Notice to new members intending to register - from January 9th 2012

Honeypopbee · #**1176** 07-30-2012, 12:34 PM

I would marry him wherever. I am loving a lifer and he might not ever get out. I can't understand why some people are worried about that "memory". Weddings and Marriage are not about whose there to see you or what your church looks like, its about standing together as one getting married and making vows to yourself, each other and God.

Congratulations to all of you who have done it! Keep Love Alive In Such Dark Places

johnnysgirl1225 · #**1177** 07-30-2012, 02:16 PM

yes i would in a heart beat! I love him with all my heart im gonna be there with and for him through the good the bad and the ugly!

mrs.nova · #**1178** 08-01-2012, 07:56 PM

yess i would in a HEARTBEAT!! we actually talked about doing it and looked into doing it but where he is they require so many counseling sessions so far apart and by the time we finished those he would be out and we wouldn't even get a chance to actually have the ceremony .. so we decided to just wait til he comes home :-)

xamariee · #**1179** 08-01-2012, 07:56 PM

I wouldn't want to get married inside of the prison but when he comes home that's something we can speak about and work on, as he's working on getting his divorce from his previous marriage done now

Reina365 · #**1180** 08-02-2012, 01:58 PM

My bf did the same thing. He's the one who brought marriage up in the first place. Im not trying to pressure him cuz im not ready to be married at the moment but I'm in love with him so he knows what the situation is. Im old fashioned in the sense that he needs to ask me, but I don't care if he's in prison. I just got through writing him about marriage because he said he would do,but said that he never thought he would get married. Im not pushing the subject cuz Im happy being his girl,but eventually I do want to be married and if he's not then I wish he didn't bring the subject up.

hmaltos · #**1181** 08-05-2012, 12:14 AM

YES I'm waiting for them to tell us which day we get to get married. So excited can't wait

mrs. moon · #**1182** 08-05-2012, 10:47 AM

I would def...we have already been talkin about it and I go to meet the counsler with all our paperwork Thursday

very excited to be marrying my true love. When he gets out we will renew our vows and have a ceremony then! Sooo in love. I'm not a picky girl..I don't need a huge wedding or anything fancy. That's not what marriage is about! We were only toghether 3 1/2 months before he got locked upbut I know we were meant to find eachother!

mrs. moon · #**1183** 08-05-2012, 10:49 AM

Wish us luck lol

mrs. moon · #**1184** 08-05-2012, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Honeypopbee

I would marry him wherever. I am loving a lifer and he might not ever get out. I can't understand why some people are worried about that "memory". Weddings and Marriage are not about whose there to see you or what your church looks like, its about standing together as one getting married and making vows to yourself, each other and God.

Congratulations to all of you who have done it! Keep Love Alive In Such Dark Places

You are sooo right the only ppl that NEED to be there r the ppl getting married and god!!

CVicioso89 · #**1185** 08-05-2012, 11:09 AM

No thus why we got married two weeks b4 he went I didn't tell him I wouldn't but he knows me I wanted a wedding with friends n family a cake n pictures prison wedding would have taken that from me didn't get my dream wedding but it was close

BabyGurlBoricua · #**1186** 08-05-2012, 12:09 PM

No, I wouldn't marry him in jail. He knows this. We talk about life together every moment we can, and he wouldn't ask me to marry him in jail...he wants to get married with all the people we love watching, and so do I.
I will wait for him forever, and when it comes time to get married I want us to hold onto that moment and look back at all the things WE made it thru to finally be happy. =^_^=

~Your Queen misses her King so much!~

stillstanding20 · #**1187** 08-06-2012, 04:48 PM

Helloooo I'm new to this but yes! Why wait?! He's my soulmate I'm crazy in love with my baby!!! Just waiting for the approval!

sweetcheeks_17 · #**1188** 08-06-2012, 10:39 PM

[quote="Copper1991"]I would and I did On April 20th 2012,,,, It was as special as it could be, I got a real kiss and I got to sit right next to him instead of across from him.. I miss him everydayuld too because i did too on December 19,2009

sweetcheeks_17 · #**1189** 08-06-2012, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by JewelryTears

He's asked me so many times, and I've said yes so many times, but he still hasn't seen his counselor to get the marriage packet!!!

