Official 2006 club thread!

[Woody's Girl]

Robs- hey I see you down there; what is the latest and greatest with Jamie? Are you straight? I hope so....

[Woody's Girl]

I guess we hit the button at the same time.. I'm sorry Robs
(kesha hands robs a tissue and some hot tidy)
I hope you feel better later...

[Kobe16]

hey people!! just wanted to stop in right quick and say what up what up!! I should be doing work...story of my life!

I wanna show some love to GYPSY!!! you gon get thru this!!!

Jeanne, YOU'RE ALIVE!

Jackie, girl, I FEEL ya bout funds. broke college student here! you and Dave hafta come to a resolution. he is just doin the damn thang..callin, writing..cant V learn from him?? hugs honey!

Kesha, kill your exams!! have a fantabolous visit. be safe girly!

Robs, girl get back in bed! hope you feel better!

Curious, I echo what Kesha said. holla at YOU!

Alena, 3 letters...DO IT!!

Brians, AFLAC!!! gotta love 'em! and your son..aww how's the leg?

Steph, girl did you eat healthy today? umm..I didnt. dang! but I'm bout to go work out so yay!

Mz K, heeyyyyyy!! how bout I should be MIA for finals week..watch me be online all day everyday. one more week for me..I can do it right? aww christmas eve will be here soon...not soon enough tho right? happy studying!

Kimmy, hey girl!

Sel, WHAT UP!! I hit you up on the space..

yall be good..I'm OUT!

[sweets79]

Hey everyone! Sorry I have been MIA for a while again. I have been so busy. Well I am just stopping in to say HI! Hope everyone is doing well and having a great week so far! Love you all! ~Brandi

[Retired-25]

Just stoppin in for a minute to say hi girls. It's a sad/stressful night around here. There's drama going on with me and the family...that's always fun. Then I got a call from my boy and was told that he's been laid in for the entire day, meaning he couldn't go out to work or anything. He was given no explanation and he has no idea what's going on. He said this usually only happens when 1) they're facing a new charge, or 2) there's been a death in the family. However, he said if there was a new charge, he has no idea what it would be and they would have put him in the hole immediately, and he said if there were a death in the family, the chaplain would have come to talk to him immediately. Soooo after several attempts to call family with no answers, we're still clueless. I have no idea what's going on, but I BETTER still get my man home in 3 months or things will not be pretty.

On a lighter note, one of my good friends and a member of PTO gave birth to a beautiful, healthy baby girl today. Her man is in the same camp that Danny's in and she and I have gotten close over the past few months. I started a thread in the Shout Out forum if anyone would like to congratulate her. I get to tell daddy the good news when they call me later, so I am excited about that!

Anyway, I'm off to go stress some more until things calm down and I get some answers. Thanks for letting me vent for a second. Check back in soon...hopefully with good news.

~Steph

[jftazzy102]

Curious...believe me I completely understand exaclty what you are going through...the only difference is My man is coming home to US. My mom and sister really love Herb and they say that yes he has to prove himself but it isn't to them that he has to prove hisself to...it is ME. BUT...my dad...he would rather that I just walked away and cut my losses now....he doesn't think Herb will ever change and he is tried of seeing me go through hell...but the bottom line is I love him and the only one that he has to prove he has changed is to me and himself....good luck girl and just know we are here for you

Gypsy....I love you girl...and have missed you. Sorry I haven't been on here much to know what your going through, but just know your not alone...we are here for you every step of the way...

MARJI...yes Auntie Jeanne is alive and so kind of well....I love you girl...and I am so glad for your prayers....

BRANDI...HOW ARE THINGS....

If I missed anyone I am so sorry....my head isn't were it needs to be right now. I guess I am going through the after visit blues. Yes I have been sick, but I am also missing Herb so bad. He doesn't think that Florida will come get him and THEY ARE....I can't convince him of that...he told me that him and God have had a long talk and that Florida isn't coming to get him, I did write and tell him after several phone calls and talks with other people....they will be out in front of the gates once Texas releases him...so he will officially be out June 9, 2006....I guess what upsets me the most...is I feel like he is still leaving in some fantasy world and I want to write him and tell him to grow the F*** up.....that he needs to really do something thinking about REALITY while he is in there, but I can't bring myself to write that so I haven't wrote him tonight, because if I do I will loose it with him....do ya'll understand???? YOU guys are the only one that knows how I really feel. When I was in Texas I saw so much growth out of him....but there is somethings I feel he is still in denial about. The judge gave him so much credit already....all the way back to June 14th of last year (2004)...Florida isn't going to give him anymore credit. Of course if they did I would be jumping up and down....am I making any sense guys.....
Well just know I love all my 2006 sisters....

