How do you dress to go see your man in prison/jail?

[JVS]

I try to dress in as tight as i can get by with jeans and usually a t-shirt not white my baby really doesn't care what i'm wearing he's just happy to see me. moves up a level this week 4 hr visits!!!!

[JVS]

Originally Posted by JVS

I try to dress in as tight as i can get by with jeans and usually a t-shirt not white my baby really doesn't care what i'm wearing he's just happy to see me. moves up a level this week 4 hr visits!!!!

:love:

[here_for_jason]

The rules are very strict on what we can and can't wear... but we both have to use our imagination... khaki from head to toe doesn't do much for my boy, but I can see right through that stuff! I usually dress nice, but I have to keep it conservative in order to be allowed in.

[ronswifey]

Well im not sure yet what i will wear, it will be my first visit this weekend, and when i check the line they talk about all the stuff we can't wear, im like man. im thinking i will pick one of my church outfits.lol, then again i wear jeans and sweats to my church so i take that back .lol. Maybe i can dress how i would to a job interview , this is tough.

[utcrush72]

My man will notice me and only me no matter what I wear because he loves me, and since I haven't got to see him in almost a year, it's hard to tell what I will have picked out when I do get to go.

[M.Archer]

I have a feeling I should start saving for a new wardrobe since my Fiance will be transferred soon to a state facility.

I don't OWN jeans that probably wouldn't be considered "tight" or "form fitting". I like my jeans to fit right, not look like a have a pants full of poop! As well as most of my shirts are at least some what low cut.... I mean If you got it, flaunt it, right? That's what my Baby always tells me... and with him being in county right now, I have only had a problem with what I wore once.... I guess we're not allowed to wear skirts that barely cover our backsides But thankfully the female guard just took me aside, and told me if it were anyone else they wouldn't have let me in, but she would this one time. The only thing was that we had to sit in toward the front booths so that the guys in the rec room across the hall couldn't see me through the window because she thought I might start some kind of riot(her words not mine). I did as told, sat toward where no one in the rec room could see, and haven't worn anything that bad again.... now we're getting close to transfer....He keeps telling me to "accidently" flash him... I always tell him not now because i don't want to lose my visits! But now it's getting down to the nitty gritty.... he might push for it a bit more Who knows.

But I always try to look good, but not like a street walker.

[peanut_n_jam]

oh yeah i negelected to say earlier that the c/o's at my boo's prison almost always hassle me for what i wear, despite me trying to look nice. eventhough i always bring more than one outfit i usually have to get a shirt from the welcome house, and change my pants. last time i wore some skinny black jeans and got through fine, i wore the same ones again and they said they look blue, go change. i swear, they come up with two new problems with my outfit everytime i visit, which is rarely. the c/o's constantly contradict themselves.

but i do try to dress in bright colors(no blue or green allowed). i feel that dressing brightly adds to the happpiness and excitement we already have from seeing each other, plus it lightens the mood. i dont want to look like i'm going to a funeral or look like a gray rain cloud, besides i wear enough black at my job. this weekend though i wore a black knee length pencil skirt, with a short sleeve hip length white shirt that had splashes of green and bright pink paint on it, a long sleeve yellow cardigan over it, and some yellow, green and orange patent leather cork heel wedges to match. sounds like alot of color, but i pulled it of with matching and comfort AND without looking crazy or having to change(i was surprised at that!), he likes it, thats what matters.
p.s. he requested the heels, cuz the day before i wore flats.

[MISSINGHIM2MUCH]

Well Right Now...he's In Jail. So I Like To Look Sexy And Wear Dresses.

[Eternal Hope]

Sometimes I will dress up- suit/dresses, other times I wear jeans and a cute top- nothing against rules because I have to travel 7 1/2 hours to see him! Would love to wear more sexy stuff but then again, sure don;t want to be turned away for any reason. I think they do like to see us dress up occasionally, heels and stockings- the whole bit..of course it depends on my mood too...

[Sinphany]

Sometimes I dress down like with bermuta shorts, nice T and some Vans or Nikes or I'll throw on sandals so he can enjoy my pretty feet and sometimes I show off my sexy frame in my work clothes like my pants suits, skirts 'n' heels or boots. My man is 6'6 so I try to always wear heels so I don't look so short next to him...

