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View Poll Results: Do you have to bid or want to to be with him?
I have to do this bid 14 2.77%
I want to do this bid with him 358 70.75%
Both I have to and want to 134 26.48%
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Old 01-12-2008, 01:50 PM
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I want to cause I love him and i have to cause I love him
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Old 01-12-2008, 04:23 PM
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I am here because I want to be here for my man. I want to be with him and since he is in prison right now, this is where I am.
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Old 01-14-2008, 01:41 AM
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I signed up for this!

It never was a question once I learned what had happened, that I wouldn't be here. My heart guided me to his side, and here I stay. Hasn't been easy, not one bit of the way. But I'm not going anywhere.
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Old 01-24-2008, 02:53 PM
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I am here because I want to be here for my him
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Old 01-24-2008, 04:13 PM
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I'm here because I want to be here this time around.
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Old 01-25-2008, 03:32 PM
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I'm not married to him, but I'm with him because I want to be. I'm 23. I've been doing the distance thing since I was 13. With the first guy, I didn't know we'd ever get back in contact. I wasn't able to talk to him for 6 years (we lost contact, and he lives in Alaska). And my ex-fiance joined the military and was stationed in Korea. Now this stuff with my bf.

I don't feel I HAVE to stay, but I think it would be cowardly if I left. I know I can get through it, and with everything he's done for me the past 5 years, how can I not do this with him?

He's an independent though, so he wouldn't let it fly if he thought I was in this because I felt I HAD to be.
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Old 01-25-2008, 07:02 PM
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i chose both i have to and i want to because this relationship initially started because i wanted to be with him now 2 years later and many trials and tribulations later i have come to realize that when my mental strays away from our relationship and our love then i lose focus on the important things in my life.He is the one who pushes me to do good he is the one who picks me up when i fall,he is my best friend ,my rock. So in essence the want has turned into a have to because God will have it no other way.
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Old 01-25-2008, 09:37 PM
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I chose I want to. He is my true love! And I cannot see my life without him. This experience has been the hardest I have endured and the best thing all at once. I am a better person because of him and if I have to wait 5 years to spend the rest of my life with him then that is a small price to pay!
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Old 01-25-2008, 10:41 PM
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I love my husband more than anything. I will wait as long as I have to (because I WANT to). We have been together almost 10 years and have 2 kids and I cannot see myself with anyone other than him. He is my soul mate.. He is the only man for me.... forever and a week
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Old 01-27-2008, 03:11 AM
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I choose to do this with him. I didn't have to it was a choice that I made on my own. I could have walked away and said no thanks but he's a good man and I love him so I made the choice to be his lady and stick by his side.
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I want to because I couldn't imagine my life without him in it, our love is too strong to be squashed by a minor bump in the road.
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Old 01-27-2008, 02:05 PM
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I want to. I don't have to, nobody has to. Last time around I ended up leaving him. This time I know he's my one true love and we were meant to be together no matter what. He's my best friend, my soul mate, my everything and I am not going anywhere!!!
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I am doing this with him...we are in it together....I choose too...do the Time because I love him...I know I would never do it for anyone else...
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I dont HAVE TO do anything and I do mean anything, but stay black and die, but I am doing this bid because I WANT TO.

He's my soul mate, my best friend, where my world starts and ends, so this bid is something I wanted to do and am doing with flying clors!
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Old 01-27-2008, 03:54 PM
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You make sense Wobabi. I feel that it's both for me. I want to be with my husband and we are married. I am doing his bid with him because I love him and want to be with him and because we took our vows, and I am obligated to stay with him no matter what.
I agree.. I am married, and my obligation is to my husband.. For better or for worse.. So right now we are going through the worse.. I want to do this, to show him that I love him and devoted to him no matter what..
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Old 11-11-2008, 10:22 PM
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yeah I dont like it but I love him so I want to be there for him
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Old 11-11-2008, 10:33 PM
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I am here because I want to be and I can't imagine my life without him in it.....I am to committed to him now so I feel like I have to because I have to see this threw not because I am obligated to do it, if that makes sense.
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Old 11-11-2008, 10:35 PM
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Nobody wants to ride a prison term with the person they love, I wish all the time we weren't on this ride at all. BUT, I do this right by his side because he is the love of my life, his is so worth standing by. He is an incredible man. I am crazy in love with him and there is nowhere else I would rather be than by his side though anything life has to throw at us.
I don't do this because I have to, I do this because he is my husband and I am in love with him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him regardless of where he is.
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I said "for better or worse" and I meant it. If he was not my husband, love wouldn't keep me around for 10 years of this hell, so I voted I HAVE TO. Obligation is a big part of marriage, I stand by him because of my vows.
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Well let me say this I do this bid because I want to because I want to be with him
But do I have to no the only things I have to do in life is die and pay taxes LOL
no seriously though
I am here because I want to be here for him and I couldn't imagine myself anywhere else but by his side
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Old 11-12-2008, 03:14 AM
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I chose to do this with him. I chose to marry him while he was inside. We met and planned to marry outside, but the State of TX had other plans. So, we just went on like they didn't exist and got married anyway. He was quite pleasantly shocked to find that I was not only still here waiting for him, but willing to marry him while he was down (at what he considers the lowest point in his life).
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I chose both because I want to because I love him and he and our love is worth all this time apart. I need to because i love and need him just like he does me.
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i am not married to him, but i WANT to do this bid with him. it's my choice and he owes me nothing for waiting. he hates when i say that, i mean he really hates to hear me say that. he always says he owes me a lifetime cause i've made such a difference in his life. but to me i'm with him and i love him because i WANT to, not expecting him to kiss my butt or anything.(although, it's nice the times he does,lol!!)
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I WANT to do this bid with him because I NEED him , he is the only other half that makes me whole! The only thing I HAVE to do is believe and be patient!
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Old 11-12-2008, 10:17 AM
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You make alot of sense.... I do this bid because I want too. I love the man with all my heart....
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