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MANNYOSUNASLADY · #1 10-18-2005, 06:57 PM

Well ladies im gonna go see my man for the first time in 6 months and i know alot of you already been their and back for the 20th time how do you dress for you man? Do we want them to see us in a very nice atire or it dont matter as long as we see them?

PowandVonne · #2 10-18-2005, 07:02 PM

To be honest...in the 3 yrs my husband and I have been together, I have can count on one hand how many times I have worn the same thing twice. I have a lot of clothes. But generally I wear some cute booty jeans and whatever top I feel. I stay away from skirts and dresses because it seems like the guards watch more when the visitor is girlfriend/spouse has on a skirt.

JaysgirlSS · #3 10-18-2005, 07:03 PM

Well, the first time I went to visit I was wearing a pair a cute pair of Bebe workout pants, bebe tank top with a matching jacket. I wore this for the 4 hour drive down. Not thinking I wore it into the prison but was not allowed in the visiting room until I changed. Luckily I had a pair of jeans and sweatshirt in my car.
They seem to have strict rules on what is allowed and what is not.

daunlynnicky · #4 10-18-2005, 07:41 PM

well I try to be as sexy as possible without breaking the rules. the first time I went to riverview I didn't know the dress code so I had to keep my jacket on for the whole visit. my shirt was brown no straps, no sleeves and sheer. I was so used to the no dress code at rikers.I have to wear heels on every visit because my man is 6'2" and I'm 5'3" if I don't then I look like his little sister. I also try to wear skirts as much as possible so we can both get our "playtime" on.

QueenIsis · #5 10-18-2005, 08:16 PM

Ok ladies, I have been writing my "friend" for a minute and now he wants a visit. This will be our first time meeting. What do I wear? He's seen photos of me but a visit is different. Help

PBE · #6 10-18-2005, 08:33 PM

The first time I went to see my boo I wore a sleeveless shirt and the cos wouldn't let me in because my bra strap had slipped. Even when I fixed it they wouldn't let me go in. So I had to borrow a shirt fro this girl who took pity on me. I was very grateful . The shirt was a little big on me but I tried to make it work and when he came down the first words out of my mouth were This is not what I planned to wear ! lol But he said he didn't care he was just glad to see me

Now I usually wear just tight enough jeans and as much cleavage as the guards let me get away with

Althought I think even if I came in a garbage bag my boo would be happy to see me

PBE · #7 10-18-2005, 08:34 PM

Queen Isis, if this is your first time you might want to keep it simple with jeans and a nice top. It doesn't hurt to play it safe the first time and then see what you can work with from there

Tepee · #8 10-18-2005, 08:36 PM

I always wear something comfortable. Sitting in that visiting room for up to seven hours. I usually just put on a sweat outfit and that's that. Here in California we are not allowed to wear "blue" jeans because they are to similar to what the inmate wears, but here they are really, really strict with dress code so I make sure I wear something that's going to get me in every time.

derrick · #9 10-18-2005, 09:27 PM

Make sure you find out the dress code for that facility first hand. My babes prison is VERY strict, I had blue jeans and a white shirt ( a very thick cotton tee shirt) you couldnt even see through it, but seeing i was a little busty they made me change.I had to walk about 4 blocks away so the camera's couldnt see me or they wouldnt have let me in. But usually i wear either blue jeans and a plain v neck shirt or black dress pants. Either way, no matter what you wear he will be VERY happy to see you, so dont stress it have fun!!! Fawn

one_luv · #10 10-18-2005, 10:37 PM

I always look my best, like I'm out on a hot date. I usually wear a skirt and heels. I show as much skin as allowed. Once in awhle I'll dress down by wearing a Juicy sweat suit. My husband loves all the attention. I have an outfit of knee-high black 3 inch boots with a business suit that he drools over. But this is me, I usually always dress up and love to wear heels. I know what I can wear and what I can't- it's been a long time since they told me to change. I have even been known to bust out a ruler.

Yes, be sure to check the DOC web site for the dress code before you go, and bring extra clothes with you just in case. Where my husband is at, they do not allow jeans or white t-shirts. Can't wear anything too tight or see-through. Skirts can be no less than 2 inches above the knee and tops have to have sleeves of at at least 2 inches. It does depend on who you are too, if you have a nice body, they are stricter because they know it causes attention.

christine2005 · #11 10-18-2005, 11:00 PM

Dress like a nun. lol They are very strict on your clothes and they will send you away no matter how far you had to drive! I had to drive 5 and a half hrs and they told me to go buy another outfit or come back next week. 13 yrs till my baby come home

manola's lyric · #12 10-18-2005, 11:38 PM

I ALWAYS WEAR HIP RIDER JEANS WITH "SEXXXY DOLL BABYTOPS" OR MID DRIFT SHIRTS UNDER A JACKET.

