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Old 12-03-2008, 11:10 PM
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Question Sending Mail for an inmate

When he calls he occasionally asks me to call someone for his cell mate and an occasional inmate passing by and I don't have a problem most of the time... but sometimes i think theres something going on that i shouldn't be involved in. and recently he asked me if he sent me money if i would send it to an address for him... He knows i'm a good girl and i don't get my hands dirty for anyone but myself. I don't want him to feel like i'm betraying him or letting him down but i cannot put myself in a situation if something goes wrong. And when i asked for details he said it wasn't something he could tell me over the phone. I definatley don't wanna do anything that could give him more time if it went wrong. I jsut want him out already. Has anyone been asked to do something and if so any advice?
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Old 12-03-2008, 11:13 PM
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Well i'm not really sure how it is with your man. Can you visit him? He can talk about it then. I know one time i sent money to some random lady and it was for a WATCH for my honey. Can you believe that? He slipped about it later though..lol. Just goes to show it can be ANYTHNG. Sorry that's all the advice i can give. Hope it works out for you.
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Old 12-03-2008, 11:19 PM
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i won't be able to visit for another 3 weeks if even then...
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Old 12-03-2008, 11:20 PM
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Well i'm sorry to hear that. I haven't seen mine since March and it won't be for AT the VERY least another 7 or 8 weeks. It's up to you whether you know your man wouldn't put you in a position that would jeopardize his time or more importantly your morals.
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Old 12-03-2008, 11:32 PM
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My advice is don't do anything you are uncomfortable with. If you have a true love he will understand your situation. If you get a bad feeling don't do it... Sometimes thing can get out of hand when other prisoners realize that a man has a good woman... they start asking for little favors and then it just keeps getting bigger... be careful and use your better judgement
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Old 12-04-2008, 10:45 PM
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i write a guy and do little things for him, things that i want to do, not that he asks for. i think if he started asking me for or to do things, it would seem as though he expected it rather than appreciated it and i can't say that i would comply. if he started asking me to do things for other inmates, i'd stop writing altogether! at that point, i would know he's taking advantage of me.

i read in a previous post that you're not even sure this is what you want, that you're doing it for him. don't do anything that would put yourself in a position of being or getting in trouble, for anyone! but especially not for someone that you're not even sure that you want to be with.......
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Old 12-04-2008, 11:54 PM
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thanks, it helps to know i'm not doing this alone and to finally be able to tell someone about this. I will definitely think about these things before i do anything.
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Old 12-10-2008, 06:35 PM
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I honestly wouldn't do anything like that unless I knew exactly what it was for. JMO
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