New Club: Club Fed Wifey's

[Moeshaforever99]

Moet: Aughhh girl..what is up with babyboy..he needs to get on the "i understand" page with you, he should have never opened the darn letter in the first place, " return to sender" is what it should have read and sent back, no need to read that crap, oh and the ex, and going on vacation, that is really nice, but KARMA is a beautiful thing, so keep that in mind. Stay strong baby girl, I know you can and stay firm with him, you really need to advise him, he needs to keep you in front, even more so when disrespect comes into play..Who cares if they are jealous, that's just not proper..please tell me I said so..LOL

Has: {{hugs to you}} I am sorry your feeling blue also, I am so not into holidays anymore that yesterday was a normal day, not to mention that I stayed at work extra hours, I said hey, why not..no one is home for me anyway..please know your never alone, we are always here, and I will be pm'ing all of you my home number so when ever you want and need to talk, we all have each other's numbers..like "Sponsors" ok..also, I know you don't want to tell baby boy everything, but communication is a must, so pick your convo's wisely so you can share all you can.

MS Piggy, glad you back, we were all very worried, glad to see your weekend and visits were wonderful Congrats on the baby..your day will come..just keep dreaming

LanaJo: thanks sweetie, actually it does not bother me much about Darryn moving out, I actually love coming home and the house is still clean, the food is still here and I have no extra laundry LOL
I do miss talking to him they way we did, but he has a life and I am praying that all I taught him has been brought to his life and he stays happy and out of any trouble..

Otra..what can I say.."OK.. I AM SO ENVIOUS OF YOU" and I am so happy for you at the same time, I can't even think how I will feel when babyboy comes home to his Shorty..oh what a feeling..you better be taking some homecoming pictures and please don't forget about us when he touches down, we need each other, even when they come back!

Stella: {MAUH} right back at you girlfriend..your my strength!

As for me, it's been a long day, I got home alittle after 10, I only spoke to Maurice once today, and it was nice, but I swear, the more I talk to him, the more I miss him, also the sun came out, so I felt alittle better. This may sound wired, but knowing that all of us are going through the same thing makes me feel better inside, although I may physically be alone, I am not mentally alone as long as I have all of you. And as LanaJo said, you guys are the only people who truly understand and know how I am feeling on a daily basis, there is no-one that I can honestly breakdown and tell things to, I tell everyone at my office and my part-time job that Maurice is in the Middle -East fighting the war, how pathetic huh? I don;t need to hear all the stero-type bullsh$t that comes with loving a man in Club Fed..
All of you are my strength, as I told Stella, and I am so proud to have you as my friends, and I promise to always be here for you..have a wonderful Thursday..
And on a happier note: I AM TAKING TOMORROW OFF!!!!

Love and Hugs to my STRONG CLUB FED WIFEY'S...Shay

[HasNAie]

GoodMorning Fellow Wifeys!!

I hope that everyone feels at least 50% better today....
I have to say I do.. And I didn't even cry.. I was too tired after I came home from work. I was a little annoyed tho when I did reach home and still haven't received a letter... Yes he's called about every other day and twice in each of those days BUT the letters are what keeps me feeling snuggly and comfy as if he just touched me...But...that was yesterday..Today is a New Day and in lieu of this darn rain... I feel better...
His Mom called me at like 6:40 this morning and I thought it was him and as soon as I answered the phone she said ...GoodMorning Love its not "SunShine...It's Mommy..Now get up out of that bed" ..lol...I think because I only Have 2 More days till I get to kiss my Hubby's lips and sneak in a pinch of his booty.. has a lot to do with it...
Oh, I also have free long distance..but I don't have 3 way calling..but then again Im new so who wants to talk to me...lol...
Have a Blessed Day Ladies!!!
I'll be around..You guys keep me sane at work!

[Moeshaforever99]

We want to talk to you, so stop that..I am glad that your having a better day, it's also rainning here but today may be a better day for me as well, you have free long distance, so that is great, We will have to work it out for all and make somewhat of a schedule for a once month chat...I'll keep u posted!

Everyone: have a wonderful day!

