having kids???

[JimmysonlyGirl]

I have had two friends that have recently gotten out and both of them are all about having kids and starting a family, and my neighbor waited for her man a minute and she said he was the same way but once he got it he no longer wanted the responsibility? How common do you think this is?

[StOkEs_GuRl4178]

very much men just want the titel daddy soo they can say there a daddy anthony is them same but he was shocked when we found out we where haveing a baby then he was all about it after i had they baby he was really good for a lil whiel but then he ran off andf left us then he called every day wanting to see his son but if he wanted him that bad he wouldnt had ran off on a dope beng.......then finally the day i was gonna let him come home i was on my way to get him and he go locked up 10 mins before i got there..then we talked it all out he went work realse and we saw each other all the time worked it out he exscaped and went to prison that where we r noww but this is the thing he all hung up on haveing another baby im like ohhhhhhhh HELLL NAW......but hes a really good daddy when hes wanting to do his part

[thatwiz]

I know my hubby wants to be the one spoiled, so I don't see it. He would like another baby but with our lifestyle, I don't really see it. Maybe he'll convince me, but I don't want the responsibility as the kiddies already here will be teens by that time, because I'm used to going where I choose when I want-thats why I don't even have a pet.

[LovingSoul4u2]

My husband has no kids biologiacally....yet he definitely claims my two. I thought I was finished with kids when I had my daughter...she is 30. Did nothing to stop from having them except to practice safe sex. My husband is not pressing me to have children...he says I'm enough but we've thrown the idea of "what if"....For us it will be God's Will.