[Retired-25]

OK, I got one answer. There's been no death in the family so that's a GREAT thing! WHEW! Now I just have to get more answers and get this ish outta the way and back to "normal" and I'll be cool. We won't know anything more til tomorrow morning so no more stressin over it for me. It's pointless anyway, so I'll just have faith and wait.......as usual.

I did get to give my friend's hubby the good news that he's a new daddy. He was asleep when Danny called and I said HURRY AND GET HIM!!!! He got on the phone and I said "Congratulations new daddy". Aww it was so sweet. I could hear the cheesin thru the phone. I'm really happy for them.

Anyway, I'm wandering around for now. Check up on yall later on. ((((Hugs))))

[jftazzy102]

Steph...that is so awesome about calling your hubby's friend and telling him about being a new daddy....I am also very glad that there is NO death in either family....my prayers go out to you....hope everything works out okay...Love you girl

[Manzanita]

hi all!

I am posting just to say hello...

I am also a bit pissed... maybe I am also at fault for this, but I find it so hard to meet true, genuine people...I find most people to be out for themselves, flakey, full of crap, liars, jealous, back stabbers, fair weathe friends ..I mean at work, there is an abundance of this crap! And please...
I am just so fed up! why are people so full of it??? UGH! :fb:

The only person in this world who has never been any of these things is my husband.... and I miss him terribly!!! :shake:

sometimes I think being alone with no friends is the best thing! I have no one to let me down and if I mess up, I only have myself to face!!

and I sure wish I could just quit my job today!!!!!!!!!

Like I love to say...WHATEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[jftazzy102]

Originally Posted by Mrs G

hi all!

I am posting just to say hello...

I am also a bit pissed... maybe I am also at fault for this, but I find it so hard to meet true, genuine people...I find most people to be out for themselves, flakey, full of crap, liars, jealous, back stabbers, fair weathe friends ..I mean at work, there is an abundance of this crap! And please...
I am just so fed up! why are people so full of it??? UGH! :fb:

The only person in this world who has never been any of these things is my husband.... and I miss him terribly!!! :shake:

sometimes I think being alone with no friends is the best thing! I have no one to let me down and if I mess up, I only have myself to face!!

and I sure wish I could just quit my job today!!!!!!!!!

Like I love to say...WHATEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jen...believe me I totally understand what you are saying...just hang in there like I am....I really screamed at my boss today...and it wasn't NICE....there are no true co workers that is how I feel...just know we are here for you

[jblovesdb]

Hey ladies...I just wanted to stop in and say HI!! I have been just in a BLAH mood...like worse then normal. Not stressing really (maybe subconsciously) but I don't feel like doing ish...not even being on the computer! I have been reading up on you ladies...but I don't have the "energy" to reply...SORRY!!! IDK if its the holidays and NOT having the money for them...the ish me and Dave have been going threw...the stress of him coming home....actually, I know it's a combination of everything!!!! But I'm not stressing or sad...so don't you ladies worry Just gotta get outta the "funk"!!!!! I hope you are all doing good!!! LOVE YA LADIES!!! You are ALL in my thoughts...thanks for being here for me Have a good night...KEEP YOUR HEADS UP!!!! Tomorrow is Friday but the freakin' snow is coming I HATE the winter...it's TOO cold for Jackie!!!!!!!!!! Hugs
-Jackie

[Kobe16]

its a beautiful wonderful night isnt it??

you know how you got them friends that are always PEPPY and happy when you're feelin BLAAHHHH!! and you wanna smack 'em! I was being like that today..its great!

SOO..

Jeanne, hey auntie!! I'm glad you rolled thru here!! girl I do understand what you are saying. I'm super sorry you are having those visit blues.. you know it'll all be over soon. maybe you should write him and let loose. you know, in that lovin way tho! you know, communication!! when is he supposed to be released from TX? sometime in march right?? keep holdin on Jeanne! I love you..and they CANT keep him forever!

