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Old 11-01-2006, 09:37 PM
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have you guys ever thought about the very last thing you and your boyfriend/husband did together right before he got locked up?......... i always think about the last thing me and my boyfriend did right before he got locked back up, i dream about it just about every single night, kinda gets depressing at times, cuz it makes me want him to be home more then anything, i miss hearing his voice and his laugh alot, my boyfriend has only been in prison for 24 months, and has 33 months left if he has to discharge, but it feels like a lifetime without him
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Old 11-01-2006, 09:44 PM
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i cooked him a good meal and he kissed me and told me it was wonderful and he loved me then while i was finishing my meal he left and i got a call 20 minutes later saying he was arrested and i was to come and get the car.
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Old 11-01-2006, 09:46 PM
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Old 11-01-2006, 09:53 PM
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The last thing that my husband and I did together.....was coming home from the doctor, to find out we were having another baby boy. That was almost 7 years ago next week.~~~Brandi
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Old 11-01-2006, 10:03 PM
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Good question We moved into a new apartment and worked on unpacking. Went to bed, went to work, got home and during the day he got locked up. Thinking back to that time we shared in that apartment....PRICELESS!!!
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Old 11-01-2006, 10:12 PM
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Ummm...well we went to bed and I started crying b/c I didn't know why he didn't want do it one last time knowing this could be our last chance for a long time so we got in an argument...then we finally did it...lol. I'm glad we did though b/c it's been over a year now. When we woke up in the morning I barely wanted to kiss him b/c he had had an allergic reaction to some medicine he had been taking and his lip was all swelled up (and his forehead and he had hives all over him...it was awful!). I thought his tongue was gonna swell up and he was gonna die when he left to go to court. I went to school and come home and he was gone. That's how I knew he wasn't coming back for a long time.
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Old 11-01-2006, 11:01 PM
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i was making some good lasangna & this guy goes to the front door & scared the hell out me cause i hear him saying"yo wat the f--k."the cops were arresting him as he walk to lock up my car. i did not get to feed him his lasgngana....gottat wait almost one year...
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Old 11-02-2006, 05:53 AM
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the last thing me and boyfriend did our last night together was talk, we had broken up a few months before hand, and he wanted to work things out so he called me up and i went and got him and went and had a long talk about everything that we had been going through, and since we have known eachother since we were kids sometimes its easy for us to fight and then try and forget everything that had happend, so then after that we talked about getting back together and i told him i would think about it and let him know when he came back from deer hunting with his dad, and then i took him home and we told eachother that we loved eachother and then he never came back, the cops arrested him the next night for a warrant because he violated his parole by not going to see his po, so i went and seen him in county with his parents,we got back together and have been since 2004, and still waiting to find out on when he is coming home, he see's the board again in 2007 so thats when we will know he discharges in 2009 so its sometime between 2007 and 2009
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well the last time i was with my baby, we talked and watch tv just cuddling together.. we went to bed that night and the next morning got a phoen call to go see his po and when we got there, they took him back and some woman came out and tols me that they were taking him to jail.. so that was my last time to see him... cant wait to see him in 12 days he will be home for good hopefully..
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Old 11-02-2006, 07:14 AM
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Saw II had just come out, so we did our usual movie routine, and made our spot on the floor...the comforter off the bed, pillows, blankets, popcorn, and pop. Gosh we loved our movie nights! Anyway...everything was normal until we went to bed. He looked at me with the look I've seen before...the look telling me I won't see him again for a while. He went in and kissed our daughter, and we went to bed. The next morning, I woke up and he was gone...he knew what he was going to do...and he's now serving 12 years.
We're not "together", as I'm moving on with my life; but I thought I'd share anyway I think about that night often.
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Old 11-02-2006, 09:29 AM
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We got our freak so seriously on that he still talks about it and teases me about things that I said during that episode. As recent as our last visit, he brought it up AGAIN. He always brings up the last thing we did -- which was in 2002. Guess he can't get it out his mind, and, by talking about it all the time, I guess he wants to make sure it stays on mine!!
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Old 11-02-2006, 10:57 AM
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Yeah...we woke up pretty late from being out partying the night before.But we woke up making love as we always did ! I showered,made us something to eat.We ate then laid on the sofa me between his legs watching "Remember the Titans" and he was playing with my hair.When we got a knock at the door.And that was it.I miss him so much!
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Old 11-02-2006, 11:01 AM
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We weren't together when he went in but the last time we saw each other was for our son's birthday weekend in January. We did alot of fighting that weekend and no sex (and we ALWAYS have sex) because my "friend was visiting". Gosh that drove me nuts. Anyway, seeing him revel in his son was wonderful, and we were a family (even with the fighting) that weekend. After that he had to go back to west texas and I stayed in Houston. Hurricane Katrina split us up. I think if he would've just moved to Houston, he'd not be in prison now. That makes me sad.
