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NikiBrooks23 · #**226** 08-21-2005, 01:08 PM

hey gurls... how is everyones weekend going? I feel better today... I am really pushing to move to Tampa. Just need to figure out child care cost for my baby. I hope everyone is in high spirits.
Sweets- If the warden does call you, keep calling him. I had to call every single day to get anyone in the doc to do anything. Hound him if you have to

Manzanita · #**227** 08-21-2005, 01:11 PM

you know, I was up until 2am last night....thinking. and not about bad stuff, but just the stuff I worry about time to time...with him coming home...like MONEY.....
I will admit, the money is TIGHT!!!!!!!! And I worry about how we will make it financially. I know we all worry but it is a really big concern I have, and the fact that he needs so much stuff, is the biggest worry. We needs a lot of stuff. He has asked me to talk to his family about helping me, but I am scared to do that. I am sure I will end up talking to some of them about it.

anyways, I was thinking about a few other things too like him not liking where I live, or how the place is set up, or my bad habits, and now he really will see my ugly side!!!! LOL....will he get depressed and will I get possesive and controling...

whatever!

MrsWest11 · #**228** 08-21-2005, 01:13 PM

See...I done got behind again... I'm gonna have to go back...read...and catch up...but, as for right now...just wanna say hey to all my 2006 family & I hope y'all had a great weekend. I have GOT to find a J-O-B this week...for real!!! lol If y'all had visits...hope they were GREAT ones!!! I'll be back in a few...hours...after I read everything & catch up on y'all talkative ladies.

Marj! I sent the email.....brace yourself.

Kobe16 · #**229** 08-21-2005, 02:33 PM

happy Sunday everyone!! Hope everyone is good!!

Nikki, girl I'm glad you are feeling better!!

Brandi, I'm ready to count down TOMORROW! hopefully the warden will give you the best birthday present "news" ever...well as of yet at least.

Sel, LMAO! get caught up!

yyesss, I'm bout to go read the email.

Jen, girl I have thought of the same thing. Give it to God and hun, things will fall into place. yall gon be ALRIGHT!

Jeanne, Patrice, Jackie, Mari, Hunnybunny, Willsgirl, Steph, Texxie, nasty_boo, and EVERYONE...be good!

nasty_boo · #**230** 08-21-2005, 02:36 PM

just a quick check in with the new club how are you ladies doing?

Kobe16 · #**231** 08-21-2005, 02:39 PM

heyy girl! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! how are YOU doing?

nasty_boo · #**232** 08-21-2005, 02:43 PM

thank you so mucho and i am doing good ... hanging in there and looking up stuff on parole and the background checks they do in order to have him move to my house

any idea what it would be and how long it would take for them to approve me?

Retired-25 · #**233** 08-21-2005, 02:52 PM

Hi girls. I hope you've all had a good weekend so far. Apparently mine was just meant to get worse, but that's life sometimes huh?

Despite all my problems, I've kept you all in my thoughts and prayers. All I can ask is that you do the same for me...I really need it right now.

Texxie - I hope you hear from Chris ASAP! Big hugs sent your way!

Niki - Thank you for your support yesterday, it was appreciated. I hope things are going well for you and good luck with your move.

Jeanne - Thanks to you too for your kind words. In the midst of everything, you still take the time to be so supportive of everyone. You're a real blessing. Big hugs for you too and I'm praying everything goes perfectly Friday.

Marj - Congrats on your move back to school. Thanks for your support and kind words too!

Brandi - Happy early birthday! I hope you get to see your man!

Jen - Try not to stress too much on the future! Things will work out the way they are supposed to. You two love each other and he's coming home...everything else will fall into place!

nasty - Welcome to the '06 gang!

~ Steph

jblovesdb · #**234** 08-21-2005, 04:24 PM

Ok ladies...I just got back from visits and let me tell you all....I LOVE MY DORK

IDK why...but I just feel so happy right now!! Nothing special happened...but it was SO nice to see him and talk to him...WITHOUT fighting!!! We got along great...and I got the BEST hug and kiss at the end

But he definetly can't be talking about some of the things he wants to do to me when he gets home...LOL, it's not fair!!

Aww...lol...sorry I'm all on cloud 9 right now!! I have NO idea what tomorrow will bring...but I've decided that instead of worrying today...I am just gonna enjoy the fact that we are doing ok for now

I LOVE MY DORK!!!!
Jeanne...thank you soo much for your kind words!!! I love ya girl!!! I KNOW that Dave and I will make it...it just gets hard sometimes, ya know what I mean!! And YES...as the months wind down...the stress will more than likely build up and things won't be all peachy...but hey, when he gets home atleast I can fight with him for hours if we have too lol!!
Nastyboo...WELCOME

Congrats on now being ONE and him coming home in June!!! Keep your head held high!!
Marj...Hey girl!!! I am glad that you are happy to be back at college!!! We missed you girl!!!! Yes I got to see that sexy man today