Jackie, aww MOMMA!! I'm sorry your in a funk. I hope your visit sunday will HELP ya out..I'm sure it will. yall talk about this ish and think of it as JUST that...ISH! lol..and that its only 3 months and some days til yall can talk face-2-face for as long as you want. and be all GRAVY!! stay up, yall gon be good, and I know you know that madam!

Steph, hey MA! I'm glad to hear that Danny had no death in the family. whew! you seein him tomorrow right? I hope whatever is going on is settled soon. you know with the PENN, you never know whats goin on.

Brandi, HEYYYY!! good to see you girl!! how are you? how's D? you seeing him this weekend? make sure you are restin up you busy lady!

Jen, HUGGGSSS! I'm wit ya sometimes...WHATEVER! its hard to say why some peeps gotta act like that.. stay up..try to!

hope everyone else is doing good! I'ma go SURF this internet. how bout I only got 1 class tomorrow and its at 12! SWEEET!

aight peaceasy!

[Retired-25]

Hey hey chicks! Well things are a little better this morning. Yesterday I was straight trippin over what might be goin on, but I got it all figured out. My boy works on community service and some PERSON is trying to put some stuff on him, but after a lil detective work and a few phone calls, I've gotten to the bottom of it. He'll be relieved to know that it's just someone tryin to start ish. I hate how they do the guys who are getting ready to go home, but that's how they play. At least he's not freezin his butt off in the hole over nothing, and at least everyone in the family is good. That's all that really matters. Sorry to yall for being a lil concerned over my own stuff and I didn't even respond to any of you.

Jeanne - Girl I understand what you're saying. I think a lot of us do! I have the same problem with D sometimes, trying to get him to realize that this is all really happening. Sometimes he doesn't like to think about 3 months from now cause it makes his time left seem longer. Then other times, he won't shut up about coming home! I hope you feel better soon sweetie! Keep your head up...soon TX AND FL DOC's can kiss both of your booties! Love ya girl!
Jen - Ohhh girl I feel ya on the fake people thing!!!! That's exactly why I have a very few number of true, die hard, here for me no matter what friends! I wish all my PTO girls could just pick a spot and all move to the same town together LOL! I have trust issues with anyone I meet, and I've learned over the years that a lot of people don't care about anyone but themselves. I've let A LOT of friends go because of that kinda attitude. I hope things are much better at work next week. Hang in there!! Love ya!
Jackie - Just wanna give you big hugs hun! You know that I know what you're goin thru and I'm here for you no matter what. If you ever feel like talking, or just straight venting and biting someone's head off, you know how to get ahold of me. Things are gonna be OK and I know all these changes coming are stressful (and the freakin holidays don't help!!!), but in a few short months things will be perfect just because he'll be there with ya and that's all that's gonna matter. Keep your head up sweetie. Love ya much girl!
Marj - Girl my eating habits are HORRIBLE lately! lol I don't know what's gotten into me but I need to get on the ball and straighten up! Yesss I get to see the man in 7 hours. Soon as I run up to Walmart next week and get some photo paper you'll have something on it's way. Love you girl!

OK, I am gonna find something to do with these hyper children who got to stay home from school. Did I ever mention I hate winters in Ohio? lol YUCK!!! We got about 6" of snow last night, but the plows have 7 hours to get the roads cleared cause Steph's gotta see her man! Everyone stay warm and I'll catch up with yall later. Love ya's...

~Steph

[Woody's Girl]

I find alot of the same qualities in MOST people myself... I mean if you are not a person who is fake, out for yourself, liars, or just full of S@@@; I tend to be able to deal with you on a better level... Thus; maybe the reason I have a few selected "associates" and sometimes I don't even feel like being bothered with them.

Originally Posted by Mrs G

...I find most people to be out for themselves, flakey, full of crap, liars, jealous, back stabbers, fair weathe friends
I am just so fed up! why are people so full of it??? UGH! :fb:

Trust me I feel the exact same way... My friend is my husband and that is my only TRUE friend, I have totally dismissed my supposedly "best friend" out of my life, cause come to find out after 6 years of being her friend she was in the previous category you spoke of....and that "whatever" seems to be alot of peoples saying nowadays......Cause I know I result to using that 1 word phrase like 2-3 times a day....

sometimes I think being alone with no friends is the best thing! I have no one to let me down and if I mess up, I only have myself to face!!

and I sure wish I could just quit my job today!!!!!!!!!