Shay

[MsPiggy]

Boy, don't I wish Kermie came home early. I wouldn't be seen or heard from for a month. lol I am glad to be back though. I was definitely missing the support. I may need a lot more of it in the coming months. We are having some money problems and Kermie just found out how much of a problem it is. So his answer is to cut our visits down. WTF???? Yes, I know visiting is expensive and I do see him like 3 to 4 times a week but they help me do this time. I always say those visits aren't for him they are for me. When I seen him on Monday I had such a hard time letting go. I just stood there holding him tight and praying I didn't have to leave him. We went through 3 years and only seeing each other maybe 10 times and I never want to go through that again. I know I am probably overly dramatic because he is only 30 minutes away now compared to being hours away then but still it is my fear. I am trying to stay strong but I have to say without visits I don't know how strong I can be knowing he is so close and not being able to see him. Sorry girls I am still being all emotional. I just needed to vent for a minute. I hope you ladies have a great day.

[LanaJo]

Oh well, ladies I hope all is well, and everyone is having a better day! Shay I'm so glad your getting your day off! You need it big time. Well my man got his letter yesterday too, the one I'm telling him about how him harboring so much anger about me not coming through with the money i promised, remember I did come through with half. That is still $100, and though he couldn't make the "deals" he was intending, it's not like he was starving or out of anything or whatever it is he does. I told him in the letter it made me feel used, like hello I just came from spending $700 visiting you, and then came up off $100 more knowing I ain't super-woman, hello, I can only do so much. Then too I told ya'll how at visits he grabbed my belly, and was clowning like it was funny. I was really hurt. Anyways, I put something about that in the letter too. And too, lately everytime we talk he's like on this 20 lbs. thing, like if you lost 20 more you'd be so fine, your beautiful now, but it would make you feel that much better, blah, blah, blah, let me say I've lost over 30 lbs. over this last year and feeling good.

So last night he calls, just got my letter, and is like I can't believe you felt like that, do you still. I'm like not really, but I do feel as though my pride is wounded, you tell me I'm beautiful, and I'm this and that, then you tell me basically I'm fat, and you get mad over $100, when I just spent my vacation time and my money on coming to see you. He's like I understand all that, but I had business and you made it impossible for me to do it after you said you would, you've never let me down before, blah, so one....... So then I'm like look booby, you really have me thinking negatively, you know you see my love for you everyday, when there is money on your books, and you don't have long to wait for a visit, and I"m answering the phone everytime you call, I'm keeping my stuff together, getting cute, working out, keeping my panties to myself, keeping my time to myself, you know doing what I need to, getting my kids excited for your arrival, all that, and here you are criticizing me. Then we got beeps. He called later, and was still talking to me about this 20 lbs. I weigh 160 and 5'5, I would like to loose a little more to get rid of my belly, but damn I got two kids, and I got fat before, let me live, and do it on my own terms, I have been with the other 30 lbs. By this time I'm extremely hurt, and I ask him, well what is it, would you leave me if I didn't loose the 20 lbs. He turns silent. I'm tripping, he says why would you ask me that, I say answer the damn question, he says what kind of question is that, I say answer it damn it. He says " Nah, I wouldn't just leave you but it could cause problems in our relationship". Oh my god ladies, I'm so hurt, so disrespected. I really confirm my feelings of being used of being hurt, you know, I really felt like he was trying to break me down, like make me feel insecure about myself so that he can do whatever or act however. How fair is that, when I have a hundred letters telling me he loves me for me, and he's gonna do this that and the other, make me always feel wanted and beautiful blah, blah, blah. Now maybe I'm going to far into it, but my last relationship was so abusive, I was always fat or ugly or stupid or nasty or a hoe or something out the way when my ex was using. I just felt helpless all over again in two seconds. To me that means it's a problem for him right now with the way I look, that means it's gonna be a problem for me later on, cause he's gonna use that as an excuse to be rude or go cheat or who knows what. I feel like he's taking me for a big loop, and what do I do. I cried until I fell asleep, conversating with myself over what to do. I refuse to be made to feel beneath anyone. Why would he do this or say such an ugly thing?

[CalienteStella]

Morning to all you sweet ladies!

First, I am proud of you ALL for hanging in there when it would be SOOOO much easier at times to just walk away! BIG HUGS TO EACH OF YOU!

Today is a new day and while I too am still feeling a little (ok alot) on the blue side I have decided that instead of dwelling on the things to be further sad about that I will INSTEAD be happy about the awesome things that I DO have. ALL OF YOU!

I woke up this am in much of the same state as the last few days and stumbled to work, to the computer and found YOU all! I read all your posts, received a PM from a wonderful person and found the love and support that I seem to be searching from those that just dont seem to have a clue. I wish that I could be at each of your doorsteps each and every morning to give you an encouraging word, a hug, an ear to bend or whatever you may be needing, but I cant (Im only one person-geeeze..... ) but I will make an effort to do that via this computer (thank goodness for technology huh?).

