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Husbands & Boyfriends in Prison For everyone who has a husband, boyfriend or male partner incarcerated.

View Poll Results: How many times has your man been in?
This is his first time. 166 37.81%
Two times. 103 23.46%
three times. 69 15.72%
More than three times. 101 23.01%
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Old 06-24-2008, 04:33 PM
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my husband has been in more than three times, but this is his first time in since we've been together, as we are mwi.

i couldn't do repeat bids, but that's just me. if he were to go back while WE were together, i would not be there to do the bid with him as anything more than the mother of his children...

but we are looking to brighter days, sans prison this time around.
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Old 06-24-2008, 04:51 PM
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This is his 2nd time in prison but only MY first time having to deal with the situation. I've already made it perfectly clear to him that this will be my ONE and ONLY time watiting for him. I told him and he understands, the consequences for him and for us.
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Old 06-25-2008, 01:49 PM
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He has been in trouble a few times and served a little 3 month sentence right before I met him but this is his first real bid and he got 7 years the first time. This is our first and last bid together.
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Old 06-25-2008, 01:50 PM
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It's more than 3xs here. But this is his LAST time...
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Old 06-26-2008, 09:31 PM
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this is his 4th time in....but the longest time! this is the first and only time i've done time with him...i have already told him i can't/won't go through it again.
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Default good point mistydawn

This is his first time in prison...but he got another charge while in prison....so actually we are working on a 2nd term....WITH NO BREAK!!!

Ugh, anyway, I said this would be the 1st and only time too, but honestly, I just don't know. I don't think I got to worry too much about it. His language and idea of how to survive or different now. For instance he use to say "I will do anything to make sure my family never goes hungry..." Now he'll say "I will work 2 jobs to make things work for us" NOW THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT.

The reason he got caught up again was because I use to agree with the mentality of "DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO", but now I'm like....IT AINT WORTH IT!

As a matter of fact, I proud of myself for turning down some "hookups". I don't want to be apart of nothing illegal anymore (well....nothing major i.e. speeding tickets, parking violations. ect)

Yea, so my point is...if my husband did get caught up, if it was for some B.S., I will wait, but if he's doing some shaddy stuff behind my back putting our family at risk...then that shows his love, and my love will respond with........let's just stay it will reflect his love for me

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He's been in and out 34 yrs . I love him with all my heart and hoping that he loves me and our daughter enough to stay out with us when he gets out this time.
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Old 07-06-2008, 09:05 PM
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this is my husbands third prison bit. i wasnt with him for the other two times. he goes back again, i am history. love is blind, not stupid. if he truly loves you then he will change his life to stay with you.
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This is his first and better be last/only trip there, because if not I'll beat his...
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my man has been two times and this better be the last
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This is my husband's 4th time, second with me. I told him last time I woudn't do it again and I almost didn't. The first 2 years I only went to see him 3 times and that was because our son wanted to see him, I only wrote about once a month to let him know what was going on with our son, and I wouldn't let him call. But a few months ago we finally started talking I still haven't said we would stay together but this time he has started to change and sounds like he is finally growing up. It's about time since he will be 47 soon. I love him with all my heart but I didn't sign on for this. I want a normal life with a normal family and a normal marriage. Hopefully he will have his head on straight when he gets out and stays away from the coke and the meth. That's what I pray for every night anyway.
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This is my first and my last my heart mind and soul and children will never face this again I love him with all my heart but it heart and it hurts bad
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Old 07-15-2008, 04:31 PM
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645 - lol it feels that way! He has been in and out since he is 15 in the 9 years i have known him he did a 4 yr bid and now in the 3rd yr of a 5yr bid and when I met him at 20 he was just coming home from a 3 yr bid.... I know i Know.
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Old 07-15-2008, 06:45 PM
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This is his third time but its the first time I've been around waiting for him. And it better be the last time because I don't know if I can do this again!
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Old 08-09-2008, 02:54 PM
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This is my hubby's first bid and WILL be his last! I don't think I could do this again.
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Well, not first bid...but he's only been imprisoned for this one particular case
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he has been in jail twice over this whole case and this is his first time in prison and it better be his last!
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Old 08-09-2008, 07:25 PM
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Mine's been to jail tons of times ! ! But this is his second time in prison.. Hopefully he'll learn !!!!!!!!!

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Old 08-10-2008, 04:35 AM
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This Is His 3rd Time Down
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Old 08-10-2008, 04:39 AM
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Mine too!!!
been in and out in and out!!!
but never this long!!!!! *tear*
but lets see if these men LEaRN Darn It! lol
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THIS IS HIS FIRST AND LAST! HE HAS DEFINITELY LEARNED FROM THIS!
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This is his first and I hope and pray...his last. I'm too old for this sh**!!
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Old 08-10-2008, 09:53 AM
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None.hes Been N Jail 4 A Lil Over 2 Years And Still Hasnt Been Sentenced.....but This Was His 1st Time Going
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Old 08-10-2008, 11:28 AM
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he's 42 years old and he's been to jail 2 times and state prison 2 times.
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Old 08-10-2008, 02:31 PM
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My Hadi is in jail, awaiting trial. It will be three years in Oct. This is his very first time and for darn sure will be his last.
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