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hopeful64 · #**476** 11-11-2008, 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bernadette

no matter what or how heated the convercation is we never hang up anger,upset or without saying I LOVE YOU

This was true for us last night. Kisses were cut off however we did end with I love you love you too sweetie. Ahh til Thursday

**wizewifey** · #**477** 11-11-2008, 04:12 PM

We always say I love you at least at the end of our conversation and if for some reason one of us doesn't say it he will call back just to say that because tomorrow isn't guaranteed!!

72and2forever · #**478** 11-11-2008, 04:56 PM

I love you is the last thing we say to each other. We just have a rule. Even if we are mad at each other we say it because we both believe that you should never end a conversation without saying I love you because you never know what can happen in between phone calls or even between the next time we see each other.

Sunflower · #**479** 11-11-2008, 06:00 PM

We say it about 10 times in the beginning and the end! I always fall asleep remembering him saying " I love you sweetness"

JrBLaM · #**480** 11-11-2008, 07:22 PM

We always say it during our conversations and at the end. We know how important it is to hear those words and express the love we have for each other. My man loves it when I say it out of no where during our conversations... it's like sometimes we just know if the other person needs to hear it more than once or twice. It's a feeling.... but anyways, yes we ALWAYS say it!

bbraz · #**481** 11-11-2008, 09:44 PM

We say it a few times throughout the converstion... we say "I love you" or "I miss you".
But before we hang up, I am usually the one to say I love you first. So... I'll say "I love you baby" then he'll say "I love you too" the I'll ask, "A LOT?" and he'll say "A LOT, A LOT, A LOT" then we'll say by and hang up...
we've done it for a while... even before he was in... so we've kept the tradition the past few months he's been in county... but a little over a month til he is actually home

shorty769 · #**482** 11-11-2008, 09:54 PM

Yes we say I love you at the begining, middle, and the en of every phone call!!! As soon as we hear " YOU HAVE 1 MIN. LEFT" we say our I love you's that way we never miss saying it!!!!!!!!!

MikesWifey · #**483** 11-11-2008, 09:59 PM

Yes we always say it as long as we dont get cut off before were finished our conversation.....since we get disconnected alot....ive started to tell him the moment we get on the phone just in case and throughout the conversation we tell each other too...but when the phone doesnt cut us off we say it a couple times to each other and blow kisses before we get off the phone. I just love when he says " I LOVE YOU BEAUTIFUL" and blows me a kiss that melts me inside and out

i love my man so much

Vanessa G. · #**484** 11-13-2008, 01:09 AM

We use to always say it after every phone call even if he was going to call right back. Then one day he asks me "why do we have to tell eachother we love eachother every single time we talk, i feel like it's not going to be meaningful if we say it too much." Thats the stupidist thing i ever heard. I say it because god forbid anything happen to him in there and i would feel like total crap to know i didnt even get to tell him how much i loved him. Not only that i love the man and if i want to say it every time we talk i will. Men are nuts thats why they need women to get their heads right.

mrssunnyb · #**485** 11-13-2008, 08:56 AM

Some people might say that we say it too much, but we dont pay attention to them.:d

miSSiNmYdUStiN · #**486** 11-13-2008, 11:35 AM

of course! its automatic. hes famous for interrupting my talking to tell me "i love you, baby!". that gets me all the time. all smiles from ear to ear. hes the best! i constantly remind him througout the whole phone call down to that stinkin lady comes on that i love him too. i want him to know & never forget that im waiting for him and that i aint going anywhere. its been 16 years and our love is stronger than ever!

jenntrav · #**487** 11-13-2008, 03:09 PM

OH YES, and if I dont tell him, he is calling me right back!! Sometimes I let the lady hang up on us just so he will call me right back!!

MKGS561 · #**488** 11-13-2008, 09:39 PM

I could never get sick of hearing him say it. We say it a lot, probably a lot more than the average couple but everytime I hear it my heart melts all over again. I love my hubby!!!!!!!!!

ritaron · #**489** 11-13-2008, 09:58 PM

when he was in county we did he can't make calls yet but I can't wait till he can cause I'm dying to hear his voice and tell him like a million times how much I love him And how much i miss him

jcarrillo57 · #**490** 11-14-2008, 11:13 PM

It never fails. We always say I Love You before we hang up.

sweetcheeks66 · #**491** 11-14-2008, 11:32 PM

My boyfriend and I always stop to say " I love You" Even before the 60 seconds left, prompt comes on.

LadyKisses · #**492** 11-15-2008, 12:42 AM

deffinatly got to hear it at the beinging at the middle and throw some in thier and deffinatly at the end..none of this goodbye it is I love you baby..Always missing u and awaiting ure call and be good ..dont want to make me slap that butt...and he giggles and then says baby I love you so much tattie loves u and miss u and then i say it and then he again and usally click cutts us off... so deffinatly got to have tha at the end!!!! Would do the same thing if we were togather... I love you I love you!!!! Goodnight I love you..hahah we'd never get to sleep!!!

Armygirl8287 · #**493** 11-15-2008, 05:33 PM

He wont hang up the phone until he says it about 5 times! well damn.. he says it non stop through out the phone call! I love that man.. he cant go to sleep at night unless he calls to say goodnight and hear tell him I love him.

lost in texas · #**494** 12-26-2008, 11:44 PM

yes!!!!

and i'm damn glad i did.. my husband died after being gone 64 days,,, he was 26. just say it!!

PTO-92958 · #**495** 12-26-2008, 11:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vanessa G.

it's not going to be meaningful if we say it too much." Thats the stupidist thing i ever heard. I say it because god forbid anything happen to him in there and i would feel like total crap to know i didnt even get to tell him how much i loved him.

I agree with you completely!
He usually says it first, but not because I'm holding out...we just both feel it so deep...it doesn't really matter who says it first. Either at the beginning or the close of the call, all that matters is that we do ...and we say so.

~lost in texas~
I'm so sorry you lost your loved one so young.

That is the reason we never want to go to bed upset, hang up the phone without an "I love you"...never leave your loved one with sentiments left unsaid.
We are not promised tomorrow...even with a release date...

Greek_Koukla · #**496** 12-27-2008, 12:36 AM

Lost in TX - my heart goes out to you.

Joseph & I always say I love you at the beginning because we usually talk all the way up to the last second....milisecond...nanosecond!

Miss Superwoman · #**497** 12-27-2008, 01:09 AM

Yes we say it even if we beefing or whatever because tomorrow is never promised and we always want the last words to those because not matter what through it all we love each other.

blueyed · #**498** 12-27-2008, 02:54 AM

Yes we say it all the time, he will call me just to tell me he loves me

JORGESBABYGiRL · #**499** 12-27-2008, 06:45 AM

Yup i have to say i love you before it hangs up & as soon as i answer, bc with gtl its gotta mind of its own hanging up when you & your honey are having the best conversation & then it clicks ahh! But most def. I cant say goodbye im not sure why its just the phrase makes me think hes gone so instead i love you

IMissTom · #**500** 12-27-2008, 08:16 AM

Yeah i think we say it about 3 times at the end of the call lol.