WITH HOTT HEELS. HE LOVES THE PEEK SHOW.

Dannysshorty · #13 10-18-2005, 11:54 PM

i try to dress up as much as i can.......it's good to look good for your man

prican76 · #14 10-19-2005, 11:03 AM

I always dress as nice as possible! I make sure I am always cute when I see my Papi, and trust me he appreciates my beauty and will always compliment on it!

4MyBabyBoy · #15 10-19-2005, 01:48 PM

i usually switch it up between a a nice shirt, jeans and heels to a white T, jeans and sneaks...however I ALWAYS look good!

poni'swoman · #16 10-19-2005, 01:53 PM

I always wear something as sexy as possible. Without breaking the rules. Always heels, and most of the time skirts or dresses. Once in awhile jeans. Never ever sweatsuits, those are for home, or unless you are a size 2, which unfortuately I am not. He has never seen me in the same clothes twice.

qwerty · #17 10-20-2005, 12:44 AM

I always dress as nice as I can (in my own style, I'm not too crazy) but I ALWAYS take extra clothes in the trunk in case they make me change... it's come close but so far, I've made it...

But just nice, cute, neat clothes, makeup -- and some perfume -- is plenty good...

KarrieMI · #18 10-20-2005, 11:53 AM

Well after 4 years together he has seen me in just about everything LOL!
So I do try to look nice but I dont really get dressed up! I do sometimes but I've worn a dress before but never a skirt! Here in Michigan in the Prisons that I've been to I've had them reject me because of my shorts are to short and because of that after driving for hours I dont want them to reject me now and I just wear something pretty instead of sexy!

KarrieMI

PSMITH3127 · #19 10-20-2005, 12:02 PM

I always go all out... I wear a lot of dresses and skirts. Those are my orders lol lol I always do the hair and makeup and always wear heels.
I can;t say I have had too many problems at visits. If I did, I have to admit that we brought it on and we pushed the envelope. We dont anymore... The last few times I have worn black dress pants and a black turtleneck and black heels. This allows me in everytime. I just wear black... dresses, skirts, pants.. jeans... I drive 4.5 hours so not getting in would NOT be an option. I play is safe and always pack 3 choices per day...

mykygal · #20 10-21-2005, 04:27 PM

I dress as nicely and attractively as I can and stay within their guidelines. I always wear his favorite cologne, makeup. I wear my hair down because he likes it that way. Of course, I always bring extra clothes in case they don't meet the facilities approval. Basically, I want to look good for him and try to wear his favorites.

MrsPhil · #21 10-21-2005, 05:48 PM

I wear jeans and a jersey with my sneaks. Or sometimes in the summer I wear a skirt and my sandals but like someone else said the guards seem to watch those in the skirts more. But I always wear something I know I will get in with. But he doesn't care what I wear as long as I am there.

haswtch · #22 10-21-2005, 07:08 PM

Jeans and sneakers and a top, or something silkier in the summer with sandals...but it's all about WHICH jeans and WHICH top, you know...yes he's glad to see me regarless, but I still take extra though about it

Tia1223 · #23 10-21-2005, 07:27 PM

I dress very nice but as conservatively as possible, as if I'm going to the office or something. We get in trouble every single time I visit for things I don't realize I'm even doing! The last thing I need is my clothes getting me in more trouble! I just wanna see my baby, I don't want to cause a ruckus!

lilithinwaiting · #24 10-21-2005, 08:08 PM

On my last visit, I wore a brown suede skirt with brown knee high leather boots with a 3 inch heel and a leopard skin sweater, large gold hoops .
On my next visit I will will a black leather skirt and black boots with a sweater,large silver hoops

We are not allowed to show skin, or low rider jeans . All shirts must be collar level and at least 3 inches below the belt. I once wore a black slinky top, not see through but the slinky jersey material and had to put something over it before I was allowed in. It was considered too form fitting. They were very nice about it as always but she said that was the rules. Another thing is it hard to sit when wearing a skirt because the stools are attached with a large metal pipe and normally you straddle it to sit, so with a skirt , you must sit side saddle which is very very tiresome.

optimistic · #25 10-21-2005, 08:36 PM

It's crazy how the rules are so different at every facility. I try to look nice but give a good mix of the woman he knew when he was out...some days a little sexy, some days a little sassy, some days a little chill. I just like to mix it up a little so he can feel like he gets to see all of me.