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Csmcgrl23 · #**2576** 08-03-2006, 02:44 PM

(((((((((((AC))))))))))) sorry to hear about your Grandma, I will pray for her, your Mom and YOU!!! We really all do go thru the same things...at least we have each other.

Trini...yeah he better never...cause I know I will see him out on the street (I have before) and if he shaves them off I will yell at him!!! Man, he is sooooooo HOT.....I love Xzibit!!!!

MsPiggy · #**2577** 08-03-2006, 02:45 PM

(((((AC)))))) Sorry to hear that but you and your family will definitely be in my prayers.

moetbj · #**2578** 08-03-2006, 02:45 PM

Damn! Give his nephew my # - Morris is my boo!

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Originally Posted by MsPiggy

Ooooohhhhh I know he didn't. I think he looked better with the braids. I think a lot of it is the pic I don't think its a great pic. Which I think it is fine and all that but Kermie's oldest son looks alot like him so I can't get too far into him. He has the braids and all. I just seen one of Luda's high school pics and I could have swore I was looking at Kermie's son. Come to think about a lot of people in his family look like someone famous.

Kermie looks like Ricky Bell
Money his brother in law looked like Bobby Brown
Money's son looks like a young 50 cent
Kermie's son looks like Luda
Kermie's nephew could be Morris Chestnuts twin

I should be makin bank off of look alike photos lol.

Trini'slady · #**2579** 08-03-2006, 02:47 PM

((((((Carter))))))) You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. I'm sorry ya'll are going through this. We all hate when someone passes away, but if it takes them out of pain I think it's better for them. I still cry all the time over my auntie and my daddy tells me : Look at it this way now she will never be in pain again. My daughter asked me this morning if her auntie still had a boo-boo and I told her no honey she is all better now. And I believe that to be true. You know what helps me : Every morning I say Psalm 23 or Psalm 25 I don't remember I know the page # by heart and that really helps me. When she was in her coma state the night and early morning before she died I read it to her frequently

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Originally Posted by ACarter05

Piggy, you know I didn't think to ask where his pants were. I am a smart butt too, or at least he always says that I am. I know they all listen and I really do not care if they do. It won't be the first and sure won't be the last, but if he doesn't want to do it... FINE!!!

On a sad note, I just talked to my mother and she took my grandma to have her chemo for today and her doctor admitted her into the hospital because she has has diarreah for the past week and a half and he said that is not normal so he wants to keep her in for a few days to see what is going on. Please keep her in your prayers. I am not worried about her leaving, because I know that when God calls her home, she has to go... I just do not want her to be in any pain and I want my mother to be okay. Her blood pressure is probably up now because she is concerned about her mother. So please keep my whole family in your thoughts and prayers! Thanks for listening Ladies! Love ya!

MsPiggy · #**2580** 08-03-2006, 02:59 PM

Moet-- Sure will give him your # right after he turns 18 in like 2 years lol

LanaJo · #**2581** 08-03-2006, 03:03 PM

Ya'll I'm exhausted from this dude, he's pissing me right on off. I called the facility at lunch time.
Me-"Yes I'm calling about my husband, I haven't heard from him in the better part of two weeks, no calls, no letters, and I'm worried about him"

co- "what's his name"

me-"bbo!!! LOL!!!!" "I just wanted to make sure he's alive and well and not in any kind of danger"

co-"no mam, I seen him myself yesterday in person, he looked healthy as a horse, just fine"

me- "Well this is really unlikely of him to not contact me, so I didn't know if he was hurt or in trouble or had his priviledges taken away"

co-"no mam he's just fine, awnry as ever" (Was that a hint? I dunno)

me- "Can you tell me if he's on any kind of restrictions"

co- "no mam I cannot give any details about his incarceration, that is up to him to give details, but I can say that he is okay"

