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Old 08-23-2019, 12:16 PM
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Default Release Day, I get there & he wasn't released. I'm so torn!

I need help can someone explain how today I went to the prison to pick up my loved one and checked in then 30 mins later they call to say he isnít being released? Can he have a warrant somewhere else why wasnít this known before 6 o clock this AM?

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Last second changes to release plans happen far too frequently. A late "detainer", or a change in a release date due to a "review" (that apparently couldn't have been completed earlier, LOL) are two possibilities, but he should be able to find out the actual reason.

I'm sorry it happened, that has to be the most evil trick played on inmate's and their families.
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Last second changes to release plans happen far too frequently. A late "detainer", or a change in a release date due to a "review" (that apparently couldn't have been completed earlier, LOL) are two possibilities, but he should be able to find out the actual reason.

I'm sorry it happened, that has to be the most evil trick played on inmate's and their families.
Okay thank you yes this is horrible we been going back and forth between counties and federal the last 3 years just when I thought itís over
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Hi there do you mean he has someone else, or has he been released to a family member. I can imagine this is very upsetting for you.
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Who was he released to, another facility? I hope everything is ok.
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Hi there do you mean he has someone else, or has he been released to a family member. I can imagine this is very upsetting for you.
He didnít call me heís already updated Facebook Iím assuming another woman Iím currently driving to his moms house why I donít know I need answers this isnít sitting well with me I know this isnít smart Iím angry
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He didnít call me heís already updated Facebook Iím assuming another woman Iím currently driving to his moms house why I donít know I need answers this isnít sitting well with me I know this isnít smart Iím angry
This seems very odd that he would have been released and not called you. If he has updated face book then he must be out. I am sorry you are going through this. I dont think your answers will be good ones. Please look after yourself, especially driving feeling stressed.
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Who was he released to, another facility? I hope everything is ok.
Vine link says Paroled usually in the past if another county picked him it says that so Iím just so confused I donít get it why play with me until the day of release
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Vine link says Paroled usually in the past if another county picked him it says that so Iím just so confused I donít get it why play with me until the day of release
That is horrible. I'm sorry if that is what happened. I hope you get answers and someday get the relationship you deserve whether it is with him or someone else.
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oh man. thats some ugly crap.
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I guess we are all just hoping this is a misunderstanding. Hope you are ok.?
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I got there and I couldnít bring myself to knock on her door it was also late I drove 9 hours in total Iím trying to believe this is not real heís still in there and vinelink is wrong but how can it be wrong CDCR and vinelink are both saying the same...I went on facebook and what I thought was an updated picture wasnít so Iím happy I was wrong there. At least I have a week off I can think about all of this and get myself together
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I hope you are okay and that he communicates with you the truth... I'm hoping for the best.
Thank you I am all over the place and the more I look I just create things that arenít there lol my mind is playing with me I just need this phone to ring and get off the internet
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Just arrived home from visiting my mom. Since I was so close to her I decided to visit with my dog and child lol. Still no word from hubby. I was so angry still hurt but did talk to his family and although they don’t have the best relationship they told me I was crazy to think he ghosted me something must be wrong. So now still checking vinelink and CDCR website it shows he isn’t in custody HOWEVER I realized if he did indeed get picked up by the feds that’s another search sooo I put on my inspector gadget glasses and started typing BOOM...his name is there, but it says he isn’t in BOP custody. Am I back to square one? I’m going to feel real silly about all of this and this will be one hell of a story
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Not in bop custody could mean he is in bop custody, just not in a bop owned prison at the moment. The other possibility is of course that he isn't in bop custody at all. Confusing on purpose.
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You're being put through a lot of drama, dear. Too much, way too much. If he got out and left you hanging.....I think it's better that you see this now than to realize a year from now or 6 months from now. It doesn't change the fact that it hurts, but if the real truth is that he left you hanging then, leave him hanging. I know that it's easy for me to say that being that I'm not the one who has given much only for it to come to this, but still, you're better off without him. It's better to know now for the sake of moving on to a REAL LOVE that is worth the effort. You're worth the effort....for him....he has miles and miles to go before he can sleep and MAY HE NEVER SLEEP if this is the way he treat's a dear soul such as you.
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I guess the only thing you can do is to keep checking the bop site to see what it says, or hopefully he will call you.
I can see why you are upset. I would be as well especially if you dont know what is going on.
Was he expecting you to pick him up? I mean did you discuss it prior to the day he was supposed to be released?
sorry if so many questions but you really have me curious.


I wonder if he's in *transit* to a federal facility if it shows that.
Im so sorry this was so upsetting for you.

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It may seem like a long shot, but what about calling your states senator or congressional leader. Explain the situation and see if they are willing to find something out since you can't. The worst is they say there is nothing they can do and you in the same place you are.

Did he have a federal detainer? Were the sentences supposed to run consecutively or could this be a totally new case?

If his family has heard nothing, good chance he is in transit. Hopefully someone with more knowledge of the federal system can answer more specific questions on how to search may be in a different way.

I hope you hear from him soon.
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I guess the only thing you can do is to keep checking the bop site to see what it says, or hopefully he will call you.
I can see why you are upset. I would be as well especially if you dont know what is going on.
Was he expecting you to pick him up? I mean did you discuss it prior to the day he was supposed to be released?
sorry if so many questions but you really have me curious.


I wonder if he's in *transit* to a federal facility if it shows that.
Im so sorry this was so upsetting for you.

(also glad you made a mistake about the facebook page.....yikes!)
Right omg the Facebook I couldnít believe itís amazing what your mind does when upset. Yes he was expecting me to pick him up. Last year we thought he was just doing state time since he had time served from the federal side. It appears they let him do his state time and now he owes the feds some time smh. I am still holding on to that option lol. He asked me to take a week off work which I did so today Iím going to try and reach the Marshals office see if something comes up.
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If the feds are involved, you may find information on https://www.pacer.gov/. Also keep checking the bop locator. https://www.bop.gov/inmateloc/
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If he can’t use the phone hopefully you will get a letter soon. My boyfriend was scheduled to be moved from the high security prison to a lower but we didn’t know exactly when. I had not heard from him and was thinking he might have been transferred. I checked the DOC website and his name wasn’t on there at all. I figured for sure he was transferring. We messaged later that day but he had not been moved. It must have just been a computer issue that day. I really hope you get some answers soon.
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