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Bubbles7598 · #51 03-06-2005, 05:20 PM

What i miss the most is Jason being a father to our daughter. I would love to be able to sit down like a family n have dinner or go on outings n so forth. I miss the other things too, like him waking up next to me. I also miss the times when we made love

but having him be a daddy to our daughter is what i want the most

geneva11798 · #52 03-06-2005, 11:51 PM

What I miss is being able to count on him to come get his son at any given time....I miss how he bragged about him and his son sharing the same name(prince) and birthday...I am not gonna lie...I miss his pillow talk (smile) the most....I also miss that I can always sit and talk with him about anything.

AdamsWife · #53 03-07-2005, 12:39 PM

Awwww... waking up in the same bed!!! Just THINKING about it is gonna make me cry.
Adam used to make me stay in bed until the last possible moment before I was gonna be late to work so he could hold me tight and kiss me and love me.

I'm so in love with him it makes me feel sick to my stomach being without him.

bbacic · #54 03-07-2005, 01:26 PM

I miss everything, wakeing up to him, crawling in bed with him, how he used to take care of me when I was sick when he would clean the house I really miss that lol! How he can make me laugh even if I am so pi**ed at him. How he makes me feel just being around him. I miss his kisses and...... ok enough I miss everything!

BillieJo · #55 03-07-2005, 03:38 PM

Charlie would hold me so tight- all freakin night long. I swear it was more than spooning, it was a vice grip. and I would wake up to him in the morning talking baby talk to me...despite the fact that this man has been an institutionalized thug most of his life- he is my baby. and I miss just hanging out for hours on end doing nothing.......him being a *daddy* to my (our) sons.... he was always the one to initiate all the guy stuff for all of us to do. but he always got a kick out of my being girly, buying all sort of panties from the Deb, dying my hair etc. he is my soul. I just want him home. I keep telling him they can't keep him forever....

AdamsWife · #56 03-07-2005, 04:57 PM

Once again bbacic you've said all that I meant to say.
I second that on everything you miss, I couldn't have expressed it better myself!

And BillieJo - I know how it feels to be held so tight all night you can hardly breathe. It was so hot like that under our down comforter, I used to get out of his grip and move to the cooler side of the bed.

But he said if he didn't get to hold me he felt like he'd wasted the whole night (aaawwwwww). Now I'd give anything to sleep that hot and uncomfortably. I told him when we're able to sleep together again, I'll let him hold me all night from now on.

I can't express enough what a relief it is to find others who are in my same predicament and feel the way I do.

BillieJo · #57 03-07-2005, 05:20 PM

teehee AdamsWife

I finally broke down and bought a down comforter for $5 lol after he went in (love thrift stores!!!!!!!!!!) I don't know if I can handle that when he gets back home!

all these mundane things ppl take for granted...make me appraciate my relationship with him and having PTO to sit on..... you guys all rule!

starzzmom · #58 03-07-2005, 05:43 PM

There are so many things I miss about him. Falling asleep and waking up next to him is
just the beginning. I miss the way he would whistle when he was walking up the walkway to let me know he was home. I miss eating meals with him. And I miss his million phone calls a day (even though that use to annoy me, because they were always at the worst times)

Forever_Lovers · #59 03-07-2005, 05:54 PM

I chose waking up in the same bed together, but I do miss him being a daddy. I must praise all of the single mother's out there. It is hard trying to raise 2 kids (I have 2 boys). Though he's not the father of my oldest son, he still treats him as though he is.

honey2_28_05 · #60 03-07-2005, 11:59 PM

I miss everything! Everything about him. The little annoying things I never thought I'd miss, I long for. Him picking on the food while I'm cooking, him spoiling the girls rotten buying whatever they wanted when we'd go shopping. His smell, good or bad! The list goes on and on...

vntg65 · #61 03-08-2005, 01:19 AM

i voted for waking up next to him, but what i'm really looking foreward too is the intimate face to face talks without a third party. someone to come home to and relax with after a long hard day. when all is said and done just having him with me makes up for all the times spent apart

MurphyGirl · #62 03-08-2005, 11:38 AM

I pick all of the above!!!

divinelove · #63 03-08-2005, 11:46 AM

It was hard for me to choose but waking up with him would be the thing I miss most.

Ahh, those were the best mornings ever!

