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Old 06-16-2010, 04:12 PM
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I am 26 and he is 29. If he gets paroled we will be: 30, and 33. And if he doen't we will be: 37, and 40.
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Old 06-18-2010, 09:04 AM
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Well they gave him 14 years- he has already served a year. I'll be what 35 worse case. With good time and rdap with all that other good stuff, I think we're down to 10yrs left. I'll be 32/33- I believe he'll be home in the next 5 years though.. I'll be 27/28

I'm 22 and I can pass as a 16yr old. He's 28 and he can pass as a 22yr old.. I think our bodies will age quite well. So I'm not too worried with that.
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Old 06-18-2010, 09:40 AM
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If he has to serve his whole sentece, I'll be 40 (Im 30 now) & he'll be 42 (he's 32). he got a 25 yr sentence back in the 90's
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Old 06-18-2010, 09:41 AM
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32 if he has to do his whole sentence.
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Old 06-19-2010, 08:23 PM
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82 if he does not make parole.
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Old 07-05-2010, 11:28 AM
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I'm 24 and he's 27 now, with his max out date, I'll be 32 and he'll be 35.
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Old 07-05-2010, 12:03 PM
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I will be 51 if he gets paroled in 9 yrs he will be 55 if not I will be 54 and he will be 58. Wow I sound old. lol :-) :-) :-)
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Old 07-05-2010, 12:11 PM
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I'm 22 now and he is 23 going on 24 September 1st. When he gets out I'll be 23 but I'm hoping he comes home before my birthday. He's been in there since I was 21.
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Old 07-06-2010, 09:23 PM
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I am 23 now and I will be 34. He is 30 and he will be 40 if he gets parole. That is still 10 years off. If he has to serve his whole sentence, I will be 45ish and he will be 51ish.
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Old 07-15-2010, 06:00 AM
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Okay help ladies. My man is 19 and I am 33, and he says he likes older women and we are both attracted to each other. However, he is going to prison for at least 10-15 years, so I need all the help I can get. I look young and try to keep myself in good shape and eat right and run to stay fit and he is so cute. People wouldn't think I was 33. But in 10-15 what am I gonna be? Shit Im in for the long haul with him. We have so much in common. I have worried about him going for someone younger. If it happens it happens and I will understand because of the age difference. I am really enjoying him now and what we have now is great. I know Im crazy but I don't care.
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Old 07-16-2010, 12:47 AM
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Lol u are not crazy SAMANB1213 its called love well I'm 20 nd my fiance is 28 I will be 24 nd he'll be 32 if he gets parole but if he doesn't he will be 38 nd I'll be 30 wow I feel much older now but I love my bby nd I'm planning on riding this bid out with him
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Old 07-16-2010, 05:58 AM
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He's freaking me out because we started out as pen pals but then have fallen in love once we met. Like I never expected this but really it's like it was meant to be or something. It's crazy. I guess the age difference bothers me more than it bothers him. Seriously this is the first time I've been with someone younger than me like this. Then the whole behind glass thing I am going crazy! I put in a post to the wives and girlfirends forum about this but I'll ask here too. How do you deal with wanting to maul your man? I feel like a freak or something but not being able to touch him at all has me going crazy! How do you deal with not being able to maul him when you feel so strongly for him and can't be with him? I really want to know because no one talks about it and I know Im feeling it. My man is so hot in there and I can't stand it!
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Old 07-18-2010, 02:26 AM
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I was 14 and he was 19 when he went in. I am going to b 37 and he will b 42 when he is eligable. We have faith and hope that they will give him parole in 2013.
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Old 07-18-2010, 02:41 AM
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Let's see I'm 22 now and he will be 22 in november so by the time he comes home I think we both will be 24
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I was 18 when he went in and I will be 29 He was 21 and hell be 33
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Old 07-23-2010, 07:38 PM
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Well my husband has 17 more years. I am 27 and he is 37. I will be 44 and him 54 when he is released.
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Old 07-23-2010, 07:40 PM
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I would be 25 and he would be 32..
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Old 07-25-2010, 07:35 PM
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Good questions. I am working out, everyday. I wanna look good when he gets out. I do think about him wanting someone younger, I may be too old to have kids when he gets out and he wants some, so yeah.
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82 if he does not make parole.

If he does not get a parole and does the max possible release date he will be 70 and I will be 80 hopefully not in a nursing home or 6 feet under by that date.


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Old 08-01-2010, 11:36 PM
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i was 14 when he went in and he was 18... Im 20 now and ill be 22 when he gets out he will be 26...
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Old 08-01-2010, 11:39 PM
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Old. Maybe we be 47 and 50. If his appeal is granted.
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Old 08-05-2010, 02:45 PM
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If we're lucky, I'll be 30 and he'll be 28. Otherwise, I'll be 38 and he'll be 36. He's been in since he was 18.
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Old 08-05-2010, 03:17 PM
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Haha. I have nothing to worry about. Im 20 years old. He is 28. I work out and i have a big loosing weight goal. My baby wouldnt leave me. But no im not letting myself go. I wanna look my best for him.
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Old 08-05-2010, 03:24 PM
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Mine is getting out soon so I will be 52 its been six long years. I have the biggest respect for you ladies that have stuck in there for your men for many years. They need to kiss the ground you walk on. Its not easy on us out here and the years seem to not be as kind to us as it is for them. I wonder why that is. I mean dang they come out looking good and we have wrinkles and s**t sagging. What up with that. All in all its worth it, hope I still say that after he has been home a year (smile).
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Old 08-05-2010, 06:11 PM
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i just realized how long he really has!!!!! im 21 he is 20 and he has 18 years left!!!! WTF!!! im like freaking out right now! idk if this is in the right place but i just received an email about where he has been transferred to, the address, the phone number, his release date and his offenses! it scared the shit out of me!!! What am i going to do until he gets home???? i want to cry so bad right now...if anyone can help and calm me down please pm me!!!!
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