Like I love to say...WHATEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[curious824]

thanks for the advice! It's been a long hard road, and i know what i want, i'm just scared, and having trouble tursting him, but i think i will write him to find out whats going on. it jus sux, he was supposed to get out jan 22, now its may 1st! I just hope this gives him more time to think about what is most important.
neways, hi to everyone, but i'm gonna go write him, now that i have the guts today, sorry, just a big wooose here.
TGIF
TTFN

[Kobe16]

I'ma need yall that got snow to TOSS it over here! we NEVER get snow...ice maybe.. and I looovvee the winter! (what up to Sel, Jackie, and Steph) for real, I wanna go out and play..lol

Steph, girl I cant wait for my lil something! have a lovely visit, that snow better be plowed right? LOVE YOUU!

Hey Kesha, Curious

Jen, Jeanne, Jackie, Jenn, Sel, Brians, Alena, Robs, Jevette, Brandi, Mz K, Kimmy, Stormy, HUGS and LOVE to yall!!

aight, I'ma holla lata! ITS FRIDAY!

[Gypsy_soul]

Marj~ Get yer tail up here then!!!! i got plenty of snow for ya! fer sure...

I am SO pissed off right now. I was on earlier & had written out great responses to all of ya, but I started to pass out while I was typing & somehow erased my whole post...what a drag. I think I have an inner-ear infection, and it's really messing with me right now. It's really bad timimg, cuz I can't afford to go see the doctor or fill a perscription. ARGH!!!! What am I gonna do? Ok, let me try to respond to you all again...

Brandi~ Good to see ya girl? How ya been holding up? Everything good with D? Try to get a little breathing time for yourself, I know how hard it is to be so busy!

Steph~ I am so glad to hear that you found out what was going on with Danny. Also glad that it wasn't a death in his family! I just don't get all the mess that happens in these places. With all the drama, you'd think it was full of women Anyway, stay strong....and good detective work BTW!

Jeanne~I love you too lady!!! It's good to be back. My advice to you regarding telling Herb how you're feeling is this: I think you should write it all down in a letter. When you are done, read it & see how it makes you feel. If you think it is too harsh, burn it, toss it, or just put it away. If you feel he would understand your words, send it to him. Either way, you are getting the thoughts out. I hope it helps. Also, I'm sorry to hear you are going through the after-visit blues, that's gotta be rough on you both! But hey, you did get to see him! It sucks that you got sick too, I hope it goes away soon. Keep your head up girl! It's almost over...

Jen~ Amen sister!! I have been trying to understand people for years, finally just gave up! And I feel ya on the W bomb too, it's my favortie catch all word! Just keep going, and before you know it, your hubby will be with you! lots `o love to you! oh, I almost forgot...I do not think that being alone with no friends is the right way to go! Besides, you always have us, right?

Jackie~ Sweetie, I am sorry to hear that you are in a funk right now. I hope you and Dave get the present situation straightened out soon. You know it's mostly just cuz you're getting so close to the end. I'm sure it's causing you both alot of stress. Just remember the love & everthing will be ok. {{{{hugs}}}}

Well, it wasn't as good as the original, but I think I got everyone...To anyone I may have missed...I hope you all have a great weekend. (I need to refresh on some names, there are new people here since I left)

Love to all

[Jamiesheart]

Hey guys! Just wanted to check in and say HAPPY FRIDAY! I still feel like crap. I stayed out of work again today. Thank heavens for sick days. I feel like I got ran over by a Mac truck or something. I'm going to dope myself back up. I'll catch up with you ladies later. I love you guys! Smooches, Robs

[jftazzy102]

To all my wonderful 2006 sisters, and that is exactly what all of you are to me!!! I have to share with you a poem Herb sent me today that he wrote...he doesn't write poems at all so this was really special to me:

A week has gone since I've seen you last
Here I sit on my rack waiting for this time to pass
I sit here wondering what words to write
Wishing I could hold you all friging night
Honey please believe I love you so
And I promise to never let go
We've come so far, it's been so long
Knowing neither of us has done no wrong
Both of us waiting for our life to get along
God has watched us yet this far.
I don't believe He will drop us on the tar
I don't know these words I write
God is guiding my pen tonight
so let's set down and say a prayer
soon your Hubby will soon be there...