me- "thank you so much"
THen he proceeds to tell me he wishes every one who called was this easy. I'm like thanks and hung up.
Easy, NFW am I easy, I just know better than to get too ignorant. Besides it makes me mad at J, because even if he is in SHU, he could still write me, but no, he hasn't, and I just don't think mail is gonna be slowed down by a damn week, my mom works for USPS, and it's not running slow right now. I'm so mad, I feel like I've been worried so badly, and this mofo is sitting up there not worrying about sh*t. I'm too tired of holding everything down, handling his business and sh*t out here, and he's not even considering how I feel. I wrote yesterday to him and told him I was worried please let me know something. I am so serious if I find out this dude is acting a fool, I'm too through, ya'll, he won't be gettin my visit on Labor Day, no wait he will, a 15 minute one, long enough for me to show my a$$ and walk right out, so he can feel as stupid as he's making me look, bastard.

Trini'slady · #**2582** 08-03-2006, 03:05 PM

((((((((Lana))))))) I'm sorry Well at least the CO was nice and let you know he was ok to an extent. Girl the mail may just be backed up on their end. It took nine days to get a letter from T. You know the BOP is in no rush to get out letters

moetbj · #**2583** 08-03-2006, 03:07 PM

Oh ACarter! I am so sorry to hear that! You and your family are def in my prayers! I have to say what a wonderful attitude you have about it - i was a mess over my grandma - same with you csmc - i don't know how you do it!

PB'ing - wow - I must be getting ready to start - b/c i have felt like a dang horn dog all week!

So get this ladies - I got a call from our YMCA and I got approved for financial aid for the latchkey program and my daycare problems are SOLVED! I get after care for $29 a week! I am ESTACTIC!!!! He has to be picked up by 6 so between TBD, his momma, and one of my friends they have all agreed to work it out! WOO HOO! I have class 3 nites a week and clean 2 times a week so I am rarely home before 9pm - This is such a BLESSING!!!!
Another good thing that happened today - we have a new girl that started here in a different dept and she gave me her card - she sews - well i showed her a pic of the dress i wanted to get married in and she said if i buy the fabric she will make it (or something very similar) for $25!!! She said she had several patterns at home that i may like so next week we are going to get together on that then go pick out fabric!!!! I am really starting to get excited about this whole wedding deal, can ya'll tell? LOL!
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{muah wifeys}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

LanaJo · #**2584** 08-03-2006, 03:07 PM

((((carter)))) to you and your family, I'm praying for ya'lls stregnth. I know all this tough for you, but you hang in there. No PBing, please, I could care less if anyone was listening!!! Hear me moan, and call my man's name, I bet he rocks up by the sound of it!!! LOL!!!!

I love Luda ya'll and I'm so sad he cut his braids, what a shame, but I do to him anyways!!! Love the teef too!!!

Dang why does everyone have ken folk that looks so good, I'm fixing to go to OK, no kiddin, and Piggy, you gonna have to hook me up, J better watch out!!!

So my man has dreads, I love it, they are to his shoulders, real healthy and nicely kept, it makes him look so good, so ethnic, and so freakin freaky.!!

moetbj · #**2585** 08-03-2006, 03:08 PM

LanaJo - i am so sorry! Does he have any $$$$ maybe he don't have stamps......

Csmcgrl23 · #**2586** 08-03-2006, 03:09 PM

(((((((((((Lana))))))))))) I'm so sorry. I know that's why I hate calling up to the prison because if they say he's cool then you aren't worried any longer, you are now pissed off!!! It's like we don't want them in the hole but when they don't call we think they BETTER be in the hole and not just f'ing around not callin'.....sorry you are dealing with this.

ACarter05 · #**2587** 08-03-2006, 03:15 PM

Thanks so much ladies for the love and support. I know that God is in control and that He will not put more on us than he can bear. Thanks again!

What about Larenz Tate altough he is not a rapper, I love that man!!! I think I am going to watch Love Jones tonight when I get in!

