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ours107 · #**276** 08-11-2008, 07:10 PM

I have my own style. Before my husband went in I dressed very sexy. Heels with everything and always gotta rock the accessories. But when I go see him I don't want him to see a new outfit on me and wander how many other men have have approached me becuase of how I'm dressed. I've kinda toned it down a little. Rickey thinks my confidence and the way I carry myself is sexy anyways!

hottiebun · #**277** 08-12-2008, 08:47 AM

I always try to look sexy, but not overtly sexy.. I has visit on sunday and I had on a Maxi dress.. and long dress to my ankles.. with wedges and a lil sweater.. the dress was fitted but not tight, so the curves showed.. I love looking nice for him!http://images0.like.com/product-imag...e-shipping.jpg LIKE THIS ONE.. but in Green..

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ju's wife · #**278** 08-12-2008, 10:34 PM

Cute dress HOTTIEBUN! I can't wait to see him... I am still waiting to get approved. But I would dress cute soemthing for him to remember until the next visit, but bring a back up "whatever/plain" outfit just in case.

MYBABY'S_WIFEY · #**279** 08-16-2008, 09:24 AM

i try to look as cute as i could and plus i am to girl y girl so i always have to look nice only times i dont is when it raining or cold i will be in parts and a sweater and tennis

Jayzwife · #**280** 08-18-2008, 04:29 PM

I always try and go all out for him. I like baby tees and tight skinny jeans with the heels to match. He always go crazy when he sees me walk cause all the guys are looking at me its so funny.

winstar99 · #**281** 08-18-2008, 06:17 PM

I like to dress up a little, and do my hair and makeup - and wear my best perfume. This time of year (because it is so hot in the visit area) I usually just put my hair up in a pony but I still wear makeup, and dress as nice as I can but comfortable.

SL'sWifey · #**282** 08-19-2008, 06:12 PM

Honestly so far i been buying new shirts to wear to see him just cuz i wanna impress him

Jennkadyn · #**283** 08-28-2008, 03:39 PM

I dress as good as I can but sometimes he likes me in just tshirt and jeans so anything goes really but I like to look nice

blueyed · #**284** 08-28-2008, 05:04 PM

I wear jeans and a nice shirt, we can not wear anything that has a hood, or shows any cleavage it seems, it you show a lil they watch or make comments..no jackets,,I like to be comfortable cuz im usually there for hours

Angelbaby8599 · #**285** 08-29-2008, 11:38 AM

When I last visited I was wearing loose jeans and a big polo shirt. I hated looking so frumpy but there was no way I was going to be sent away because I wasn't dressed appropriately.

only1love · #**286** 08-29-2008, 02:38 PM

Where my guy is, there is only video visits! He cannot see below my chin, so, for me, it's all about the face and hair..... but get this...the facility does not permit v necklines, sleeveless or low cut tops! Jeans are not allowed, no glasses, not even prescription glasses, no purse, no keys! UNLESS you don't speak english. Then by all means, bring your cell phone, dress like a hooker and enjoy your visit!!! Go figure!

Sun'skitty · #**287** 08-30-2008, 08:34 AM

I always try to look nice. Hair, makeup, and nails done. He just wrote me to tell me thank you for always looking so beautiful at visits even though it's behind glass!

Amanda Hess · #**288** 09-03-2008, 12:02 PM

My husband is in Sierra Conservation Center in Jamestown and they sound sooo strict on what I wear. I cannot even wear blue jeans! Is there someone wo had visited at SCC and knows the dress code well for vistiting. Please, I NEED HELP!!!!!

coolbeanz1916 · #**289** 09-16-2008, 10:47 PM

Well I Get To See My Man On October 9th 2008 And I Am Going To Wear My New Khanki Pants (that He Has Not Seen) And A Black Shirt That I Am Going To Decorate For Him.

shygirl25 · #**290** 09-17-2008, 12:57 AM

only1love, what facility is this?? i live in cali and have not yet heard of a place like that......now thats what i call weird.