If ANY of you should need me, FOR WHATEVER BIG AND SMALL you know where to find me. Look for me and I will be there. Just in case if you can't reach me here my email is [email removed per pto rules and policies, please pm send me an email there and I will get back to ya ASAP. Also, I am more then game for the 3 way phone calls. Lets stop talking, and GET IT STARTED!

Hang in there my sunshines, brighter days are ahead!

[justteresa2006]

Ok, looks like I figured out how to get in here! My man is in FCI Gilmer. Glad to meet everyone.

[Moeshaforever99]

LanaJo: Ok, {{hugs to u}}..first and foremost,he is not allowed to demean you, put you down nor criticize you in any way shape or form, he should love you wither you are 100 pounds or 500 pounds, what he is doing is called "CONTROL" and I am not liking this at all! My ex was exactly the same way, always criticizing me on my weight, saying the exact same thing, "if only you lose some weight your feel better"..Hello..who said I did not feel better, I never said I did'nt..you said it! So if your feeling good inside of YOU and it's about YOU not him, then you stay the way you are, He should never say if you don't lose the weight they may be a problem, oh really?? AGHHHH..I am so mad right now for you, I lived it and that is why he is called my EX now, gone, forgotten and never t be heard from again, so babygirl, please for me, you need to communicate with him, either by telephone, face to face or writing a letter that this is not fair, this will not be tolerated and You have control of your own life, he has no control at all, you love him for who he is, for what he is and where he is, and if that is not enough love to be shown, then You will take control of your life and make a decision based on YOUR decisions, not his.

When you love someone, you don't put restrictions on that person, you don't make them feel less worthly of yourself, you don't put them down, make them feel worthless..

LanaJo, you are a very STRONG, WONDERFUL,BEAUTIFUL WOMEN who is dealing with a man who is incarcerated, 2 children, a home and work, and your holding it down ALONE! I want you to take sometime and look at all the positive things you have around you, look into your heart and hug yourself, you have acomplished all around you BY YOURSELF, and you are being commented by US..the CLUB FED WIFEY"S on a JOB WELL DONE!

We love you LanaJO and you will make it through this challenge with him, you need to stand tall, be stern when speaking about your inner feelings, and ask him, WHY DO YOU LOVE ME?

I hope your day gets better and if you need me, just PM ME and I will be more than happy to listen all day..

Hugs and Love to you..Shay

[Moeshaforever99]

Welcome : JustTeresa Club Fed Wifey #16

I am so happy for decided to join, please read all the post, get familiar with all of the beautiful strong women here and welcome to our family!

[Trini'slady]

Good Morning Ladies,
I hope everyone is doing better today. I on the other hand had a better day yesterday during the day. But then when I picked up my daughter and got home and relaized there was no mail I began to get down. I'm sure ya'll can relate. It's like you don't want to do anything, but you have to. I made my daughter her dinner, gave her a bath and then just sat on the couch and pulled out my scrapbooks filled with his letters and cards. Thinking that may help me through the rest of the night. Well, I was wrong, it got to the point that 1/2 way through the second book, I had to put it down. I couldn't read anymore. So after crying I was a little exhausted and decided to go to bed, thinking that would make me feel better in the morning. So I woke up earlier than normal and just rolled out of bed. I didn't want to do anything, get dressed , take a shower do the make up thing. I walked around like a zombie. I normally call my dad every morning and I knew if I didn't he would start to worry. So I called him, but didn't even want to talk so the conv. lasted about 5 mins. On my way to bring my daughter to pre school and work I played Jaheim's Just in case about 10 times. I think today has the biggest effect on me and I should just throw myself into my work to take my mind off of it. So we'll see what the day brings. I just needed to vent right now. Thank you all for listening.

[MsPiggy]

Sorry you guys are having bad days. I am there with you. I really think it has something to do with the holiday. It seems that things are always rougher on holidays. I think its cause that is the time everyone gets together and we realize how much we really miss our men. I know for me now its tough cause of the holiday and my sister having the baby and all. But I looked at my ticker today and got so happy. Time really is flying by. I know I shouldn't but I am getting off early tomorrow so I am gonna go visit tomorrow. That way we can talk about a budget and about this whole scaling down of visits. Would it be wrong of me to throw a huge fit and act like a baby if he still wants to cut the visits down. I know its for our own good but I need my man. Any advice would help.