And the computer is working right...thank God, I don't know what I would do without you ladies!!!
Brandi...I am glad you and your man are doing good!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY early

I hope that Demetris can get his visits back early...I know you would be SO happy!! I got my fingers crossed for you girl!!!
Nikki...hey girl!! I am glad you are feeling better today!! I hope that everything works out with moving to Tampa!!!
Jen...girl I can relate SOO much!!! I worry about money SO much!! I think Dave and I making it FINANCIALLY is my biggest worry!! I am only 20...I haven't been to college (don't know why...I was smart lol)...and work a crappy job - Dave...well, he's basically been in prison since he was 14...and he'll be 22 this Oct!! I have NO idea how we are gonna make it...that's the main reason we are getting outta NJ...it's WAY to expensive around here!! I have the same worries as you...and I thought I was the only one who worried about all that stuff!! Dave needs EVERYTHING...he literally has NOTHING (except what I have gotten him)...and its so hard b/c I don't make alot of money AT ALL!! It should be interesting

I know that everything will work out Jen...just keep your head up and take it step by step!!! Love ya girl!!!
Sel...good luck with finding the J-O-B!!! I hope that you find one REAL soon!!!
Steph...girl we are here for you!!!!

Remember, if you need to vent/talk/cry/whatever...we are here for you and will do everything we can to help you out!! Don't feel bad about talking about your problems!!!!! Keep your head up girl...and know that things WILL get better!!!

Aight...and I caught up lol

Keep your heads up ladies!!!!

Hey Mari, Grouchpotato, Jessica, Texxie, Hunnybunny, Willsgirl and EVERYONE else!!!!!!!!! Hugs

-Jackie

missred1 · #**235** 08-21-2005, 05:44 PM

HEY LADIES JUST WANTED TO SAY I SURE WOULD BE PROUD TO BE A PART OF THE 2006 CLUB. MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN IN FOR A MONTH AND I HAVE THIS KNOT IN MY STOMACH THAT WILL NOT GO AWAY! I SURE WOULD LIKE TO TALK TO SOME OTHERS ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN. THANKS!!!! MISS RED1

jmpetrakis · #**236** 08-21-2005, 05:54 PM

i'm in on the 2006 club jan. 15 is the day my life will return to"normal" whatever that is. i miss him so much today that 2006 seems so far away!

time feels like it is at a stand still.

jblovesdb · #**237** 08-21-2005, 05:55 PM

Hi missred...welcome to PTO and our little club

Congrats on your man coming home next year!!!

If you have anything you wanna talk about or any questions...PTO is definetly the right place!! Keep your chin up!! Hugs

-Jackie

jblovesdb · #**238** 08-21-2005, 05:57 PM

HI jmpetrakis!!!! I know that some days are ALOT worse than others!!! Your man will be home in NO time sweetie!!! Only what, 5 months!! Trust me, the time definetly keeps going by...even if it feels like it's standing still!!! Keep your head up...we are all here for you!! Hugs

-Jackie

NikiBrooks23 · #**239** 08-21-2005, 06:07 PM

Hey gurls....

Welcome Mrsred... this really is a great group of women... they have helped me through alot already

Hope everyones weekend was good. Tommorrow is Monday, back to the grind.

Manzanita · #**240** 08-21-2005, 07:22 PM

missred1 - jmpetrakis Hiya and welcome!!!

Brandi -Jessica -Jackie- Willsgirl -auntie Jeanne- Fate4us-Marie- Gypsy-Sel-Marj-Patrice-Texxie-HunnyBunny-Beth NikiBrooks-Nastyboo
....

Thanks for telling me everything is going to be ok.

I need to hear that

Auntie Jeanne, Marj

Fate4us.

Nasty Boo check these out to know the rules for parole in NY Parole. He is def, coming home on parole? coming out on a CR date? Most times they want them to come home to family, but there are times they have been paroled to GF's...

NYS Parole Handbook: http://parole.state.ny.us/INTROparolehandbook.html

and this...
http://www.prisontalk.com/forums/sho...led+girlfriend

Jackie, sounds like a nice day!

nasty_boo · #**241** 08-21-2005, 07:29 PM

ty jen

for the links and i did check it out already before i posted [at leats the handbook] but his concern is when he comes out to his family that means back to the same hood and old habits would be not too far away!

not saying he is not strong enough to get over it but why put yourself somewhere where you know you might have a hard time to succeed! so i was just browsing around to see what kind of stuff i would have to deal with before they would allow him to move with me ... want to be ready and not give any reasons to say NO!!!

