Looking for Support

[SusanBarry]

Hi,
My fiance is currently being held on a charge of Murder in the first. These last 8 months have been an emotional roller coaster. I am dealing with so much and the outside world is cruel and heartless to talk to. I'm looking for any kind of support that knows what I am going through.If you can give me any advise , please do. Thank you for your time.

-Tortured soul

[sassygirl97]

You've come to the right place. You can vent, scream, cry whatever you want. We DON'T judge you!
Welcome to PTO

[alliebobo]

Welcome we are here 24/7 vent cry whatever you need to do

[BigDaddy72]

Welcome, my fiancee is also in on first degree murder, you're not alone. There's lots of support here. Feel free to ask anything, or PM. We're here for you.

take care

Jason

[metro3480]

Welcome to PTO. My heart and prayers go out to you in this very hard time. My wife is serving a 45 year sentence for murder and has done almost 11 years of flat time. I know all too well what you are going through and if you want to someone to talk to feel free to private message me or anyone of the members on here. We are all here for you.

[cessnadriver]

Welcome to PTO my friend! I really can't add much to what the others have written but feel free to PM if you like. My wife is 7 years into a 60 year sentence. These guys on here REALLY know how you feel. Feel free to talk to us.

--cessna

[Kay's man 4ever]

because I work late..

But, welcome Ms Barry to PTO. I would like to add my voice of welcome to the other gentlemen and ladies.

My wife is looking at 3 years State time in California and up to 10 years more time on a Fed charge.

As you may know, Fed prisons have no conjugal visits, so it can get real lonely at night, daytime, etc.

Yes, the other financial, legal, emotional, stuff can get you down.

Collectively, we have been through it all. If you have a question, I am sure one of us has an answer.

Just post your question, and we can answer you that day, if not that hour.

Or, just Private Message one of us. All the guys on this site are really good folks.

Jack
Kay's man 4ever

[Shona]

HEllo love i can relate my finanee is down for 15-life 2nd degree murder funny part about that he didnt kill anyone he was stabbed in the lung doing a fist fight my fiancee friend killed the man who stabbed my finanee both got 15to life my finanee can parole but doesnt have a date his friend has no parole. Its hard but its reality alot of people cant take it to much pressure to much time my advise to those folks is to get out while you can but my advise to the stronger woman thats gonna hold her man down through the storm rain bullshit and anything that may come yall way stay firm build a foundation to stand on thats stronger than brick or straw so that no one not even the wolf of the world can blow it down be strong my sister have No regret thats the key to this time No regret contiune to live beyond prison life on the out side. Never let that over take you can do it .BE Bless keep your head always ups even on the bad days even on the days you feel like breaking on those day you dont feel like coming from under the cover never break.

[Kay's man 4ever]

once again showing us men that loyalty, & decency is the hallmark of a God given relationship.

You ladies do inspire us men to be better supporters of our ladies behind the walls.

Thank you,

jack
Kay's man 4ever

[poohbearpr]

Welcome to PTO. Being here has been such an "outlet" for me. My hubby was only sentenced to 4 years, but to me it seems like a lifetime. This is an amazing place with so much support and an unending source for information. Please know that we're all here if you need us.
God Bless You....

[nghtwtch]

Welcome - There are going to be days when you feel like saying, "stop the world, I want off." We all go through it. The thing to remember is, we are all human, we all hurt. During the times that are the most difficult...PTO is here - when you want to share good news...PTO is here - when you need a sounding board...PTO is here.

Blessings