ACarter05 · #**2588** 08-03-2006, 03:22 PM

((((((((Lana)))))))) I am so sorry! This is the reason why I do not complain about my issues, because someone could be having a worse time than I. I pray that he has a good fricking explaination for not writing or calling. And I am so with you on the 15 minute visit if he does not call and say something. My prayers are going out for you girl!

MsPiggy · #**2589** 08-03-2006, 03:27 PM

Lana-- Girlie let me try and ease yo mind a lil. Kermie sent me a letter middle of last week before all that trouble went down and I have still yet to get it. We live so close it should have only taken a day to get here. So I think their mail is jacked the buck up right now. Who knows. At least you got a cool CO. Wish I could have talked to him when I called there. I got the witch from hell. So calm down I know its easier said than done but just breath. Well out of those the only one who is legal is Kermie's son he is 20 so you can have the luda look alike. You better come see him in September so we can kick it like old school homies.

AC-- Love Jones is my favorite movie. I love me some Larenz Tate.

Trini'slady · #**2590** 08-03-2006, 03:48 PM

Blair Underwood is my baby !!! Especially when he was in Sex & the City as the doctor for the Knicks !!! What!!!!

Breaking News Breaking News lol
I just got a call from T and asked him about the PBing and why he doesn't. He was like babygirl, I have dudes on either side of me. I don't care if they hear but if things rise, well you know. He was like and I'm a man of action, and I'm not used to talking like that. He was like but I'll call you one night when you get home from work and we'll see what happens. I was like you always change the subject when I try to get it going and he was like baby believe me I want to but you know that's not my style. I was laughing so hard I almost fell off the chair. Then he was like I promise I'll try. lol So it's progress lol.

LanaJo · #**2591** 08-03-2006, 03:52 PM

AWWW you guys, ya'll make me feel so much better. I really super appreciate all the hugs and all the word ups!!!! LOL!!! It makes it much easier to handle. I remember that Piggy!! Or should I say Canadian Bacon, LOL, I still can't get over that, too funny!!! You are still waiting on that letter, maybe he is on restriction from the phone and the mail is jacked up there. I mean he has stamps, I know for sure, and he has money, and even if he didn't I accept collect, I got a $190 phone bill in today to prove that!!! That is why I'm so p.o.'d, I'm like here I am, I got a $190 phone bill, I sent him like $210 last month just so he could come up (ya'll know), and I can't get a hello, go to hell, suck my toes, nothing!!!! OMG, ya'll why are we so crazy over these men? I love him to death for real, that means I'd kill his a$$!!!! Again, thank you so very much for being supportive!! My son's b-day is Sunday too, and he promised he'd send something out, so I'm just gonna wait and see. I'm out for today, but I love you guys and have a super great evening!!!

Csmcgrl23 · #**2592** 08-03-2006, 03:56 PM

Love you too Lana....here's to hoping you have something in the mail when you get home!! Be easy!!!

Trini'slady · #**2593** 08-03-2006, 04:19 PM

Love you too Lana. Have a good night and for the love of god get internet at home. We miss you at night

Trini'slady · #**2594** 08-03-2006, 04:23 PM

You know I was just sitting at my desk writing T a letter adn thought the same thing. We love these men so much. And then sometimes we just want to kick their a$$, but hey that's love for you. And if we didn't love them liek that we wouldn't care.The smallest things make us love them more and more. I know for me when it was raining a minute ago, I thought I would give anything in this world right now to have T here with me all cuddle up watching the rain out the window.

ACarter05 · #**2595** 08-03-2006, 04:28 PM

Hey I am leaving too gang. See ya'll tomorrow! Hope everyone has a good night!!!

MUAAAAAAH!

Trini'slady · #**2596** 08-03-2006, 04:41 PM

Good Night Carter.

Csmcgrl23 · #**2597** 08-03-2006, 04:42 PM

I know Trini...love isn't always so sweet, and you are right, if we didn't care we wouldn't be bothered. I would be worried if I didn't worry about him, I would be worried if I didn't get butterflies in my stomach when I'm gonna see him, I would be worried if he didn't call and I didn't care. That's when I would question my love. I do what I have to do, I don't let his love or my love for him control my life but without it my life would be much less meaningful.

