What would make you leave him?

[willierobbie]

Hurting my childeren or making another baby with someone else

[Me-n-Ty]

i never considered the child abuse when i asked the question and yeah IF Ty ever touched my children any type of abuse i would be in prison not him ...i didnt consider that b/c i couldnt see Ty ever hurting our children like that ...hes done dumb things but he loves our children and i trust him completely when it comes to them

[SugahPiesBaby]

An easy question , hurting my kids would be right up there on the top of the list . See my theory is ,do what you may to me, but if you cross that line and hurt my kids , it's on . Then I would be in prison and looking for pen pals , would anyone hook a sista up ?

[KarrieMI]

Well if I find out that he's lying to me about this crazy woman that we both new before he went in that we were both friends with well she's the type that dont take NO for an answer and he's told me that she constantly writes him and he wrote and told her please not to write again but that she continues anyways! Anyways if I find out that he ever wrote her more than that one letter were D O N E! Why because she has tried to do everything in her power to cause us problems and break up and she is partially the reason why he's in prison in the first place!

KarrieMI

[neworleans85]

the ONE thing that would make me leave my man would be if he cheated on me (again... i'm stupid for staying the 1st time... i know) but now that i'm more emotionally attached to him, i couldn't take him cheating (again). when we decided we were going to be serious about our relationship i told him i only needed one thing from him: respect and if he disrespected me (cheating, abuse, etc) i'd know he broke his promise and that would mean he wasn't the man i fell in love with. i fell in love with someone who respects me and adores me so, actually 2 things, cheating or abuse, would make me leave him.

[b0mbina]

if he got someone else pregnant, or actually if i found out he was cheating on me, since we have been married.

[TheForgoten1]

cheating acting stoopid doing drugs getting involved in stuff catching another case becasue he looked for it treating me bad

[Soinlovew/him]

Goes back to all the old ways, if he starts being abusive mentally, physically (or both) and of course if he cheats.

[MsHaze]

if he does somethin so out of character that i have to leave..something like hitting me (which i know he'd never do..its not him) or finding out he has another chick he's telling to wait for him..which would be out of character for him to because he's always been an honest,straight up person..but if he was ever to break my trust..i'd have to leave because thas one of the big reasons i am with him..because he's one of the only few people i can trust..

[Frankiesbaby]

IF he chose to go back to the life that put him in prison in the first place. This will be my one and only prison experience. Everyone deserves one chance, and this is his one chance. Becasue, if he chose the lifestyle over me. He doesn't really love me anyway.

[+4thefuture]

Abusing my children physically is not an option, they are adults and we hold our own. Abusing me physically.......nah, not an option either. Not going to stand for emotional and mental abuse either. An outside child, uh I don't think so; he could'nt explain it to the wind cause that's where I'll be. He truly would never play for the home team willingly so I would say that since he knows me and knows where I stand on issues regarding me leaving him and plus I have matured and am a d*mn good woman why make me leave him..............

[Maggie12]

Originally Posted by buttercupforwes

I have always said that if he cheated, I would leave, BUT honestly IF he admited it and was truly sorry, I'd forgive him. I just love this man too much to ever spend a day without him in my life.
Some women have posted if they abused her or their children, this thought had NEVER occured to me, I know he would NEVER do either.

I honestly thought the same thing, that if he ever cheated, I would be gone. But he told me, he regrets it, and I know he will never do it again. I almost left him, and he says that would be worse than all the time he has to do in prison. He knows I will stand by him. The only thing is he used to have a drug problem and that is why he is where he is today. If he uses again or goes back to those people and that life, i can't stay with him. Who am I kidding? I just love him to death. I guess i am just praying he won't go back to that because I dont want to go through this again and he deserves better. What is it they always say? Love is blind? so true....

[mz_delacruz]

if my man ever:

* became abusive (verbally, emotional, and physically) - don't need that again, been there in previous relationships

* started tellin lies - don't need him or want someone in my life that can't be real about things

* cheated - all i have to say is that it would turn into a BIG scene like "Jerry Springer" and Steve won't be there to hold me back

Me and him have a very understanding relationship and have certain understandings from one another.....

[PBE]

My honey knows that there is almost nothing I would not do for him , I love him like no other and I will wait faithfully till he comes home BUT
If he cheated on me or if when he came home did something stupid to get sent back then I would be heartbroken ... and alone because I would not go back with him.

Thankfully I know that he values our relationship like I do and my heart is at peace in his hands knowing it will not be hurt.

[haswtch]

Originally Posted by Jay1

I don't like thinking about it but I don't want to sit here and lie and say that if he would do this and that I would leave when I know I probably wouldn't. I love my hubby to death and I know he loves me too. He has never disrespected me and I don't think he will, other than that we're cool, we both love God very much and I know that our relationship goes way beyond negatives.

Bingo. We have chosen these men or God's picked them for us because we kinda know they will NOT do these nasty things.

[donovans wife]

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." -- Mark Twain

you know how much you will take and you know how much respect you should be getting If some one loves you , you can tell by thier actions, it is very easy for some one to say they love someone, Listen to your own heart and remember ITS YOU !!! that has to make that decision no one else can make it for you , dont take this tooo seriously

[haswtch]

Yeahhhhh!!!!!

[Neca Blacc]

Infidelity would make me leave him, true I would be crying the whole time HE'S packing but I feel like I've been down with him for so long that anything less than total committment is unacceptable.

[hisdarklilangel]

I'm not with my friend that is locked up right now, but I was. Before we decided to be just friends I told him the only thing that could make me leave him is if he cheated on me.....

[myhusbandswifey]

I can't answer that because I can't say how I would feel about certain things or deal with them until they have actually happened, but I know I would leave if he physically assaulted me or my kids. With no hesitation

[bj's girl]

Well, in every relationship there is pain and pleasure. If the pain is greater than the pleasure, then this is my cue to exit. It's that simple.

[rosedealer]

the only thing that would make me leave him would be pyhsical abuse had enough of that in my life already.

[iwish]

only if lorenz tate or eminem proposed! LOL

[dancingflame41]

He knows I've always been against cheating so I don't know if I could ever forgive him for that but I have forgiven him for a lot of stuff and I know he's a changed man so I know I don't have to worry about that. We both have done some crappy things to each other and he told me that there wasn't anything I could do to make him not love me and want to be with me. I think that's true for me too but that isn't an excuse to do something disrespectful to your partner.

[KBs_Baby]

if he did anything to harm me, physically, emotionally, or mentally. we've been through a lot and i feel that he's knows that i won't tolerate him making the same mistake twice.