Lilboobooev · #64 03-08-2005, 02:43 PM

I miss everything...mostly just hanging with him and waking up next to him...i just couldnt be mad in the mornings when he was there..

eddiezgirl04 · #65 03-08-2005, 05:19 PM

I didnt vote on this one, for I didnt know him before he was in prison. Actually I met him while he was in the county jail and then to prison. But I can say what I look forward to most when he comes home is just having his arms around me and holding me for more than just a minute and being able to talk and make decisions together without no other ears listening in!!

bubslildevil · #66 03-08-2005, 05:27 PM

I voted waking up next to him... allthough i miss eveything there is about him.. the way he would yell "JULIE" real loud just for nothing... our sunday movie lazy days on the couch.. watching him with our kids.. his smile, his smell, his "alligator eyes" when he is mad... i miss everything about him ... most of all i think its the time we have together as a husband and wife... mother and father i miss u Bub

This_Girl · #67 03-16-2005, 03:41 PM

I have been with shawn off and on for 5 years now and he is the only man i have ever loved and right about know i am just missing the way he would look at me...........the i love you more than life itself look

MizzCandy · #68 03-16-2005, 06:28 PM

I miss him just being there with me at all times without someone telling us how long we can hug and kiss!!

I cant wait for this to be over!!!

wadesbaby · #69 03-16-2005, 09:00 PM

I just read through all the posts here and it brought tears to my eyes. So much that I have missed for so long. I started the thread and picked waking up to him in the same bed, but now that I have read everyone's post there is something else that sticks out in my mind. Wade lost his license for a year and had to be at work at 6am. Now, I have NEVER been a morning person, but during that year I would wake up at 4:45 and cook breakfast for him and fix his lunch, wake him up at 5, and then lay out his clothes for work after I made the bed while he showered. He would get out of the shower and just stare at me in my house robe, looking all a mess, first thing in the morning, and smile at me like I was the most beautiful thing he had ever seen. And just looking at him, drying off, made me the happiest woman in the world. We would hug for a minute and then a kiss and he would get dressed for work. In the summer he would wear a bandana on his head to catch the sweat and he would always have me come put my finger on the flap in the back so he could get it tied on the way he liked it. I'd always drive home singing to whatever was on the radio, it started my day off beautifully. Ok, gotta quit or I am gonna cry.

JazzyJFL · #70 03-17-2005, 12:46 PM

I can't wait to wake up next to him with morning breathe and all. I look so forward to that day!!! I'm miss his sooooooooooo much.

This_Girl · #71 03-17-2005, 12:56 PM

girls its always the little things we miss like cooking for them or the walks up to the corner store (thinks back and smiles ) God i miss my man

myjames · #72 04-27-2005, 01:04 PM

I miss my husband being there. We were together at the ages of 15 and 16. We are now 31 and 32. I miss being able to touch him. I live a $600 plane ticket away and have 3 kids to take care of. I haven't been able to see my husband for 5 years. The thing I'm going to enjoy most when he gets back is being able to see him and touch him. I miss him dancing around our house and being a goof ball, miss telling him to fart in another room, and telling him your body is waking up without you, get out of bed already or your going to kill me from your toxic gas.lol
There are some many things that you don't realize that you are going to miss out until after its gone. Just like the old saying, you never realize what you have until its gone. I have a good man.

ginaned · #73 04-28-2005, 12:36 AM

I picked wakeing up next to him . well I miss everything the walks in the park the park at night wakeing up late and find a flower where he lays the kisses i get at every traffic light. playing with the kids the romantic weekends in gatlinburg. showers together. the massages. And most of all saying our prayers together and hearing what he says about me to God.

myjutebe · #74 04-28-2005, 11:15 AM

I have to say I miss all the little sweet things he use to do that I just took for granted because he always did them.

I would go to my car as I was leaving for work and there would be a roses on my dash board, attached to my steering wheel or attached to my windshield wipers with an I love you note.

I miss the special baths me would make me. He would tell me to come to the bathroom and there would be a bath with rose petals in the water, bath salts and candles all around the bathtub.

I miss waking up and he already went to the coffee shop and got my favorite coffee and he would bring it back with a rose attached to the cup and he would wake me up kissing me and give me the coffee.

I miss him waking me up kissing me.

One day when I was at work and my husband and daughter went to the beach they decided to come to my work and bring the beach to me. They brought me coffee, lunch and seashells.

I miss sleeping with him in our bed and him putting his legs all over me and smashing me up against the wall.

I miss him being at home with our daughter and helping to raise her. He does his best on the phone each night and during our visits but it is just not the same.

Those are just some of the things that I miss about him being home.

Laurie

DericksLiLSugar · #75 04-28-2005, 12:40 PM

I mostly miss just seeing him and having him around.