Csmcgrl23 · #**2598** 08-03-2006, 04:50 PM

I'm outta here as well...I will be back online a little later...I love you guys!!!

Moeshaforever99 · #**2599** 08-03-2006, 07:13 PM

Hey girls..wow it's 9pm and no one is here..what is up with that!!

Lana {{{hugs}}} to you girl, I am so sorry that you called and you found out that he is ok..so now your pissed...I am glad though that he is ok..but he best have a damn good reason for not calling cause you are pissssseeedddd!!! And I would be too!!!

Carter..{{hugs}} to you too babygirl..prayers to your family..

Moet..I am so happy for you, it's about time that your getting finanical blessings, we can all use that some times..and good for you on making your wedding dress, you are going to be a very beautiful bride!

Trinis..progression...you better take advantage of this...LOL

Ms Piggy..you seem to be in better spirits..I am so happy for you..

Otra..I am so happy to see you poped in and commented...we miss you!

Stella..where are u..

N: How are u babygirl...

C: how's Nana..pls give her a hug..also have you gotten any letters..?? Also, when me and M have pb'd in the afternoon, they cut off the phone..so they must mot listen during the evening...LOL

Well it figures that I am on and no one is here, I just got home a few hours ago, 3 beautiful letters in the mail from M..they were so beautiful..he told me that he would die without me in his life and that although he may sound sad sometimes on the phone, it's just because he wants to come home so badly...he also told me that sometimes, when he is writing e, he is so filled with joy that he actually has tears in his eyes, and when we talk on the phone, he never wants to let me know that his eyes are filled up with tears...oh man..I love him with all I have..He is the reason for my being!! I swear..I have never loved, trusted or respected a man the way I do for M..This man had given me more respect, love and trust in jail then any other man I have ever been physically romantic with and to think, me and M have never been physical..scary huh...
The ground is going shake when he comes home..I think the sky is going to open up...LOL

Well I hope and pray all of you had letters today, especially my babygirl Lana..oh how I am praying for you girl...

Well, I am going to wait for M to call and sing me to sleep and I will talk to you all tommorow..

I don't see the word of the day today...and Lana had it I believe..so hopefully she will give it to us in the AM...

Love and hugs to all my Wifeys....Shay

Csmcgrl23 · #**2600** 08-03-2006, 09:25 PM

Shay, Nana is good, I just got home from her house. I haven't got a letter all week but I'm not sweating it. I expect one tomorrow or Saturday. I got 3 last week so I'm sure he's thinking that will be ok for a minute but the other night he did say he was gonna put a letter in the mail the next day. Me on the other hand, I've written so many letters this week that he is gonna be flooded with mail. I love the thought, it's not about the letter I get it's about him feeling good getting so much mail from me. I have you guys, e-mail, messenger but all he gets are letters from me. So I'm usually cool for a minute but I do get to the breaking point sometimes.

Tomorrow is Friday ladies...this work week went pretty fast. I have a good feeling that August is going to fly by. It's so funny because people that aren't in our situation cringe when the months fly by, I've had people look at me like I'm nuts when I'm excited that Christmas is only 5 months away!!! LOL. There's this girl at work that crosses the days off her calendar, so today me and my friend Sammie asked her why she crossed off day (I'm thinking in my head I know why I cross the days off, you cross them off because you are counting down to a special day) she told us she crosses them off counting to payday. Then at lunch she mentioned her man, I asked why didn't he go to the picnic she said "he's out of town" yeah I use that one too, he works for the government, yeah right....LOL. So I told Sammie that I really think he man is locked up!! She's got the symptoms...LOL...anyways, no reason for telling that other than to run my fingers over this keyboard. hahahaha....

Nite YA'LL!!