[Moeshaforever99]

Trini's: {hugs to u}..I did not get any mail today, Thursday is the big mail day I usually get 4, but due to no mail Tuesday, we will have a one day hold back, so please look forward to the mail either today or tomorrow girlfriend..Please try and give yourself a hug and things will get better, hey today is just another day that will bring us all closer to our babyboys..

Lova Ya Shay

[Moeshaforever99]

Ms Piggy..ok first have a great visit, and try and compromise on the visiting schedule, trying cutting back one day a week maybe, I know if Maurice was 30 minutes away, I would be doing exactly what your doing, so look into this in a number fraction, what is the savings, gas money, etc...take it one step at a time, is there other ways that you can cut you cost other than cutting back onthe visits, do you spend money at the visit for food, can you cut down on that? Give us some insight where and how it cost when visiting and we can go from there...

Hugs SHay

[MsPiggy]

Sure no problem. When I go by myself then it is so much cheaper cause we usually only get something to drink and some candy or chips I would say we dont spend over $3.00. When I take his kids that is a whole other story. Neither the kids or their mom's feed them before I take them so I try to keep cost down by feeding them before we go and then when we get there of course they want to go on a shopping with the vending machines. I swear his kids are bottomless pits. I could have just fed them and they still want more. I think its more about seeing what they can get then actually being hungry. Anyway so I spend money on pop, chips and candy there. Since we stay for so long then they are hungry by time we leave and I have to feed them again. I try cutting down on how much I spend but it never seems to work. My man always tells me if I dont have money to feed them then why am I bringing them. Its a no win situation with that one. I am trying to cut costs on outside spending too by eating at home more and taking my lunch. We all know gas is so expensive these days. Another lady and I talked about carpooling or better yet her man asked if I would carpool with her. Which I would love to do but she didn't seem to interested in it. Not too sure how she feels about riding in my car since it doesn't have a/c but I am trying ya know. I only wish I could find a 2nd job compatible with the 1st jobs hours. Time is really short as you can see and I need to be on the ball but seems like everytime I try something comes up and wipes it all out.

[kwimberly]

i would love to be apart of the fed club. my love is in the fci in big spring,tx.

[Moeshaforever99]

Kwimberly: Club Fed Wifey #17

Welcome to our club, I am so happy you have decided to join, please introduce yourself, and you loved one and share your life with us..we are all here for each other!

Hugs Shay

[Moeshaforever99]

Ms Piggy: ok..first, they mamma's need to be told that it would be so helpful if they could feed the kiddies before they depart to see their daddy, do u talk to the mama's? if so, try and explain that it's very hard on you to do this on a continued basis. Also..what did babyboy mean when he said, of you can't afford to feed them, then don't take them..Hello your doing this for him right..he's may need a reality check LOL
try and continue to talk to the women to carpool, you don't have A/C, so what you do have windows..Hello it's all about the fun in talking to going to the same place...stay focused and talk about it with him..
Hugs Shay

[MsPiggy]

Thanks for the advice. I plan on having a long talk with him on friday when I go up there. Surely something will come to play when we put our heads together.

[HasNAie]

Lana..First let me tell you this.. You are Beautiful!!! God's Gift!! I know we have never met and never even had a one on one conversation yet..but you know how I know you are all of that and then some?? Because you are sacrificing yourself, your time, your love and a bunch of other things because you are standing by this man...
Your being his confidant(sc), his best friend, his woman and his provider...So he should think of you as SuperWoman...There are not too many woman who stay in a situation like this...Granted there are alot of women here on PTO but this isnt half of the women in the universe and he should be grateful....Your weight SHOULD NOT be a factor for him UNLESS your health was in danger...That should not be a basis of whether he is going to stay with you or not...I can't believe he said that!!!
He is not realizing that there are other things you "could" be doing but you'd "rather" be here... there.. with and for him....
And as for the money...You do what you can do... You are taking care of you and your children and that is your NUMBER1 priority.....I never tell Has when I am sending him money because I don't know until everything is clear exactly how much is free... I am also a single mother..This he knows and not ONCE has he asked me for money since hes been in....He appreciates my letters cards poems or whatever creative stuff I decide to do....
I was in an abusive relationship with my ex as well and I know what its like to feel ugly, or not good enough....It took a while to gt back to ME...But I am here...Don't let it happen to you again...You let him know you are standing by him because you love him...not because you have to....And in standing by him you will not stand for him degrading or disrespecting you...
I hope I didnt step on any toes but this is just how I feel in the matter...You deserve to be treated better than that..and I am pretty sure every one here agrees with that....
(((((((((((((((((((((((LanaJo))))))))))))))))))))) )))
Pray on it Lana...it helps!!