I married mine in prison on December 19,2009 because he means that much to me and we love each other that much he comes home in 2015 only 2 years and a few months

ishookedonhim · #**1190** 08-06-2012, 10:51 PM

Of course I would but that is probably only because he has life. I think if he didn't have life then I would wait till he got out and showed me that he was going to do the right thing but that is just me

tdavisgirl · #**1191** 08-12-2012, 11:13 PM

I love my baby without a doubt, but he needs to be a free man without any 'motives' to get married to me. I don't want to marry me while he's incarcerated because he needs to satisfy his own insecurities that I try to disprove (and have never ever given him a reason to have, it's only because of his past). I need it to be carefully considered and thought out. Taking his last name will be my greatest accomplishment in life but he will need to be able to walk in the grocery store with me, go to the movies with me, walk down the aisle in the church with me before any of that happens....

MsUnique70 · #**1192** 08-13-2012, 01:23 PM

Yes I would..he asked me a few months ago if I would & I said yes..I was deeply in love with him before he went in & would have married him before..I don't care about the ceremony, just the relationship with the love of my life..

JLSC · #**1193** 08-13-2012, 06:46 PM

I would marry him anywhere. but he refuses to ask while he's in prison which makes sense because he says its not fair. And though he hasn't officially asked, I wear his ring, and we're planning a wedding for Next October(Though he really wants to get married sooner lol) Hell, I might just say, let's go get married in Jeans for us and then have the big ol' wedding(s) for our peeps.

dimples0120 · #**1194** 08-14-2012, 10:03 AM

Would any of y'all sign papers to do a common law marriage until he comes home?

MrsBettyLou · #**1195** 08-14-2012, 11:01 AM

Ha, I remember like it was yesterday. In August 2011, my guy was sentenced to life. I was able to buy a plane ticket to go see him for my birthday in March. We had not seen each other in over five months and hadn't touched in over a year. When I saw him I about lost my mind!!! We were wrapping up our last hour of visitation when he noticed I had my birthstone ring on. He wiggled it gently on my finger and said "I have to get you one of those" I laughed "One of what?" he looked down "A ring" I shook my head "Why replace that ring?" he frowned "Wait, which finger is it again?" I laughed. "Baby, my ring finger is on my left hand." I wiggled them and pointed. Without a word he gently slid my ring from my right hand to my left. "Will you wear that for me until I am home to replace it?" I smiled and replied "Yes" he squeezed my hands and tears filled my eyes. I haven't taken my ring off sense.

So in short, yes - I would marry my guy. If all goes well... (he is being temperamental at the moment) we may be able to have the ceremony in November. *crosses fingers* People think I am crazy, waiting for something that will never happen, missing my opportunity to BE happy, not allowing myself to live... etc etc. but they don't know us.

JLSC · #**1196** 08-14-2012, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by dimples0120

Would any of y'all sign papers to do a common law marriage until he comes home?

I totally would.

jadejonez · #**1197** 08-14-2012, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by lovethatman

This is directed to the GIRLFRIENDS (I'm a girlfriend too). How many of you would marry your guy tomorrow if he asked you? I love my guy with all my heart and plan on being with him forever. We talk about it alot but he has never asked me, but he does talk about when we get married (this and that) My answer is I would. If he asked me to marry him tommorrow, I would be there ready and waiting to say
"I DO"

:love:

we were together 1 year 4 months and lived together before this..... We have discussed it, I told him I would love to.. when he's out. We had things that needed work before he went in, they don't just disappear over night... But I love him, and weather we are "married" or not, he's forever in my heart, mind and all I do.

Downazzchick80 · #**1198** 08-16-2012, 05:11 PM

my baby didnt asked but made it clear it the next spot
(due to the fact he is awaiting a transfer )that we will be getting
married...he didnt ask he demanded gotta love it

....,

HisNDNgirl · #**1199** 10-04-2012, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by dimples0120

Would any of y'all sign papers to do a common law marriage until he comes home?

What are papers for a common law marriage? In Canada you are common law after living together for a set amount of time. Of course the federal recognition and provincial don't match because that would make to much sense.

My Man and I aren't interested in marriage it's not our thing but if he did something that got him federal time again (he better just stay outta trouble when he gets home, but if he did) I'd be saying "let's make this legal so I can have trailer visits" lol. Right now he is in provincial so that's not an option.

mrsalwayshere · #**1200** 10-04-2012, 01:02 PM

Nope and I wouldn't get engaged til he was home. He's not in long enough and I want to see where his head is. I would marry him tomorrow if he were home though!