Then ladies....(and no he hasn't gotten my letter yet about YES that he has to face the fact that Florida will be coming to get him.....) he said that we (he wrote the letter Dec.4th and he gets out of Texas March 4th) only have three months till he is home, but honey if Florida does come get me that is okay because I (WE) only have three months till I am back in Florida and then it is only 3.5 months till I come home....

Ladies as of today...counting Texas time and Florida time...we have exactly 6 months till my husband is home....I love that man so much....

Jackie...*HUGS*...I have been feeling the same way...face it I think it is the holidays again that are making us feel this way....love ya

Brandi...what is up girlfriend...how are you and D doing??? Remember to take care of you...love ya

Steph...update us when you get back from visit!!!!! love ya

Gyspy...I love you girl...thanks so much for the advice..I know exactly what you are going through right now believe me....I should go to the doctors also but not only do I NOT have the money....but I'm to damn STUBBORN....love ya

Jen....girl like I said last night...I completely agree with you about work. I have been offered another job and yes I do have a few co workers (will two) that I consider good friends....but what I also have to look at is the grass really greener on the other side...you know....Love ya

Marji...how is my girl doing...thank you for your advice and your love...it is sometimes your prayers that get me through all of this....I know that you care and that you pray for us daily and I just have to tell you that I love you girl....and I do the same for you and V.....

To anyone that I missed I love you and just remember: THEY CAN'T KEEP HIM FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sweets79]

Let me start out by saying HEY to everyone! Demetrius and I are fine. Well we were fine until today. He called me as soon as they turned the phones on and it said a different place so I was wondering what was up, well when I accepted the call I found out that they transferred him to a different work camp. So I asked him what was going on and he said he didn't know. It sucks too cause it's about 20 minutes farther and I don't know where it is. I just called to make sure we can still visit him tomorrow and they said yes. So that's good I just have to leave extra early tomorrow so that I can find the place. This means getting up at 3:30am instead of 4am. again.... Well I'll let you all know how this new place is tomorrow when I get home. I hope they are better than the other one we got in trouble every visit at the other one for petty stuff. ( like me talking to one of the other visitors or his shoe being untied) things like that but it was every weekend. I hope it's better.

Brandi

[jftazzy102]

Brandi...you know my prayers are with you in this being a better camp...keep us updated...I can't believe but in a way I can that they would get on to you for talking to other visitors...(they do at Middleton) and for his shoe being untied...OMG....keep your chin up it is almost over with

[Manzanita]

hey all....nice to see ya all here,

I feel so lousy...I feel alone...and honestly I guess I am full of crap too, I guess I am just not ready for making new friends....it has been so long, I don't even know what that means anymore and I am not open enough to make effort, I am too scared and too bitter...

my manager continues to belittle me, and I continue to feel less than, even doing this crappy dead end job...I miss my husband and I am so broke...I know I have things to be thankful for, so I try not to complain, but I am feeling so angry and hurt and sad and scared... in a nutshell...

[jftazzy102]

Originally Posted by Mrs G

hey all....nice to see ya all here,

I feel so lousy...I feel alone...and honestly I guess I am full of crap too, I guess I am just not ready for making new friends....it has been so long, I don't even know what that means anymore and I am not open enough to make effort, I am too scared and too bitter...

my manager continues to belittle me, and I continue to feel less than, even doing this crappy dead end job...I miss my husband and I am so broke...I know I have things to be thankful for, so I try not to complain, but I am feeling so angry and hurt and sad and scared... in a nutshell...

Jen...all I can say is I am right there with you....in ever emotion you just described!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sweets79]

Thanks Jeanne, Yeah they are crazy where he was until today. But we had gotten used to them. Now to start all over, sucks! I am praying too 'cause everyone told him that they are worse where he is now but I called about an hour ago just to make sure we can still visit tomorrow and they all were very nice to me on the phone. So maybe it's just rumors that their mean. I sure hope so! Love ya girl! How is Herb and T? Hope you all are doing well! Brandi

[strwbrryblnd]

Hi