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GarysWife · #1 04-26-2006, 03:00 PM

so i got two more letters from him today and it's killing me.... he wants to make us work and what not.. hes sorry and he want me to come see him.. he said i was right that other girls will never be like me and the whole nine yards.. a part of my really wants to go see him this weekend. but i am so tired of the games. i joined a gym today... my mom paid it for a year for me (for my birthday).. i don't know i feel like i'm free and happy even though i'm hurting so bad.. it's weird... i couldn't wait to get home to check the mail. i just don't know what to do.

AmyLynn · #2 04-26-2006, 04:35 PM

Don't open anymore letters. Send them back. He only wants you cause you will be one who will let him get away with crap. Let her have him. I'm sorry that your going though so much right now. But go to the gym have some fun!! I hear that there are alot of hot men at the gym!!!

NENAZ · #3 04-26-2006, 05:59 PM

Oh Sweetie,
I'm really sorry your going through this. I don't know your story but I just had to give you lots of Big Hugz!!! Try and keep yourself busy. Go to the gym and workout all your frustrations believe me it helps. Keep your head up and everything will work out for the best.

Sadie80 · #4 04-26-2006, 11:13 PM

Work it girl, work it! LOL... If anything just do not respond to him for awhile. Ignore him. Let a few months go by and if he is still making an effort to contact you and you still feel a need to talk than do so. But I think you should sort through your feelings alone without him interfering. It will just confuse you. Just my opinion.

daydreamer4l · #5 04-27-2006, 04:38 PM

I think that your instinct is kicking in and telling you that something is not right and you're unhappy. I know its hard and easier said than done, but trust your instinct. Four years is a long time to wait around for someone; and its not even guaranteed that he will be around and be there for you when he gets out. Right now, he will take any help that he can get because he is locked up. But you what you think is right; but just remember to make yourself happy and go after what you deserve.