.
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If I found out that my man had someone else waiting for him then I would consider him a cheater I would be very hurt and I would have to leave him because that would mean that our love was a lie to start with. I would never be able to trust him again.
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I don't think my man would do that to me. If he did though I would be gone in a flat second. He'd also really have to hope she has an address he can parole to then if he wants to be released someday because it wouldn't be mine
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It would hurt to leave but I wouldn't want to be with him anymore. I don't like betrayal and this would definitely rank as one.
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I would leave no matter how much I love & care about him ive put up with enuff bullshit already! and im sure wen im gone he will realize what he lost! love hurts!
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What would you do if you found out...say today for instance...that your man/woman had someone else "waiting" for him/her...what would you do??

For me the question would be is this Crazy b***** waiting on him, or are they waitning on eachother. if she is just waitng but has had no indication from him to wait then she can wait all she wants and while she is at it put some money on his books so me and him can talk on the phone... thank you I guess it is case by case. my mans baby moma will always be waiting for him but thats all it will be is waiting. he has begged her to get a life a man a something, other than when it concerns his kid he doesnt ever want to speak to her.
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I would drop him like a bad habit, and consider it time wasted. I would just leave him without a trace.
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Old 05-24-2013, 12:18 PM
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It's CRAZY to me that I started this thread in 2005!!!!!!!!! My man is now my husband and we are on our baby #3!!

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Leave him... no questions asked!! pack up his things and ship them to his new boo. I put up with alot of things cheating is a big no no
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What would you do if you found out...say today for instance...that your man/woman had someone else "waiting" for him/her...what would you do??
I would leave. Because if he truly loved me there would be no choice. I don't see the point of staying if he's doing exact same things to me as another women.
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I'm the first voter and I voted LEAVE, no way would I stay, though I love him if after putting his son and I through these last 2 years of h***, spenidng all of our money on his defense, and leaving me alone to raise his child, NO WAY would I stay if there was soemone else!!!!

I know exactly how you feel i am also in minnesota and my husband has been gone now for almost 2 years and all my money that i have extra goes to him but its always i am lieing and have another man when its exactly the opposite i am totally faithful to him i wonder sometimes if they have a guilty consience i think thats how you spell it lol
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Well i voted leave him because i did. I went through this (see post when it's over) and it's only been not even two weeks since i broke it off, but im now dating and trying to enjoy life, getting out the house ( I used to stay in the house 24/7 only came out to do basic things) . He was cheating with an ex and now she can have him. Now he has the nerves to call and ask could he parole here, he has no where , oh well , h-no. He now regrets it and i hope that she loves it. It does hurt me like hell but im too young and too beautiful to just sit around. The hardest part is the letters and phone calls that keep coming. I got 12 letters in 2 weeks and haven't opened them yet. That might not seem like alot but my ex doesn't really read or write but i understand him. The sadest part is also the break up of the family.
I am very sorry you are going thru this! you stood by him and that is the respect that you get. what blows my mind is that at their rock bottom and you stay with him and support them and he still cheats. the nerve. Oh girl im pisssed for you!!! now i dont think that I could not read the letters but you sound very strong and should be proud of yourself for how your handling this
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What would you do if you found out...say today for instance...that your man/woman had someone else "waiting" for him/her...what would you do??
I couldn't make him choose between me and her because if he truly loved me there would be no choice. He wouldn't think of anothee lady but me. I would want to stay but I know I couldn't because he lost all my trust and I couldn't do it.
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She'd be a sad ass waiting on my man. I ain't going nowhere and I ain't giving him up to no !#$%^ No matter what she could never be me and he's knows it. So, i'm just commenting because I believe that we'd have this issue.
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i would let him decide. but I will not share my man !
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Leave him and never look back.cause if he plays a woman that is holding him down.then he would not be the man i thought he was.
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When we first started this I asked him if anyone was waiting for him out here? His answer was no,now that we're married he'd be very careful with me, meaning I'd leave in a heart beat.
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well if this were to ever happen to me then that means that he hasn't been honest with me- LIED to me, so at that point I would gladly let her have him! YEP! just like that, DROP HIS ASS!
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What would you do if you found out...say today for instance...that your man/woman had someone else "waiting" for him/her...what would you do??
Wellllll, I would stay of course! She could stay too. Then we could all be one happy family!
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Our agreement is friends with exclusive benefits (when he's out on parole) and, if either of us wants to be physically intimate with someone else, we are supposed to let the other one know FIRST. If I found out he broke that agreement, it would destroy our friendship (and, yes, break my heart, too).

Although I'm sure it would start a lot of cat fights, it sure would be interesting to have facility-specific threads on here with significant others' pictures. During visits with my friend, I sure have learned there are a lot of players incarcerated in the Pennsylvania DOC.
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Wellllll, I would stay of course! She could stay too. Then we could all be one happy family!
ha ha! I bet your man LOVES you!
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I would leave. One because he didn't tell me there was someone else and too the relationship was based on lies....
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The first few months my partner was in jail I found out she told her ex GF to write her I went ape shit. Yeah... She's not writing her anymore.
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I would leave...It's already hard standing by him during this journey with him. But to lie and have someone else waiting on him also, ultimate disrespect.....
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