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Old 11-02-2006, 12:30 PM
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Me and him did our usual Sci-Fi Friday(he loves that crap), got our freak on and went to sleep. The next morning he went to the store to get some food to make me breakfast and he never came home. The feds snatched my baby up. I miss him so much and now I thank God for Sci-Fi Friday because if that hadn't been on he'd probally been out with the guys and we wouldn't have had that one last night.
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Old 11-02-2006, 03:19 PM
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The last thing we did together was depressing. He was in the hospital because he had been shot. He was about to be discharged and the hospital called the pd and told them and we knew they were coming, so I called in the hospital bed with him and he just held me till they got there and took him away. At least I had that little time to lay with him. I wish we could of made love but, he wasn't fully recovered so he wasn't working quite right yet!
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Old 11-02-2006, 03:33 PM
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we didnt know he was going to prison. the night before we went fishing, came home i made him a nice meall and we made love for hours.. the next day we had to go to court over something totally different. well they called him back to a room and our whole family was like whats going on? and then when court went to recess we found out he was being sent to indiana for violation of probation.
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I flew 1000 miles with him and drove for 1 hour to take him to prison. The last thing we did was cry together in the parking lot. Then I flew home alone.
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Old 11-02-2006, 09:53 PM
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Well he was gonna turn himself in to make this supposedly easier instead of cops surrounding the house over this stupid shit. I wanted to get it over with. So for about the last wk, we went out to eat a lot and sat by the lake. We would just sit in the car and talk. I remember bawling everywhere. He made a video for our (at the time) unborn son....I could not stop crying. It was so hard to drive him to the police station to turn himself in, but the cops always came and harassed us...
I need him back, I miss him too much and our baby needs him too :-(
I'm so depressed and lonely......
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Old 11-02-2006, 10:03 PM
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Wow... it was a long time ago. We werent together at the time. I went to one of his friends house with his sister, some girl he was with at the time (it was many girls at that time, but one of them was there lol) and some other people. He ended up getting in a fight with thier next door neighbor so we had to hurry up and leave. But on the way there he was in the passenger seat and I was driving he told me "when I get my shit together one day your gonna be with me" I guess he was right
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well we didnt know he was gonna be lock up that day he keep going back n forth every month to court so we thought this time he will be back home for a next month court date but it wasnt like that. the day before he went to court he spend the hall day with me i went to wash clothes he help me lol first n last time he help me lol.then we came to my house we just watch tv n talk cuddle eachether till almost midnite then he went home n next morning he went to court but didnt come out his dad called me n told me i went crazyyy cause that was my b-day so u could imagine that my b-day hasnt been a happy b-day at all but hopefully next week on my b-day he should be home.
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Old 11-03-2006, 02:48 AM
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I also think about the last thing my fiancee and I did before he was gone off to prison. I was working when he got locked up. I went home for my lunch break and woke him up and gave him a hug and kiss then went back to work. Three hours later he was gone. He has been in for 6 months with 10 more to go. I cant wait for to come home so we can make up for lost time.
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Old 11-03-2006, 07:40 AM
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We fought - yelling, screaming, pushing.
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Old 11-03-2006, 09:14 AM
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We spent the day before laying together, talking, and made love. He told me we'd make sure we did again before we went to sleep. Well the night before we went out to dinner to a place he really wanted to go to. We even took his daughter along because even though I'm not her mother she might as well be my daughter. After we dropped his daughter off at home we went and hung out with our friend whom was like a sister to both of us. We ended up taking him to the hospital because he wasn't feeling so well and by the time we left it was 2 am. He had to be in court for sentencing at 8 am. So we didn't think we'd have time to make love again because we both needed some sleep. We fell asleep around 4 am. Woke up at 6:30 am, made love, and then both got ready for his court date. His ex wife even went with us. We went outside because it was taking a long time and he wanted a ciggy. He told me he still wanted to marry me and that he hoped I would stay by his side. He got sentenced and I watched them take him away, he looked back at me one last time and of course, I was bawling my eyes out. We talk about getting married all the time, and I love him with all my heart and know we belong together. I will never forget the last time we made love, because we were both half asleep, but the passion was still there.
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Old 11-05-2006, 12:26 PM
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the last thing we did was the laundry together, it was the day b4 i was leaving to go away to college....we had sex wit candles 4 da first time and eveything jus felt so perfect...ihe took me to the bus station and two days later he got locked up...i was so upset cuz he had called me that day but i couldnt spek cuz i was at orientation n i said i'll call u back but when i did he had got locked up already.. i miss him so much :love:
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the last thing me and my baby did together was he walked me home kissed me and said he'd see me in the morning i never got to see him there were cops at his door at 8 am with a warrant for his arrest
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