[Sinphany]

..of course it depends on my mood too...[/quote]


Yeah it does depend on my mood too...

[Addicted2R20048]

I try n look jus like I do on the streets, I dont want him thinkin that I look beter than I do, B/c I dont. But I do wear my good clothes, my nice fittin jeans and stuff. He doesnt want me to wear the stuff thats sexy bc he say I am all his and he dont want peoples to look at me. (not that they would, I'm a fluffy chick lol) But either way, I look the same as I would any other day. He's just happy to see me either way.

[lanesanchez]

I am visiting my man for the first time Saturday. He is at Desert View in Adelanto. Can anybody tell me what the dress code is and how long the visiting hours are.

[lovinkiah]

I dress totally different than i do on the street. When i go see him i try to dress classy...not so much sexy, but i do wear the heels and the skirts. When I am in society i am usually in sweats unless I am at work in which case i am in corporate casual.

[FAITHHOPELOVE]

I wear a lot of different colors. (No Pastels or white) it won't get in. I also wear heels.

[PTO-92958]

It varies. I do love to dress sexy, like we're going out on a Friday night to the club...after all, these are our "dates" right now. I've been known to wear a red dress with black fishnet stockings and heels. (which can look a lil crazy to the dudes runnin the corner store down the street from the facility at 7am on a Friday morning LOL) But I want him to remember how it used to be when we went out out here in the world.
I'll also wear jeans and a nice sweater or blouse as well. Or occasionally keep it real with a hot lil matching pink sweatsuit and pink FILAs.
But in general, I definately set out to dress to impress.

[lovinkiah]

Originally Posted by goldenglove

It varies. I do love to dress sexy, like we're going out on a Friday night to the club...after all, these are our "dates" right now.

They darn sure are our dates right now...and since I have no past with him (I MWI) these really are our first dates. I just wish we could have better "restaurants" or "food" but alas that is for a different thread. Next time I'll choose the place! (LOL) ....

...sorry Golden you know i am a mess.

[Rah'sMommy]

Originally Posted by lovinkiah

They darn sure are our dates right now...and since I have no past with him (I MWI) these really are our first dates. I just wish we could have better "restaurants" or "food" but alas that is for a different thread. Next time I'll choose the place! (LOL) ....

LOL... That was cute...

[Rah'sMommy]

I dress exactly like I dressed when he was home... I'm not about to fall off...

[Seatrout]

one word... jazzpants!!!!!!! !

[jojosmamita]

heels are a must for me.. always have been.. always will be.. eventhough my 2 year old is half my size and weighs in at 40 pounds.. momma is still strong enough to hold him when he gets tired... my honey is still in county so i get to where pretty much anything.. usually a cute pair of jeans and a cute top and some heels.. on his bday i went shopping for a special outfit and i got this cute dress and he was so flabbergasted when he saw me.. he always says why dont you wear my bday suit again.. and one of the last times i saw him (cause hes been in the hole for the last 2 weekends ) i wore some nice black slacks..a black button up shirt..a belt and my sexy secretary glasses and he was like damnnnnnnnn.. he screamed out to all the inmates around him... have you seen her.. thats all mine.. yupppp.. all mine.. hes the cutest thing ever.. so i think ladies we should go as cute and prettiful as we can to make them feel good about themselves..it builds up their confidence and just helps them cope better in there .. xoxo..

[yaya'sbaby]

I'll dress cute but comfortable. But sincr my honey is damn near 10hrs away from me, I'll be rocking sweats and air maxes from now on.

[MCWIFE07]

I hate where he is we can't have on anything tight. Well my jeans are tight as ever I want to make sure he sees my butt when I walk away but our shirts have to be loose and damn near to our necks. I do what I have to do and look as sexy as possible for him. I also wear heels and keep my nails and hair done that's how he likes it. He likes looking at my clevage so I adjust myself once I get inside.

[HowlingWolf]

You practically HAVE to dress like a nun here........no jeans, can't have your bra strap showing, no tank tops or shirts that expose any of your belly or back, no underwire bras, shorts and skirts have to be a certain length, etc. Sucks for me since all I own is jeans!!

[stormchaser977]

for our visit today...i wore a semi-length black skirt with a blouse and lots of jewelry...lol....the first thing he said was "well, hello there beautiful!"...