[Moeshaforever99]

MS Piggy, I am sure you will work everything out and I am sure when all the others get on tonight, they will have more advice for you..My gas is outrageous, I have a Ford Excursion and it takes $135 to fill the beast!!

Hugs Shay

[Csmcgrl23]

Holy crap, I posted yesterday morning, come back today and there's 2 pages of posts to catch up on. If I leave anyone out I'm sorry, I'll try my best to get everyone in.

Shay, 600 minutes!!!! That's great, they just did work on the phones at my mans facility and they didn't give them a new 300, or maybe they did and then they put him in the hole. Good for you though, this is a perfect time for you to hae those extra minutes.

Stella, thanks for the inspiring words. Yes we are all in this together, we are a rare breed.

LanaJo, I'm so sorry you are going thru this. I'm guessing that your man has never had a weight issue. In my past experience the men I've been in relationships with that had issues with my weight were men that had never had an ounce of fat on them and they just can't understand. Not everyone is meant to be a stick. I have curves and I love them!!! Also in past experiences the ones that critisized my weight, well those were the most destructive relationships to my self esteem. Once it comes out you are always thinking that they think you are not good enough even though the person inside is the same person that is giving all their love to the person that is being critical of them. You're accepting that he is a convicted felon which alot of society won't accept him but here he is judging you because you have a belly? 160lbs at 5'5" is not obese, it's just a little fluff and some of us women are just meant to be fluffing, it's NOT natural to be a stick figure. I hope you can get him to understand but I've never gotten one that was critical to understand and they are no longer in the picture, go be skinny with someone else.

Moet, glad you sent the letter, he deserves to know how you feel. Sometimes I just think they think we appreciate the honesty that comes out of them but they don't realize that sometimes we don't need to hear it no matter how honest it is, like thanks for being honest but what you said hurt my feelings. I just went thru something like this with my man, told him to always be honest so he was, well he always was but on one issue he was holding back as to not hurt me but I came back with the "I want to know so tell me no matter what" and turns out I'd rather not hear it, LOL.

MsPiggy, I understand the expense of visiting. Gas is outrageous and I use a whole tank to visit and have to fill right back up when I get back just to make it to work for the rest of the week. Try to compremise on a visit schedule. And if the kids Mom can't give them money for food for the day then just don't take them. I know you are doing it for him but if he said not to do something that's out of your means then don't do it. When I visit I want to use the whole $20 I'm allowed to take inside, I love to watch him eat, LOL, so I'm always getting up to get him something, I want him to leave visits happy and full. Does your man get unlimited visiting every month? I know where my man is at they are on a point system I can't remember how many visits I figured he could have but I know someone couldn't see him that many times a week for the whole month and now the BOP is changing it again where he is at. They are taking away the Thursday and Friday visiting so you can only Sat-Mon and the inmates only have 8 visiting points, 2 points for a Sat or Sun and 1 point for the Mon.

ok, who else......

Trini, I have had mail in 2 weeks exactly today!! I forgive him cause he was in the hole but I thought I'd have one by now, maybe today. I used to go back and read old letters and cards but it's just too much for me at this point, it makes me more emotional so I just put the letters and cards in a box as I get them and I leave them there. I figure that I'll go thru them all once he's been home for at least a year. Don't forget holidays always screw up the mail!!!

3 way calling????? I don't have long distance on my home phone, I don't even think I have 3-way. I might be the only one that thinks it would be confusing, I mean I'm getting confused in here as it is, keeping everyone and their problem straight, LOL.....I'd most likely just sit there listening trying to figure out who's voice I was hearing when. Has nothing come about on a Fed Chat night? A Fed Wifey chat night?