LovinMeNow · #**291** 09-17-2008, 05:41 AM

I tried to look as nice as I could, especially since I will only be seeing him once a year. What I had found though was you can't look too nice or even the slightest bit sexy! The female co's don't like it....or at least some of them don't! I wore a plain black dress, loose fitting, regular sleeves, right above the knee (about an inch or so and their handbook says nothing more than 3 inches above the knee or 3 inches below the fingertips or shorts no shorter than midthigh), neckline at the neck. Believe me, nothing was showing! The first week that I wore it there wasn't a problem, but there were all men co's. The following weekend when I wore the same dress, the female co gave me such a hard time and was quoting the handbook as 3 inches below the knee! I told her to read it again, that she was wrong! I think that she already knew that, as she let me in and then proceeded to badger me during the visit! Believe me, like I said, nothing was showing, but the way she talked, you would have thought that I was dressed like a hooker!! I did try and keep in mind that this particular co was very young, close to 6 feet tall and probably weighed 250 pounds! (I'm certain that had something to do with it!) Another outfit that I wore was pink capri pants, again loose fitting, and a top, long with regular sleeves, high leckline and long, completely covering my butt. The top alone came down to my upper thighs! Well...I had to put a t-shirt under the top because it buttoned down the front and this same co said that it was because I may unbutton it!! Nowhere in the handbook does it say anything about not wearing a top that buttoned down the front!! But again, this was the same female co and I had also worn this outfit the week before, (when she was not there) and did not have a problem! They don't make it easy for you to look nice at visit. The odd thing about it though, there were women there wearing skintight jeans with tight tops that barely met the top of the jeans and that they had to keep pulling down so that their midriff didn't show and although there was a rule no heels over 1 1/2 inches, they were wearing stacks that were at least 5 inches, and those women weren't given a hard time at all! Hmmmm....not really sure what the reason was!!

brandylee · #**292** 09-17-2008, 06:21 AM

i have known my man for 20 years i go as i am jeans and a shirt i think i look cute and he love the fact that i have not changed i am who i am

Rosr Mary · #**293** 09-17-2008, 07:38 AM

I TRY to dress up and look sexy (as far as D.O.C. will let me.) But he doesn't notice my clothes.He wouldn't care if I came in rags, just as long as I came!!!

shonswifey · #**294** 09-18-2008, 09:47 PM

Usually I'll wear fitted jeans,cute flattery top, open toe heels...I always flat iron my hair and very natural makeup. I know it probably wouldn't matter if I came in my "house clothes" he would still tell me how beautiful I look!!! I love to dress up for him so that he can look at my butt every time I get up to get him a snack out the vending machine... lol ...

The hubby always wears his brightest whites, nice and pressed , fresh fade edge up and shave, just showered and lookin so damn Handsome and smellin so good. YUMMMMY can't wait to see him Next Sat!!!!

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Melvinsboo · #**295** 09-19-2008, 11:55 PM

Well with all the rules at the jail it dress like normal. But for some reason he thinks my normal dressing is something special. He always makes comments on wht I'm wearing, i basically say "Oh this old thing." I shop alot so i have alot of clothes so i doubt hes ever seen me in one thing twice.Even when he was out and we live together.

d in NYC · #**296** 09-22-2008, 12:06 PM

I dress like a nun cause after spending money to get up there and getting up before the crack of dawn to catch the bus, i do not want to be sent home because of my clothes. lol I always wear nice colors and do my hair and makeup.

MrsVedo989 · #**297** 09-23-2008, 11:36 AM

I don't know the rules here in Michigan. When they approve you, will they send you info on the dress code?

msholland1978 · #**298** 10-21-2008, 07:28 PM

I look my best everytime I go to see my honey. There was this one time a female visitor made a comment that i shouldn't dress that way because I'm making him (my husband) feel like he is missing out on something, she also said that is why she look a hot mess when she come to see her man. Well, I'm sorry that's not me I don't go no where looking a hot mess.

xnicecaligurlx · #**299** 10-22-2008, 02:10 AM

I'm in CA, so if I ever go visit my hunnie in Seagoville TX, (it's freakin' expensive!!) I'm not sure what's ok and what's NOT. Their clothes are Khaki colored so I know not to wear that obviously. It is a federal prison, so I know the rules are different than other types of prisons. I DO NOT wanna go from CA to TX and not be able to get in!

LadyKisses · #**300** 10-28-2008, 11:33 PM

I am going to dress casual cause he dont care what I am wearing he just wants to see me..He could care less if I wore a potatoe sack just as long as I was happy and big daddy got some sugar he is all good and since I am a country girl ..I am usally in some relaxed clothing..So problay some apple bottom jeans and a nice shirt..Not to much clevage showing and my shoes...Nothing to over the top or exotic..cause I dont want to be denied in the visting room so I keep it cool and comfortable cause I knw I get to sit for 6 hours to see him so I dont want to be uncomfortable.....LIke he said just bring ure ass up here and smile really big and that is all that matters baby...