Manzanita · #**242** 08-21-2005, 07:30 PM

There are times they will let them come home to GF's but most times you must be family...you should post about this in NY.

http://www.prisontalk.com/forums/sho...led+girlfriend

Manzanita · #**243** 08-21-2005, 07:33 PM

http://www.prisontalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=84456

This person might know but I am not sure she comes here anymore....

jblovesdb · #**244** 08-21-2005, 07:33 PM

Aight ladies...I am off to go write another letter!! I think I spoiled him these last 2 weeks b/c I wrote everyday again....I don't think I can keep this up!! Now that things are going ok (bite my tongue)...I don't have as much to write about!! Oh well...I'll write tonight...and see what tomorrow brings!! Have a great night laides...and an even better tomorrow, if that's even possible b/c it is Mon

LOVE YAS!!!!!! Hugs

-Jackie

Manzanita · #**245** 08-21-2005, 07:37 PM

bye jackie o, you gotta fix your counter girlie...

I am off to write a letter too

Kobe16 · #**246** 08-21-2005, 07:38 PM

what's good peeps!

WELCOME missred1 and jmpetrakis!

congrats on your loved ones comin next year..chillin wit us, the time will SURELY fly!

Jen, your welcome sweetie!! for real, you and Mr. G will be ok!! TRUST!

nasty_boo, girl what are ya doing for your birthday??

livin it up???

what up Nikki! yup..back on that grind tomorrow!

Steph, you are in my prayers! for real, PM me if ya wanna talk! k??

AND JACKIE IS LOVIN HER DORK!!

girl I know you are 20 (me too) but you sound SOO MUCH OLDER!! you are super mature!

Now my Jeanne, I'ma need ya to come up in here

hope you got your car girl!

Mari, Sel, Gypsy, hunnybunny, Sam, Jessica, Texxie, grouchpotato, willsgirl, Beth....WE MISS YALL KIDS!

nasty_boo · #**247** 08-21-2005, 07:58 PM

thanks mrs.g its seems like the lady from the post is still around so i pm'ed her

we shall see if she can help me here!!!

as far as for my bday well i did spent the entire day with my family [online bday parties are very exhausting i must say] my sis, bor and mom did meet up with me since every single person is in a different country

so we talked, had a drink and actually had dinner together

dont ask we are just on the wild side i guess!!! now my friends try for me to go out and hit few HOT SPOTS in NYC but to be honest i dont feel like it so i guess i will call it a night and finish my letter

just another year older and wiser so no big deal for me

jftazzy102 · #**248** 08-21-2005, 09:20 PM

I love the fact of being Auntie Jeanne. I am going to have alot of nieces and nephews in 2007....and just know if you guys ever need Auntie Jeanne to watch them we will figure out away to get them to Florida....

Jen - girl your so welcome....I think we all worry about the money and all. Heck I had a break down one day writing Herb just a crying and I told him (because of gaining weight) that I had no clue to what size clothes he wore. LOL....Since he went in last year I have just picked up little things that I know he will need when he gets home.

Jackie - girl I am so glad that you had a great visit. And just think when he gets home and you guys fight think of the making up you get to do.

Marji - my love your the best....

Brandi - I hope you have the best day tomorrow...

Steph - girl it is all going to work out. Keep the faith and keep that head held high as Jackie says...and just know that WE are all here for you.

Girls I am so tired I can't even think anymore.....I got my car back and it is fine...I get to drive it to work tomorrow....I'm siked about that....

I know I have forgot several of you guys, but my mind is shutting down because it is bedtime so I will say this: I LOVE ALL MY 2006 SISTERS.....and to the newbies Welcome...

MANNYOSUNASLADY · #**249** 08-21-2005, 09:42 PM

Hi my name is Janet and my man is comming home in January the 1st 2006 thank GOD for that we met March 24, 2005 and are planning on getting married as soon as he gets out so hopefully everything turns out for the best! Best wishes to all!

Gypsy_soul · #**250** 08-21-2005, 09:49 PM

:shake:

Really bad day today...
Last night, one of my friends & his wife stopped in to the bar, which was cool, but odd. They said that he had lost all of his phone numbers & they needed mine. I didn't think anything of it, I just gave it to them & then showed them my new car. When I got home, there was a note on my door from him, telling me again that he lost his numbers & to call him ASAP. I thought that was weird, what's the rush, ya know? So, today, while I was driving to see my love, my friend called me & I was like, "what's going on?" He said, "nothing good really" And I thought, uh-oh...cuz he & his wife have been having trouble, and I thought maybe something happened with them, like she left or something. Then he said "Man, I don't want to tell you this" & I just knew what he was talking about, and started saying no over & over. See, one of our friends is/was a heroin addict, and had some mental health issues as well in the last few years, my friend just said "yup". So I asked him what happened, like I didn't know! He OD'd yesterday, and he wanted to tell me last night, but couldn't cuz I was at work & I would have just fallen apart, which I did anyway, while I was driving. Believe it or not, I pulled myself together & went ot my visit anyway, cuz I didn't want to disappoint him two weeks in a row. I didn't get there until pretty late & he assumed I wasn't coming again, got all bummed out. Our visit was kinda sad, but I'm still glad I went. It was just so hard driving back home, all by myself, trying not to cry!
Well, now I'm just exhausted, and really need to just rest. My head hurts from crying...I'll be back tomorrow.
Thanx for listening/reading ladies! I really hope you all had good weekends!