Oh, thanks for sharing the ion stories....now I'm even more scared. LOL. I have done all of the above, the wipes, no lotion, no perfume, clean clothes, take my own pen, I mean I have copies of the form and fill those out before I go in and take my own pen to write in the book, I wipe my license, the clear bag with quarters, I don't touch paper money the day of, I get gas the night before, I am so extra cautious. I have watched them and the first time even told the LT that they didn't follow proecedure but then that's questioning them and that just makes them angrier and they threatened my man when I told them I was gonna take it to a higher level. Shay I'm surprised they let you even go to the bathroom inbetween the first and second test. The first time I was sent away it's cause I tested positive for herion, we are supposed to know but I looked at the machine, the second time I was in tears so I didn't care, what does it matter, I just left. I don't use drugs, I don't even drink, so it's hard to understand when I take all the precautions and then I test positive, especially when the person before me tested negative. It's like they turn a knob when they see me just so I can't get in. The CO actually said sorry that day, I wanted to kick him in the nuts.

I'm terrified, I'm already having dreams about it and I always wake up when I'm being sent away. I know my man is gonna tell me not to worry about it, that everything will be fine but that's what I did last time, I went up there thinking everything was gonna be ok and it wasn't. I'm just all over the place with it. You would think that after not seeing him for 6 months that I'd be dying to go up there but I'm just not. If I could see him without all the extra mess you wouldn't be able to keep me away, it sucks to sit here thinking that I could actually make it 9 more months without seeing him. BUT he wants me to go, he said I better go.....so I'm just gonna feel more sick every day until I'm actually sitting there next to him in the visiting room...If I get in.

OTRA....4 DAYS...4 DAYS...4 DAYS...4 DAYS...Are you feelin' it yet? Got yourself a new outfit, that's right hot Mama!!! I'm just as excited for him as I am for you! Knowing that your time has come just helps me keep going, day by day until our day gets here too. I'll come into chat for sure tonight...make you ladies laugh with my picture tales...don't have them yet cause I'm about to pose when I get home...LOL...make your last days in chat fun...

Welcome to all the new Fed Wifey's so glad to have you and you know we'll be here to help. I need to post like 5 times a day to keep up with all the support that comes my way, I need to give back....waiting more than a day makes it hard to keep up with everyone LOL.

Well I have to get back to work....Love you all. Smiles!!!

[TeacherInVA]

I guess if Kim's 17 that would make me 18 Shay?

Hello all, I am brand new to this. My sweetie will self surrender to FCI Schuylkill in 2 weeks.

[MsPiggy]

Sorry it is taking me so long to post a response but I couldn't stop laughing asking the baby mommas's to actually be a mom and feed their kids yeah right. Where do I get off asking them to feed their kids like they don't do enough already. lol lol lol Sarcasm I know but that is what it feels like. Those women want to make it hard as possible for anyone involved with my man. They are all very bitter and angry. Yes, I know he wasn't good to them but why make your own kids suffer. That is how vindictive and evil they are. I don't think my man truly understands how expensive things are. It has been 11 years since he has been on the streets. I don't mind feeding my man. I want to know that he at least gets to eat semi-decent food every once in awhile. I wouldnt mind feeding the kids either if they werent bottomless pits and want everything in sight. It's frustrating because I do it all by myself and don't get help. Regardless of what everyone thinks I don't make that good of money and I am not an ATM. I was hoping gas would go down after the holiday but looks like it won't. That is another reason visits are so expensive cause I have to go all around town picking up kids and then I have to take them home. Lawd, why did I have to find the man that had a million kids with so many different women. Ughhhhhhh!!!!!! My man get 32 visiting points a month and each point is one hour. I usually squeeze in about 12 visits a month depending on how well I use those points. This month probably wont be like that since there are 5 weekends in the month. The more I think about this the more mad I get. I feel I deserve my visits.

[Moeshaforever99]

Welcome TeacherinVA: Club Fed Wifey #18

Welcome to our family and I believe we have a member with a sweetie is Schuyllkill..please get familiar with all the post and our wonderful family, and please introduce your story to us all, we are so happy to help everyone..we all need it..especially me LOL

Hugs Shay

[Moeshaforever99]

OK, problem solved Ms Piggy... Work out a schedule with your man, once a month all the children will come, and their mama's will bring them to you at a designation spot, if they don't want to agree to that, then guess what, mama's will need to figure out who is going to take them to visit their daddy, someone has to give more than you, and why should you accommodate his ex's..I hope I am not stepping on feathers on this one, but darn it, can you get a break..talk to him about this, tell him, The money tree ran out of branches and I need to see you and WE need to come to some compromise...try this and let us know..I am getting fustrated for ya..I hate baby mama drama..thank the lord I don't have it !!
Been there and done that with the ex..and we all know he's been gone to never be seen or heard from again..my prayers do work sometimes..LOL

Hugs Shay