Urgent...Need help and advice ASAP!!!!!

[mike's angel]

Well his case manager is out, he said she's never there and when he asks her something she never responds. I'll find out, I've got a ways to go anyway. Thanks for your help.

[irshnrse]

He can ask the Chaplain as well.

[mike's angel]

Oh, okay, I'll have him do that. Thank you!!!!!!

[seansbabyluv]

Here's info from Colorado and no Colorado no longer requires blood tests -




State of Colorado
A marriage license may be issued in any county and used in any county in the State of Colorado. However, the license must be used within 30 days from the date of issue. The license is issued the day it is applied for and may be used immediately.

Fee for a marriage license is $10. Cash Only. No Credit Cards or Checks Accepted.

Age Requirements: The legal age without parental consent is 18 years of age. Ages 16 and 17 require parental consent from both parents. If one parent is sole custodian of the minor; a divorce decree stating custody rights or a death certificate must be presented at the time of applying for the license. If one or both of the parents cannot appear at the time of applying for the license, an absentee application may be completed and notarized ahead of time. This is to be presented when the marriage license is issued. If these do not apply, judicial approval is then required. Applicants 15 years of age or younger, must obtain a court order granting judicial approval as well as complying with the above requirements. The court order must be obtained in the county where judicial approval has been granted.

Identification: Acceptable forms for proof of age are as follows: Drivers License, Passport, Visa, Birth Certificate, Military ID, or state issued ID Card.

Social Security Number: Must be given when applying for a license. If either party does not have a social security number, they must sign an affidavit when applying for the license.

Application Form: Both male and female applicants must appear in person to complete and sign the marriage application. If one party cannot appear due to illness, is out of state, or incarcerated, he or she must obtain an ABSENTEE APPLICATION from the Clerk and Recorder’s office. The party applying must bring the absentee application along with identification for the absent party. Applicants need not be residents of Colorado. ABSENTEE APPLICATIONS MUST BE NOTARIZED.

Previous Marriages: If either party has finalized a divorce within 30 days of applying for the marriage license, the final decree must be produced. This decree must be signed by the judge or court referee. If the divorce has been final more than 30 days, divorce information must be given regarding date of divorce, place of divorce and court in which the divorce was finalized.

Ceremony: A marriage may be solemnized by a judge of a court of record, a public official whose powers include solemnization of marriages, or in accordance with any mode of solemnization recognized by any religious denomination or Indian nation or tribe. As of August 1993, a couple themselves can solemnize their own marriage.

[mike's angel]

Thanks!

[mike's angel]

I'm curious if I can get married at all. I asked a lady in charge of visitation in Oklahoma and she said in OK, there isn't any, no how, no way, weddings there. Does that mean I still can't get married proxy or do it ourselves?

[seansbabyluv]

Hmmm...there's no residency requirement for Colorado, so you would be fine coming here and getting the application...but you have to travel here, get it and then mail it to him and then come back to Colorado to get the marriage license.

I believe that even though he's in OK, he's technically still a resident of Colorado....now the only problem he will have is getting the absentee application from you because OK prolly won't let him have it. I got more info so I'm sending you a PM.

[mike's angel]

Thank you for your help!

[irshnrse]

That lady is maybe using Colorado's rules. They definitely allow marriages in Oklahoma. Look at this link...
http://www.doc.state.ok.us/Offtech/op090128.pdf

A "visitation officer" is not going to know about that stuff. He needs to ask his CM or Chaplain, then you can get accurate information.

[mike's angel]

THank you for your help!!!

[irshnrse]

Good luck!